@erinmcgoff: Sometimes, the smallest tweaks make the biggest impact 💥 Sounding confident & charismatic when you speak is a skill that will taking further in life than anything else 🚀 Start with these three tips: 1️⃣ Mirror or repeat others words. This shows that you’re actively listening and not steamrolling a conversation. After I pointed this out, you might even notice that the charismatic people you’ve met do this regularly! 2️⃣ Pause before you speak. We tend to quickly respond as a reaction to making sure the other person knows they’re heard. But if you slowly start to incorporate pauses, people will learn to expect them from you, and they’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness. Fewer words, higher value. 3️⃣ Use higher quality filler words. You don’t have to stop using fillers, they are a natural part of conversation. Without them, you’d sound robotic! But try to make them a bit higher quality. Instead of “yeah, like um, you know—“ try “however”. Instead of “so, uhh, um,” try “where were we?” 👂 listen to charismatic people speak. Watch videos of Obama, Oprah, George Clooney! Study them, see what they do. They’re slow, patient, thoughtful, witty. Practice makes perfect ✨ #charisma #charismatic #confidence #communication #corporate #careercoach #careeradvice #speak #publicspeaking #speech #howto #edutok #careertok

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