@jbirdfit: #CapCut The avoidant’s behavior will no longer resonate with you because you’re doing the inner healing work. You raised your frequency and the avoidant is now out of alignment with who you’ve become. #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #datingadvice #selfworth
Jason Relational Intelligence
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Friday 07 July 2023 13:50:44 GMT
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seejanefish :
3 years in.... and Im breaking. ill never hear "i love you". hes not willing to do the work. uggggg.
2023-07-07 17:48:58
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Courtney Norton :
This is the hardest relationship I’ve ever been in.. loving him is so hard.. it’s a battle between the heart and mind
2023-07-07 13:54:35
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Annie :
needed to hear this today. thank you
2023-07-13 05:34:39
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BeacHappy :
I’m dating an avoidant. And I love everything about him. He has taught me a lot about myself without even knowing it.
2023-07-09 02:02:58
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Jill :
This is by far one of your best videos! Touching, man. Ty!
2023-07-07 17:28:13
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Sanpas :
I love your energy… 👍
2023-07-25 14:25:32
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liannealmeida :
I’m so glad I found your account. I didn’t even realize I was sabotaging my life like this. THANK YOU ❤️
2023-08-28 16:54:24
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Jazmin Varela :
So glad you popped up!! Cause yes!! Yes!! yes!! I have been working on my anxious attachment. It’s been almost 2 yrs of being single and working on me
2023-07-11 18:29:41
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Sonya :
This is spot on
2023-08-21 22:16:43
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JessicaBrown :
Anxious attached at least aware and willing to work towards healing. I cry alot and very sensitive. I cry when watching goodness in people
2023-09-02 11:37:48
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AngelGina❌♑️ :
You calm me so much I feel so relatable to all these things. And alll the things you say is exactly what’s happening and being said. And helped me
2023-08-22 18:56:07
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🌺🌸🌻☀️Trippy Bloomers💐 :
Lawd, there it is
2023-08-10 00:57:39
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teresa :
anxious attachment disorder with a little bit of avoidant, but more so anxious.
2023-12-26 06:28:13
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Chrissy1 :
Where do i start?
2023-08-15 19:58:56
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Ashley Hiner 🌟 :
I’m really struggling and found your account. I just want to say thank you!
2023-07-20 11:57:49
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Sannukka :
Im The opposit. Dont want to heal him. I run instead and try ro talk but I dont care
2023-07-21 10:38:21
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Mr. MollyWopp :
thanks bro
2023-08-02 06:33:45
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Penny :
I did this for 29 years. Felt like open heart surgery awake. Just bought your self love course. So happy to have come across your page.
2023-08-03 22:03:26
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user1491784800545 :
my gf avoids physical intimacy, its been 3 years,im ready to move on,can this be saved
2023-07-31 18:34:07
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lantana.444 :
Yes. Love & seeing their potential is not enough. They have to change for themselves & I have to love myself enough to walk away b4 I lose myself.
2023-07-12 21:00:51
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siobhánmarieinthecle :
1/2. Avoidant here. We don't want you to fix us. We're either comfortable being broken, avoiding the facts, or we know we have to fix ourselves.
2023-08-07 01:56:21
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Sannukka :
we lika really each other but OH mine how funny It Is. Like two small children playing and arguing. We are like 5 and 4
2023-07-21 10:39:57
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jeremydorfeld6 :
@Hustling 101 this ur twin??
2023-08-15 16:54:12
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user63630274452 :
But I was never anxiously attached until I inadvertently got with an avoidant. Literally zero history of these feelings and behaviors in myself.
2023-07-08 02:39:13
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✨TBIRD✨ :
I keep breaking my own heart by trying to keep my relationship alive. I can’t be mad at him because he doesn’t like me the way I want him to.
2023-07-07 19:52:07
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Shannon :
Can you be an anxious attachmer and then switch to an avoidant? I’m mystified this has happened to me.
2023-07-07 15:03:17
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jaemarlove :
Jason, tell us more about the 21-day self love challenge, please.
