Madeline Pendleton
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Tuesday 13 June 2023 18:44:31 GMT
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Madeline Pendleton :
I am non-binary but often say I’m a woman when rhetorically convenient to describe being socialized as such!
2023-06-14 16:08:19
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Saffron Burke 🍉 :
It's similar with SA - it's rarely a stranger, it's usually someone you know.
2023-06-13 19:10:28
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Eejee :
stranger danger made it easier for people you "trust" to hurt or abduct you
2023-06-13 19:32:30
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Mia Stites :
My husbands mind was blown when I told him my biggest fear was him killing me. I genuinely know he won’t. But it’s my biggest fear for a reason.
2023-06-14 00:34:14
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orion :
i think the 'stranger danger' rhetoric also leads to the normalization of DV/intimate partner violence and can make it harder for victims to realize
2023-06-13 22:04:07
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wren🏳️⚧️🍉 :
it also makes people not believe victims who are hurt by people close to them because they have a preconceived notions of what assault looks like
2023-06-14 01:23:24
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ruthyyy513 :
this is so true! i’ve done advocacy work for years for domestic violence victims and there’s so many times where the narrative is “you’re safer with-
2023-06-13 21:25:12
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sativa3diva :
i feel like that narrative also perpetuates the reasoning to not leave an abusive s/o. because it’s the “bad guys on the street”
2023-06-13 21:34:42
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KaiKat :
I’ve seen videos of women who’ve been married to someone for decades and then find out they’ve been hurting their children…
2023-06-13 19:02:53
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vanessa :
i always like to say it is safer for me to be traveling the country alone than living back home foe this reason lol
2023-06-14 15:18:13
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Becca 🇵🇸 :
i really want to change my mindset this way but unfortunately myself and several friends of mine have been harmed by strangers as well so it’s hard 😭
2023-06-13 22:40:43
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• natural intelligence • :
Yes! I also think society wants women to always be a little scared so they are kept ‘small’. I don’t know many women not afraid to walk in SF at night
2023-06-13 22:27:41
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ThornShadow :
true of almost any crime committed against an individual - kidnappings are the same way. we teach "stranger danger" for kidnapping, grooming, etc. but
2023-06-13 22:50:40
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Alisha :
My BF is always hesitant to let me walk alone when it’s still light out, love that he cares but gosh it’s infuriating, he knows I’ll still go 🤷🏼♀️
2023-06-13 19:32:55
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cherryemojigirl 🍒 :
this!! so important
2023-06-14 02:25:15
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Holly Ann ⚡️➕🪽 :
What’s wild is my mom trapped me in my house my whole childhood because of paranoia from always watching murder mystery dramas while being my 1 abuser
2023-06-15 17:59:10
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Lindsey :
where can I find these studies?
2023-06-15 14:39:06
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zavamorelli :
i totally agree but i’ve experienced so many instances of men following/chasing me and my friend so that part of violence happens to almost everyone
2023-06-14 16:18:22
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Could you talk about your opinion on religions/what religion you are, asking out of curiosity
2023-06-13 19:16:23
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kit :
same with CSA- it's so rarely a random friend's dad or man at the park. usually it's dad, uncle, or grandpa- the people you're most complacent with 😔
2023-06-15 15:16:41
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𝖋𝖗𝖆𝖌𝖎𝖑𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 :
Yeah, this is totally A Thing. One of my classes at uni last year was all about the social construction of vulnerability & went into how (1/5)
2023-06-14 03:14:48
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StaceyDrmninmoonlight :
This is so important to know.
2023-06-14 21:30:49
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Kwenami :
Those incidents have happened to me twice. It's not worth the risk
2023-06-13 23:08:32
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