Rob Dial | The Mindset Mentor
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Wednesday 28 June 2023 03:10:45 GMT
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Theeonlymee :
My problem is- I ask all the questions and no one asks me anything. It’s always one sided. Am I that boring?! Lol
2023-06-28 05:42:36
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lunawhispersx :
When you have ADHD and you want people to know you understand and relate 😅 no harm meant and genuinely interested and care
2023-07-01 00:35:58
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Lisa :
I realize this but sometimes when you say I’m sorry to hear this , can I help ? They feel like your giving them pity and they react to it definitely.
2023-08-24 14:14:38
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TrashSnax :
I do this all the time by accident. I share my experience with them so they understand I can relate. I’ve gotten better @ not hijacking it over time.
2023-08-21 23:08:07
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Classybuttsassy22 :
I guess I do this but when I do talk like this I guess it’s my way of trying to connect to the person and/or show them understand what they’re saying
2023-06-28 10:28:14
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TurboKoala :
I don't agree, you kinda have to share information too, if not it becomes like an interview
2023-07-03 04:07:47
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Fatima Bailey 🦋🌻 :
Oh no! I’m guilty of this at times. It can be due to ptsd as a child as well.
2023-08-22 01:00:40
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About Social Anxiety :
While I agree, the “correct” version makes you sound like a therapist. At what point do you share your own stories?
2023-06-30 13:38:39
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the_homunculus :
I'm undiagnosed ADHD and it's really something we can't control doing, with us it's known as associative thinking. 🤷🏻♀️
2023-07-03 13:52:27
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Meg :
I’m in sales. People love talking about themselves …
2023-06-28 10:30:41
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Pisces :
I do this....I have major childhood trauma, CPTSD, adhd and social anxiety. It's relating....empathy. Neuro typicals see it this way.
2023-08-22 13:42:26
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Deborah :
There are some people in my life that I cannot talk to because of this. It’s not just once in a while, it’s all the time 😬
2023-07-04 03:41:50
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birdy08 :
It’s called a conversation 😂. We all do!
2023-06-30 09:10:30
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vicky_in_italy.eng :
And if a person looks on the phone while I’m speaking? What does it mean?
2023-07-01 20:01:07
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yourfavoritefixers_ :
Cuz we were taught in the 80’a that’s how to relate to people. Now we know better so we do better.
2023-06-28 03:30:37
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Aliciaphilly80 :
People with ADHD/Autism etc. do this as a way to relate and not to ever offend the other person
2023-08-23 18:21:04
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Jeanie :
These people are freaking everywhere!
2023-07-04 04:24:18
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Stephanie ✌ :
At this point I don't say anything. I feel like I'm never heard.
2023-08-22 00:07:45
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Panda 🐼 :
Is there anything I can do to help? Who answers like that lol 😆
2023-08-22 14:24:05
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Peppe D'Amato :
A conversation is between 2 people sharing information of both sides. Otherwise would look like an interview. You just need to have a balance
2023-07-03 20:37:58
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CareBear :
I just lost my step mom after caring for her for months and when I tell people she died, they want to tell me about people who died this year! 🤦🏼♀️
2023-08-21 21:44:42
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JustBeNice :
I don’t mind this, it’s the “one uppers” that drive me nuts.
2023-08-22 21:40:49
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David :
Truly listening to somebody is a rare superpower
2023-07-04 04:18:06
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L.Ann :
I hadn't even thought about it. I just thought it was being relatable, but I don't do it to hijack the convo. I take it back to them.
2023-08-22 12:31:20
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Gray :
Maybe they are sharing their experience to empathise and show they can relate?
2023-07-03 15:24:02
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