@mackenmurphy: GENERAL RULE: The more women like you, the more women like you. (The same holds true for men, but just to a lesser extent.) This phenomenon is known as mate-choice copying in the evolutionary biology and psychology literature. From my appearance on @The Coffee Breakup. #dating #advice #psychology #facts #Science #beauty

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rangebrother0
Josh :
Could this explain why men tend to gain more attention when they’re already in relationships as opposed to when they aren’t?
2023-07-15 10:55:25
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leoreo223
Daniel OConnor :
I've definitely experienced this I'll sleep with one girl after like a month and then the next 2 weeks or so I'll see 4 or 5 more
2023-07-15 16:11:27
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adamhamzehhh
hamzeh.studio :
I think this works on some women but I’ve seen it go the other way as well where she’s immediately turned off if you have options
2023-07-28 22:30:14
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iwtfdofhjfgo
Drunnrruudrsjn :
Pete Davidson effect
2023-07-15 10:45:44
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t.avian.t
Cob :
The type of people who want that person also matters imo
2023-07-16 01:15:59
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annanymous11
Annanymous :
I am more interested in the reasons for mate-choice copying. Is it safety signaling or more group think?
2023-10-12 03:30:48
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big.bear.9
bigbear :
probably only in small doses, especially early on when you dont know much about each others lives. it doesnt take long to infer that someone is populr
2023-07-15 11:40:27
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sarcasticallyalive
Sarcastically Alive :
Having options stresses me out though. It gives me some kind of bad emotional whiplash.
2023-07-17 19:22:27
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rivv_97
rivv :
safe from this one
2023-07-17 07:15:33
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catalinmarius335
catalinmarius335 :
everyone else wants this person, they just know something I don't know.
2023-07-30 17:10:26
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its42069uas
Dragonheart :
Never in my life have I cared about the opinion of another man about a woman 🙄
2025-09-16 05:26:56
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user6382629279
user6382629279 :
💯
2023-08-29 17:41:56
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mackenmurphy
Macken :
Thanks for all the positive feedback on “Why People Cheat.” 41 minutes of the science of infidelity, see the bottom left of the vid.
2023-07-15 10:32:39
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who__chose__j
The chosen J :
definitely, but I only see these apply to women, never seen a man get turned on just by the fact that the woman was not single or with someone
2023-07-15 17:26:58
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denismedina98
Denisse :
Funny how at least for women, men are less likely to approach the women w/ more “options”. Or at least not the ones we would consider attractive 😅
2023-07-17 01:46:29
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symonespeakingg
Symone Esq :
Women definitely don’t need to actually say this lol. Y’all know
2023-07-18 13:12:15
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mackenmurphy
Macken :
Some research suggests this effect is stronger on women. Hard to say why but I’d guess it’s because men have more reason to be scared by competitors.
2023-07-15 10:33:45
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nuzuzidolette
nzuzidolette :
Me it thé opposite, I get turned off and let that man go 😅
2023-07-15 15:08:56
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mumsbestiee
yourmumsbestfriend :
Those redpillers also said the same thing just slightly aggressively. The more girls you have the more attractive you become
2023-07-15 10:49:09
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freelybre
🪽bre :
i’m not competitive at all, they can have him LMAO
2023-07-15 12:38:47
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mackenmurphy
Macken :
From my episode on The Coffee Breakup podcast; you can find the full episode anywhere.
2023-07-15 10:31:59
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alicat_livingston
alicat_livingston :
I am super turned off by men who are swarmed by women.
2023-07-16 06:47:07
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motheress
A :
If a guy says that to me I would lose feelings so fast
2023-07-20 10:39:24
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cult.of.rationality
Chris :
Perfect example of your blank slate ideologies… Men aren’t “equally” worried about social proof to a “lesser extent.”
2023-07-15 16:52:09
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pistachio2117
pistachio :
why do I feel the opposite, oh right maybe cause I have low self esteem 😂
2023-07-15 10:56:33
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