@dejashu: My parents have a strong Chinese accent when they speak English. Over the years, I watched strangers mock and mimic their accents, over-enunciate words in condescending tones and laugh adding in “ni hao” and “konnichiwa” in between their sentences. My parents would nervously laugh and repeatedly apologise saying “sorry, sorry, my English isn’t good, sorry, my daughter will speak for me instead”. As a result, I was always pushed to be the interpreter for the family. But I always wanted to fight back. Maybe it’s because I’m the eldest or maybe it’s because I’m fiercely protective over my loved ones - but witnessing this always made me see fire. How dare they make my parents feel inferior? “THEY CAN SPEAK THREE CHNESE DIALECTS FLUENTLY ALONE” I’d want to shout. But my parents would sense this and tell me to duck my head, to not make a scene and to be quiet. “We should be grateful we’re even allowed to live in this country” they’d say. “Never cause trouble, just work hard and try to ignore it. Don’t draw attention to yourself.” But who gets to decide how and what they should sound like? And how can we make sure linguistic diversity is celebrated more? How do we tackle accent discrimination in society and the workplace?
Despite the incredible range of linguistic diversity in Britain alone with world varieties of English all across the globe, accent discrimination unfortunately happens and whether intentionally or not - can seep into conscious or unconscious bias with non-native speakers sadly being the target for judgement and prejudice. I’m mindful, more than ever, of how our accents contribute towards our identity. I’ve never been embarrassed about my parents’ accent and I never will. I will never stop celebrating its diversity. Accents are beautiful. Accents represent our rich culture and heritage. Accents represent who we are and we all have one so let’s be damn proud of it. #chinese #british #englishaccent #britishaccent #cantonese #cantotiktok #cantonesetiktok #aapi #asianamerican #asianpride #asianparents #britishasian #britishchinese #britishbornchinese #identity #growingupasian #growingupbritish
Shu Lin
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Friday 07 July 2023 08:43:29 GMT
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shelleypoppins :
I too experienced this growing up. The irony is that these people making fun of our parents can barely speak one language let alone multiple 😂
2023-07-07 09:57:20
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elysian108 :
Love this. If they had learned a 2nd language themselves they would never breathe a word about another persons accent.
2023-07-07 11:12:05
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kthall1 :
Not only are your parents incredibly well spoken (3 DIALECTS) but also very brave to face constant adversity in home different from their own 💗👏🏻
2023-07-08 07:03:36
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luxlifelondon :
in awe of anyone who can speak more than one language, accent or not 💖 they make our country so much richer.
2023-07-07 10:26:16
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OliviaMaira•MIC Content :
This made me well up because people can be so unkind! 😭 I grew up in a place that had multi culture so I’ve been blessed to meet so many people 🥺🥺
2023-07-08 16:28:23
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The Visual Narrator :
I think your parents are amazing for speaking so many languages and dialects. Accents are wonderful!
2023-07-07 11:20:13
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Alex 🇭🇰🏴 :
They will be the same people who will say you are in England speak English
2023-07-07 19:54:05
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FLOUR :
😂
2025-02-10 11:25:38
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MeowMeow :
Your parents were not feeling inferior... They are very smart... avoid conflict, earn money and buy all the properties. 🥰🥰🥰
2023-07-07 09:34:03
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Jamie Ho :
I love this !! Such a great message, growing up as a BBC it’s so true
2023-07-07 09:09:28
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Vax :
I can’t believe people mocked your parents, I’m so sorry 🥺
2023-07-07 19:32:03
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amyfoodpix | Travel | Food :
Thanks so much for this. Every word is 💯💯💯
2023-07-07 21:57:24
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Dap Dap :
Just remember, there are a lot of people only speaks one language 😏
2023-07-07 13:01:15
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kiran 🌻 :
🥺🥺
2023-07-07 10:48:07
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handroidsdungeon :
♥️♥️♥️♥️
2023-07-07 10:42:27
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Smurg :
This made me emotional. People are assholes.
2023-07-07 11:14:39
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Alice :
♥️
2023-07-07 10:39:03
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oholynightowl :
Well said! My mum had a really strong Finnish accent in Sweden and it was always commented on.
2023-07-07 10:18:09
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Ellen :
Aw I feel this 🥰
2023-07-07 13:14:04
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Em :
The majority of people born here can’t even speak their own language properly let alone be talented enough to learn another.
2023-07-07 16:21:08
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Nichola Adores Alison :
I’m sorry to hear about your parents. If you are speaking your second or third language it’s a sign of bravery, accents are lovely.
2023-07-07 16:26:14
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HeyYou 🧧🧡🤍💖 🇺🇸 🏳️🌈 :
People of a particular skinshade are ignorant.
2023-07-07 17:49:08
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livingshelley :
Amazing message🥹
2023-07-07 10:14:03
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rina :
My experience to a tee but Japanese
2023-07-07 10:09:56
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B McN :
👏 👏 👏
2023-07-07 10:06:16
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OceanenBlue :
Noodle Plus!!!! Love them, lovely couple 🩷
2023-07-07 10:03:43
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Jessy :
Yes let’s embrace our accents and feel proud of them. 🥰🥰
2023-07-08 09:01:22
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jillianhobbs_ :
🥺
2023-07-08 09:09:59
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amber :
Yes!!
2023-07-07 09:56:37
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irgengiorohala :
which 3 dialects do your parents speak?
2023-07-09 13:57:06
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juliaveewrites :
💕
2023-07-11 02:46:08
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Kylie :
So well spoken 💖
2023-07-12 12:53:51
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John Park :
AMEN
2023-07-15 03:24:52
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D :
You gotta CALL THEM OUT. That's how they stopped making fun of the other minorities. Please. On behalf of all Asians.
2023-08-05 14:37:52
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Fish :
We should make it commonplace to fully learn a native language in it’s entirety(accent and all) before moving to said country
2023-09-15 07:35:37
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TVR :
These videos are hitting me hard! So pleased I found your account. Great to see your perspectives on growing up
2023-10-29 18:44:22
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Agent24699 :
u dont mess with someones parents. never. Youd be visiting me in prison if something was said about my parents
2024-01-22 17:15:38
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