@missclairebenjamin: How to tell your manager their feedback is unhelpful and not look defensive…😉 Constructive feedback can be great but when a manager gives you unconstructive feedback (vague, non-specific, generalised) it is often really unhelpful and frustrating. It’s easy to become defensive. Try to keep calm and let them know that you’re keen to act on their feedback but need specific examples in order to know where the potential opportunities for improvement are. A useful phrase can be “Thank you for the feedback- can you give me some specific examples of X so I understand which areas I need to focus on?” #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #managingpeople #communicationskills #assertivecommunication #difficultpeople #feedback #workplacetiktok #managerproblems

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barnumdoll
BarnumDoll :
Please can you give advice to deal with a micromanaging boss? Thanks!
2023-07-19 18:03:18
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alkestisss
Alkestis✨ :
I’m new to the corporate world. A manager invited me to lunch. He asked me who is irritating me, who told me that or that. Is this normal?
2023-07-28 19:33:07
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bethandaviesart
bethandaviesart :
My boss told me I need to be gentler with my time in emails followed by a sexist rant about women in positions of power emulation Maggie thatcher 1/
2023-07-19 16:23:13
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dvm2018
DVM2018 :
had a manager say people say you are abrupt. ok, can u give me examples so I can change this. NO! Well don’t expect change then.
2023-07-10 21:09:18
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missrosiemay
Rosie May 💛 :
Every month in my one to one my manager brings in issues that aren’t relevant or affect my job role. Can you help with handling a manager? 🥺
2023-08-09 11:07:35
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looobeeeloo
Louisa120 :
I had this. not as a manager but from my manager as an employee. wouldn't give examples of what I had done but wanted me to change. I soon left!
2023-07-21 12:00:03
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jjhawkins87
user1949886069912 :
lol at teams calling telling them to go to their office. Get up and go and get them!!
2023-07-20 15:55:42
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virginiapinkney66
V Pinkney :
Love and appreciate your videos!
2023-08-04 06:38:31
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livslogga
Thats not my name :
I had a boss tell me people didn’t like working with me. When I asked for specific feedback my boss refused. Said he needed to protect them 🤯
2023-07-17 17:48:05
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sarahjazzi
Svk :
Leadership are not going to give examples to maintain confidentiality of the person who complained because this person created a toxic environment
2023-07-21 02:44:26
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jonekzm
jonekzm :
Started a new job, asked my manager if she thought i had any gaps in my knowledge and was told “you should know what you dont know”… very helpful 😂
2023-07-25 20:28:08
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adorkable_jenn
Jenn :
My manager gave me huge generalizations. I asked for additional specifics. She couldn't so it. It just feels like bullying 😔
2023-08-02 00:18:43
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michael_leadership
Leadership in Construction :
at least the feedback was in-person 😂 I received feedback like that over MS Teams Messenger more than once from senior directors 😮‍💨
2023-07-20 06:00:38
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birkenheadboy
BirkenheadBoy :
sounds like shes being passive aggressive 😂
2023-07-21 14:44:24
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jamesrawson16
James Rawson966 :
What about a manager that contradicts themselves?
2023-07-25 07:32:02
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tuckabee
Melissa G Tuckabee :
This doesn’t work. I wish it did.
2023-09-05 16:07:53
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charlieleigh19
charlieleigh :
How do you tell your manager you have a job interview?
2023-09-20 21:17:18
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ch3zzaa
ch3zzaa :
thank you IL rehearse this
2023-07-26 13:44:53
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drakehoodie
breadman :
lol, these only work in companies where they Have a corporate or be serious dept. otherwise just leave, do some of that loud quitting
2023-07-26 00:22:07
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stephaniewatt92
Steph Watt :
How would you handle if your boss was calling you names like ‘sheltered’ or ‘sensitive’
2023-07-18 14:20:53
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t1ck1tyb00
t1ckityb00🇨🇦 :
better yet they give the correction to a whole team meeting so no one is sure if it's about them or not
2023-07-18 20:07:52
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runnawaybride3
Runnawaybride :
Same as my situation. She ran around for gossip then requested me to change my management 😂
2023-07-23 11:32:15
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stairforce58
John Riley220 :
I have found it is funny how allegations go away when you ask for examples.
2023-07-25 23:15:46
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