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Alexa Leigh :
I watch all of your videos. So on point and true!
2023-06-15 02:54:00
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Grow up :
I don’t want to have to ask for help and explain it, I want you to see me needing help and figure it out yourself
2023-06-15 04:17:48
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Wanderlust✨ :
Their help is saying, “You got this!”
2023-06-15 13:42:44
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꧁Alicia꧂ :
Everyone I know also needs help 😂
2023-06-15 12:56:20
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hi :
Or when you tell them how you want help and they tell you those things aren’t important and to let it go 😅😅😅
2023-06-15 11:46:15
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No :
Like my husband won’t even help me do you think random people are going to? Bffr 😂
2023-06-15 05:15:29
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Act Two With Tammy :
I think they mean hire the help. And that ain’t in my budget. 😅
2023-06-15 12:48:28
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Steph :
Exactly. My mom came to help after my 4th baby was born and it was more exhausting to tell her what to do than it was to just do it myself
2023-06-16 15:37:00
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Sonia😊 :
Everyone is struggling… no one has free time free to give help… I feel like we are on a struggle Island. 🥺
2023-06-21 15:42:03
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meghgrace :
Sometimes I’m so tired that I can’t even figure out what I need 🫠
2023-06-17 12:46:29
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Lori story :
I was carrying my toddler AND my infant IN his car seat. Not only did no one help me open the door. The man on the sidewalk wouldn’t even move over.
2023-06-15 05:04:49
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snc_2026 :
I don’t have the extra time it would take each week to build a village/community of helpers in order to accept help.
2023-06-15 03:34:47
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kel’swhat2025 :
Yes! When I started approaching things in seasons, my perspective changed! 😁
2023-06-16 19:12:09
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kwagne1 :
Yup - I’m in the white knuckling it phase of motherhood. I keep waiting on this Village I was promised…
2023-06-15 10:53:30
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Betsy :
I just tell them play with my kids and keep them safe and I will get done what needs to get done. That is the best way someone can help me.
2023-06-15 19:49:57
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user7314405322174 :
ask for things like laundry or dishes, and accept it won't be done the way you want it done.
2023-06-15 13:36:24
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Jennifer Carlson-Lov :
I love my brothers! When they see me getting frustrated with a fussy baby they just take the baby. They just reach for the baby and don’t say a word.
2023-06-16 03:04:02
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user9383926402403 :
Yes!!! All of this, you get it!!! The freaking village has died.. I’ve accepted that it’s me or no one.
2023-06-16 13:19:19
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haycushing :
You’ve nailed it! Let’s normalize this. And allll the snacks
2023-06-16 16:50:59
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Alexandra Strelzyk :
“Could have done it 3 times over myself” … TRUTHHHH
2023-06-21 14:26:29
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CelticRedFox :
If only we could absorb sleep hours from someone else who had too much. 😅 That's the dream right there.
2023-06-15 03:18:03
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stephiemariedididi :
"you got thiss Mama" 😅
2023-06-15 14:35:30
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Tay Reeves :
Dude thank you because SAME
2023-06-17 03:59:51
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BleakerCo :
I've been saying this forever! I swear!
2023-06-17 17:29:03
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sassyangel526 :
Unless you have some close friends or involved relatives then no, it doesn’t help. It takes a village…. As long as you have a village.
2023-07-04 04:27:44
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Sarah :
Yes!! Preach
2023-06-15 13:23:06
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Jasmine :
yup on the same train as you! 🥰😂😅
2023-06-18 15:49:53
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dwatty2 :
When my 3 under 3 were littles, I would stay up late getting ready for the next day- there was no “tomorrow to catch up” on anything
2023-06-19 13:51:10
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Erin :
You could not have said it better!!!
2023-06-16 15:45:21
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Skinbypam :
Help? HA! There is no real help unless your bestie lives next door and your mom lives 2 blocks away 🤪❤️💪🏻
2023-06-15 13:55:51
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keelymonahan :
Yesssssssssssss!!! Dear lord yes! “This season of life is a dumpster fire!” Bahahahaha
2023-07-02 02:11:06
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Robbo :
I show up with food, wash the dishes, throw in a load of towels, and take the baby for a walk so you can sleep, then GTFO and not visit ❤️
2023-07-01 12:54:17
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Nicole :
When I had twins everyone said “I hope you have lots of help” no, actually I have none, thanks though!
2023-06-16 13:53:31
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theshadowworkguide :
been asking this whole time and somehow it takes more work 😭
2023-06-15 14:52:59
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Mari.Ana. :
Maybe it’s selfish but when you can clearly SEE I’m drowning why should I need to beg for your help? 🙁 ik everyone is struggling but damn.
2023-06-15 15:07:43
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jillmcdonnell246 :
Most of the time the people who are willing to help are the people who are in the same season of life as you 😪 #momshelpmoms
2023-06-16 13:33:28
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dahliagrl :
I had to explain to my own mother why most of the time it's easier for her to come to me, than for me to bring the kids to her.
2023-06-15 16:07:28
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Haley Cadman :
Or when you ask for help and they’re like “are you sure you need help with that? I think you actually need help with this.”like no.
2023-06-15 17:40:15
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Klblair426 :
My mom told me hire a maid, like HOW? All I’m doing is cleaning up toys/clutter, washing bottles, cleaning the kitchen and tons of laundry on repeat
2023-06-15 17:44:44
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Shelby Lynne Warren :
as a SAHM of an almost 2 year old, I get this!
2023-06-17 03:47:52
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Chicory M. :
I love your rants. I feel seen. Srsly. 😅
2023-06-16 04:31:44
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K :
Correct correct correct
2023-06-21 00:50:49
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Big Sky Steno :
The first two times I asked for help as a new mom when my kid was a newborn- I was told no. That ruined me on asking for help for a while. It’s sucked
2023-06-15 06:33:25
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tiffyd157 :
You are great!! Watching your videos makes me feel so much better. I am not the only one who thinks this way. Amen.
2023-07-09 15:19:29
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MindfulMama :
All of us Moms are like the energizer bunny 🐰 we keep going & going & going… we should all take a sec & be proud of ourselves!
2023-06-15 12:25:33
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NewSnackAlert :
This is giving “just make me a list” vibes. You know we need help, so DO SOMETHING! The laundry, a meal, take the kids for a few hours, anything
2023-06-15 10:50:15
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Samara Styles :
I love your content so much. Thanks for sharing your self.
2023-06-15 04:10:05
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Rachel MacCoy :
Omg this is sooo real!
2023-06-15 03:28:21
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heatherking7225 :
“Behind schedule…” trying to help you help me! This is the BEST! “Eat 👏 some 👏 ducking 👏 snacks 👏!”
2023-06-15 03:26:05
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Kae Mcc :
same honestly
2023-06-19 14:10:23
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Brandy Quinn :
Hahaha amen!
2023-07-25 00:16:30
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