@drjulie: ๐ The No.1 thing. Anxiety tells us to escape and avoid. That makes sense if we are truly in danger. If we are not in a survival situation and the thing you fear means something to you and the life you want to live, then do it as much as possible. Whether it be learning to dance, joining that art class having never before picked up a paint brush, going to a party and challenging yourself to talk to someone new. If fear is holding you back from doing something that would enhance your life, take baby steps at first, and just start. Start today, and again tomorrow, and the next day. Keep going in achievable steps, however small, and donโt stop until it becomes part of your comfort zone โค๏ธ ๐ More on this in my international bestselling book - Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? (Currently -50% see link in bio). Filled with insights from therapy about how to deal with real life problems. Available in over 40 languages ๐ฌ๐ง ๐บ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ณ ๐จ๐ณ ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ฆ๐ฑ ๐ง๐ท ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ท ๐จ๐ฟ ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ช๐ช ๐ซ๐ฎ ๐ซ๐ท ๐ฉ๐ช ๐ฌ๐ท ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฎ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐น ๐ฏ๐ต ๐ฑ๐ป ๐ฑ๐น ๐ฒ๐ฐ ๐ณ๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ด ๐ต๐ฑ ๐ต๐น ๐ท๐ด ๐ท๐บ ๐ท๐ธ ๐ธ๐ฐ ๐ธ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ท ๐ช๐ธ ๐ธ๐ช ๐น๐ผ ๐น๐ญ ๐น๐ท ๐บ๐ฆ ๐ป๐ณ
Dr Julie | Psychologist
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Thursday 13 July 2023 15:52:06 GMT
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alex reisen :
the thing that makes anxiety worst are expectations
2023-07-31 06:13:12
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Millertime :
Give us examples Julie
2023-08-06 20:18:14
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Rachel ๐ช๐ธ๐ฌ๐ง :
I have a phobia of getting on a bus!walk everywhere these days,really annoying and I want to get over this anxiety that I have!
2023-07-13 20:25:06
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K9MuddyBuddy :
Do you do therapy sessions?
2023-08-17 13:02:45
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thebeautifulrat123 :
Hi, can you do a video of how to deal with bad friends? I have a bff that allways offens me for liking fashion games saying that they are for kids....
2023-07-16 18:32:33
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shawnahermiston :
Cutie!)) @Alexa
2023-07-13 15:54:08
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Lulu87 :
Mine is crippling due to a toxic bullying boss. Im scared Im going to explode if I face up to her.
2023-08-22 22:11:00
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independent woman :
nor sure if that's a good idea mine is telling someone no xxx
2023-07-22 21:08:53
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sylvester.not.stallone :
i find speaking to new people so terrfying and i avoid it alot even though i genuinely want new friends
2023-07-13 16:02:52
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AhmdZmr :
Greet people or make a conversation 1st ๐
2023-07-15 13:57:19
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Levonโsโน :
For me itโs making big decisions and committing such as the Uni program or the city I live in. I cant keep changing my Uni program ๐๐
2023-07-15 21:49:44
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Zac Nikolovski :
this lady has done more for me than therapy ever could
2023-07-14 02:17:10
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Jac :
no matter how much I expose myself it never gets better. I've been doing the same things for twenty years and have the same anxiety no matter what
2023-08-28 11:51:00
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hamshri :
โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
2024-09-24 21:51:46
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liammc927 :
does anxiety go away from people
2023-07-19 14:45:04
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user2088214772760 :
I've been doing that lately. Avoiding emails. Asleep is the best option for me
2023-07-13 15:58:43
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Gashew :
You are the woman I am obssessed with your golden counselling and guidance.
2023-07-13 16:00:57
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Thatโs all she wrote :
@willbyyyy follow
2023-08-27 20:22:57
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Arty.Minx :
What about going out and doing it and failing, makes you feel even worse?
2023-07-16 23:12:38
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Mayang :
I get anxiety attacks before I start my shift at work, whenever I have a client meeting...
2023-07-18 01:26:31
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Miranda weston :
i try i feel like it never goes away
2023-08-28 06:22:00
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Kylie :
I do this but one day of avoidance makes me go back to square 1
2023-08-31 10:01:09
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feez :
that sounds horrific
2023-10-10 02:25:29
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Lisy :
Easier said then done
2023-08-26 06:56:54
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โโโโโฅเผโฌฦคัรธัฮทแฅxโฌเผ โฅโโโโ :
Wow Camera Quality is crystal clear ....n massage even clearer...what camera did u use ?
2023-07-20 19:00:04
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Siniyex :
Thinking about changing work to retail to help over come my anxiety should I
2023-08-29 06:43:16
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BlueSkyIsOverrated :
Unless your autistic, then this is a great way to meltdown or burnout
2023-08-22 08:12:35
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em :
factss i became so much less anxious once i broke out of my comfort zone
2023-09-02 15:05:05
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AG :
Uh uh. Too scary. Not doing it ๐ฅบ
2023-07-17 08:25:09
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summer :
hi I think I have depression and anxiety.... idk what I'm meant to do
2023-07-14 17:03:16
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Rockon :
Thankyou
2023-07-20 10:38:02
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alicepalace85 :
Easier said than done
2023-09-04 21:31:05
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Hafiza x :
@Inactive2023
2023-07-14 14:50:11
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Lyrikal :
@Dr Julie | Psychologist what if the anxiety is caused by Thanatophobia?
2023-09-14 06:14:12
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โ๏ธ :
@nunya ๐
2023-07-14 11:12:34
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paulineharders :
Tell me how do I get Salome one to tell me why they were not happy with me yesterday or should I just prude it off and start new
2023-07-24 21:03:27
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S :
God has not created us with a spirit of fear. Lay your anxiety at Jesus's feet, turn them into prayers, He will set you free
2023-07-17 01:06:18
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O_o Viny92 :
Pushing myself out the comfort zone is the most adventurous thing and rewarding๐
2023-07-13 15:56:13
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The Cosy Quote :
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2024-02-17 20:48:10
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Alice Fini :
i'm afraid of everything
2023-07-20 13:11:27
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Laura :
I'm not sure that's always necessarily good advice...
2023-07-13 20:03:06
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Mรฉcรจne :
Agree! Sometimes setting unrealistic high standards for oneself can also fuel anxiety. Let us learn to find the balance! โจ
2023-07-18 07:53:51
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Mrs. Caplan :
*me scrolling away quickly*
2023-07-13 16:18:46
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Gargoyle thunder :
It depends on the amount of the anxiety each person has โ๏ธ๐
2023-07-17 14:32:21
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emmadavis6290 :
Iโve realised with anxiety if it worryโs me get it done.
2023-07-21 19:29:37
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Albertรธ drakestein :
ERP- exposure and response prevention is the KEY(here response means anything u do to get rid of the feeling of distress, just be aware if it)
2023-07-13 15:55:49
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harmony :
I love you โค๏ธcan you advice people that have cheated on their partner and they regret doing it๐ฅบ
2023-07-14 20:30:47
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jay_. :
I needed this so much. I had a really bad day today and I ended up having a panic attack. I feel like I should definitely follow this mindset now on
2023-07-19 19:19:15
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RGC :
No. That only increases rejection, sadness and disappointment increasing anxiety 10X
2023-07-13 16:29:23
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Lisa Dais-Hartnell :
I absolutely agree. Very hard though.
2023-07-14 04:06:56
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waleed_digital_desk :
Nice ๐๐ฉต
2023-07-13 23:47:06
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