@drchelsey_parenting: So what do you do when your kid orders a red popsicle but then wants a yellow, and then it feels unfair to sister that they got a second? #drchelsey #positiveparenthood #positiveparenting #guidingcooperation #consciousparenting #gentleparenting #attunement #neurodiversechild #coregulation #parentingtips #parentcoach #moms #momsupport #family #consequences#adhdparenting

Dr. Chelsey Hauge-Zavaleta
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smokeyjew
Smokeyjew :
Ya but sometimes youre in a Position where you CANT get another one. And you have to teach them that
2023-07-09 00:15:46
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mirandalifestyle
Miranda + lifestyle :
What if you don’t have the money for another one?
2023-07-09 00:10:01
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anhouroutside
Francine Kopun :
Also, making her wait in line, which is not fun, may dissuade her next time.
2023-07-09 04:51:03
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emj1289
emj1289 :
The only thing I would do different is see if maybe a sibling want to make a trade before buying another. No pressure,just asking,we all make mistakes
2023-07-09 00:01:55
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kpeezy182
kpeezy182 :
I also see it as letting them have a small win here and there.
2023-07-09 01:16:49
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hair_by_tori287
Victoria Aubrey :
I wouldn’t. Sorry you learn from experience. If you didn’t like it to bad, next time pick something different. End of story.
2023-07-08 23:57:07
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shadowrenegade
ShadowRenegade :
I think a good way might be explaining sister didn't get to pick again she got to pick different. I'd that makes sense. she's not choosing a second
2023-07-09 03:40:31
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meaghanstone77
meaghanstone77 :
THANK YOU for these real life scenarios!! I struggle so much in these moments and so appreciate this insight!
2023-07-08 23:56:09
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ellie.oh
Ellie :
So helpful! I often worry about saying no to a reasonable request simply to reinforce a power dynamic.
2023-07-09 00:44:43
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hillbergerhelper
HillbergerHelper :
What are positive opposites? I’ve never heard that one before
2023-07-10 15:08:05
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raisedtoflourish
Hava | Ped Sleep Specialist :
I LOVE this. Sometimes I make boundaries with the intention of holding but realize it’s not in the best interest of either of us and I love what you
2023-07-09 03:47:31
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life.and.hair.with.lakin
Lakin :
what I want to know...is did you eat all those popsicles you used for the video? 😂
2023-07-09 00:18:06
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_cashu
_cashu :
You have to be my favourite creator in here. Thank you for making things make sense!
2023-07-10 13:45:04
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bannd4noreason
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my son just had a meltdown in the airport in punta cana. No ac,end of trip, and I found out it was because he wanted a souvenir that he saw but----
2023-07-09 15:10:52
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fancystephanie
fancystephanie :
I would throw the red one away to avoid a kid having 2!
2023-07-09 02:36:52
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6catsandaturtle
Christi Johnson :
to me if you as an adult don't like something at a restaurant, you'd get something else. why wouldn't your kiddo have the same choice (within reason)
2023-07-09 00:44:21
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kerrievans32
Kerri Evans :
I think this is cool because it allows your kids to try something different without the fear of missing out on a treat if they don't like it
2023-07-09 00:20:18
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melissawinnig
melissawinnig :
Whew I would not wait in the line again.
2023-07-10 18:12:12
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crystalprzy
Crystal :
oh we do that? I don't even correct my waitress if she brings me the wrong food 😅 let alone if I picked something I didn't end up liking
2023-07-09 16:23:47
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smum_80
s :
totally allowed not to like something. happens to us as adults. it's not a second, it's a different one.
2023-07-09 15:28:39
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froggy13love
Tay :
I have children with autism and everything has to be fair . How could I parent in this situation without having meltdowns ?
2023-07-09 15:15:15
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paqkwkwusm
paq :
I love your earrings! Where did you get them?
2023-07-09 05:23:15
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yenybear
Yenybear :
This happened to us yesterday with ice cream. It was my 3 kids and 2 nieces. It went very smoothly & I was very proud of all 5 kids.
2023-07-09 02:14:08
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desert_ladybug
Desert Ladybug :
Yeah idk I would just stick with the first one anyway. Now we know for next time, you don’t like red. 🤷🏻‍♀️
2023-07-09 02:04:02
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