2023-07-07 15:15:22
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ghe226 :
Omg right now…I can’t break the cycle he brings so much contentment when I do finally see him. Happy some of the time over none of the time 🤷♀️
2023-07-07 14:26:03
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Brenda :
Damn
2023-07-07 14:12:46
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Mike Shoesmith 💪😎 :
Stop reading my mail 😳😁
2023-07-07 14:00:56
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cheersandspirits :
The avoidant decided he didn’t want to grow, became even more selfish and stopped reciprocating so I left. The end. 💪🏽
2023-07-08 17:05:49
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rattlemeb0nes :
At that very point of realizing the ways I abandoned myself in my most recent relationship. In no contact right now but hoping we both heal ❤️
2023-07-07 14:16:12
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Lodie :
When I stopped trying to people please and just stood up for myself is actually when the avoidant seemed to respond better to me.
2023-07-11 16:10:48
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🤍 :
for all the anxious people who will see my comment, please do your self a favor. RUUUUUUUUN
2023-07-07 14:12:36
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Andi :
My enlightened moment is: its not about avoidance want to give love or not - their simply dont have it. Its like beggin a person with amputated leg to
2023-07-07 16:06:28
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Mishellina :
Healing myself and my husband ( avoidant) is doing the work finally. But if I was single I would not stay with an avoidant again
2023-07-08 20:38:16
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S1000RR :
My god man, where were you 10 years ago🤦🏾♂️I could have saved a good bit of wasted time😳 love your content
2023-07-10 19:09:48
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𝕸𝖚𝖓𝖌𝖚𝖎𝖆 :
Can a secure person fall back into their insecure attachment
2023-07-08 01:35:46
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emiko :
Would it be okay to confide into my parter who is an avoidant about my attachment issues? Or would it be to much for them?
2023-07-07 23:14:59
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jacobvanderhilst :
I never paid enough attention an now I’m threatened by the end I’m extremely anxious and I feel worthless and nothing I do gains her love back
2023-07-07 20:58:14
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Remy :
I needed you like 4yrs ago lol never too late
2023-07-13 00:52:35
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Kimberly Maleyonok :
Do you have a podcast?
2023-07-09 13:03:40
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ᥫ᭡ ✞Crystal :
😳🤯 Damn. Looks at watch, it’s July 9th. Let’s go !!!
2023-07-10 03:06:54
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Jill Timmons :
Can I go in a walk w u? That was amazing
2023-07-10 19:00:27
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Tommy :
I’m secure but it only makes this a little easier. I’m not trying to fix her but I’d feel like I’m quitting on her if I walked
2023-07-07 17:25:18
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farmgurl :
dating an avoidant actually made me become secure as weird as that sounds. I'm grateful. but miss him
2023-07-11 00:36:37
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LadyMarine11 :
Soooo we are married 😅😅
2023-07-08 06:39:32
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Asawin :
Thank you so much for your life changing content 🙏
2023-07-13 05:13:38
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melayyenders :
Love this
2023-07-13 01:31:21
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gewoonange :
starting tomorrow July 9
2023-07-08 19:53:08
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stellar nature ✨️🌼💫 :
"my" avoidant is fwb only, we just don't work any other way. I'm avoidant/anxious and he brings out my anxious side so I had to break the bond
2023-07-07 14:05:27
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Jeremy Collins :
Find another anxious or normal person like yourself and it’s awesome !
2023-07-14 00:45:49
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jesse :
honestly was never anxious until I met them
2023-07-14 06:09:09
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J*Marie🎙️🎶💃🏼🙌🏼 :
Thank you for sharing your Wisdom 🙏🏼♥️
2023-07-08 23:27:05
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Melina :
Thank you!
2023-07-09 13:03:14
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fanzeeface :
I'm a fixer!! 😂... someone smack me now
2023-07-13 00:13:25
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TonyaAdoubleN :
Wow, this is me! Good grief.
2023-07-09 12:57:32
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~•♡Heather♡•~ :
I needed this message to come across my feed this morning.. thank you so much.
2023-07-09 13:01:33
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user2550547455989 :
I was dumped & cheated on many times. My anxious style always has become a self fulfilling prophecy. At 65 I'm done w all of it.
2023-07-07 15:37:01
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Mike :
But great video. This one really hit home and gave me a massive confidence boost and inspiration about what I need to do. Thank you
2023-08-05 16:09:24
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Josieallday888 :
I should tell him that it’s not attractive to be that way lol
2023-07-09 17:17:29
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Tabitha :
@CharlesVol88 I kinda fit this , do you? Look through his videos it’s amazing I wished I’d known them what I know now
2023-07-10 03:43:45
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