paigelayle
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Nani :
What is viewed as “a problem with authority” is often experienced as an objection/reaction to inequality or “unjust”superiority.
2023-07-13 14:54:42
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Feifinthenight :
Ah the “stubborn control freaks” is so true. I once had an ex friend ask my where my “book of friendship was” he said I must have 1, filled with rules
2023-07-13 14:48:31
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the.jenna.diaries :
As an AuDHDer - one of my biggest pet peeves are like social rule breakers… I’m like STICK TO THE SCRIPT 😡😭☠️
2023-07-13 20:53:43
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H.C. :
The way the doctors talk about us, is like we aren’t even people, but like test subjects
2023-07-13 13:41:07
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Daniel Walker :
people who dust or clean upper surfaces after the floor, like, you're doin it wrong and now imma have to vacuum or sweep again 😤
2023-07-13 13:43:41
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Rachel :
For me, it’s that I always care about efficiency and something being done correct and I can’t fathom everyone else not also wanting that. So I’m bossy
2023-07-13 17:37:45
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user8151920742596 :
I don’t think it’s when it has nothing to do. From my understanding it’s from being told not to do something (so they are not in control) they then
2023-07-13 13:13:30
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Carah :
OOOO! Yeah! "You're playing wrong! DO IT PROPERLY!" Is exactly what I went thru. Group projects were always a nightmare too
2023-07-13 16:28:53
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💙🫶minor_moments⚡️📚 :
Me to my therapist this week: Just because NT people do something doesn’t mean it is correct.
2023-07-13 18:05:21
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Braddie J :
Persistent Drive for Autonomy
2023-07-13 13:11:59
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Katelyn0516 :
Starting my first year as a spec ed teacher (all my students have autism) and I would LOVE to talk with you so I can best support my students!
2023-08-14 01:25:48
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teaching.but.different :
How can I help her see things from others perspectives instead of only her own. I can easily see her perspective but I want her to see others too
2023-07-25 00:17:33
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ADHWee :
Lol I have two PDA kids who also think everything they do is the right way to do something. Fun times (I am PDA, too)
2023-07-13 13:13:34
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Elle Watts :
I also feel like for me there's a huge feeling of anxiety like "if you don't play properly, you are in danger! and I must protect you from pain!!"
2023-07-21 22:36:15
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Aaron Josephs :
honestly the state of autism research is... pretty bad. they get a lot very wrong
2023-07-17 03:59:42
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Rebbekkah Jones :
as someone who has Oppositional Defiance Disorder and also has ADHD I have definitely felt like this especially when it comes to my younger sister.
2023-07-30 06:21:40
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Andrea Marie :
Do you think this also stems from anxiety?
2023-07-16 16:14:35
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somemessyvignette :
Yep. The need to understand the demand. This is the main reason I was always in detention.
2023-07-24 13:09:50
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mk :
Your perspective helps me understand my daughter more, I appreciate it so much
2023-07-13 13:57:10
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Joepage :
Almost seems like logical behavior to the best of your ability, in the situation?
2023-07-13 15:57:40
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U clock :
I guess I don't have PDA; I don't feel stuck, I feel angry and it's not that I can't do it, it's that I don't want to, I just straight out refuse to
2023-07-13 18:10:21
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user5868935626845 :
I’ve always told people, if you tell me the why it’s easier for me to do… so, PDA huh? 🤔 wow. Thank you 🙏🏼
2023-08-08 03:10:36
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Awkward_Little_ ‘Tato :
I like the term persistent demand for autonomy for PDA over pathological demand avoidance because I want to know why I should do a thing
2023-07-13 13:27:26
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🌸 PIXIELOCKS 🌼 :
Can PDA also be a symptom of ADHD or is it autism specific? 🫶🏻💕
2023-07-13 17:06:31
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Tetch :
This is why I don’t understand math. I always wanted to know why to use a certain way and when people couldn’t answer except for “you just do” rage
2023-08-02 01:20:49
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