Helen Villiers MA
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Sunday 16 July 2023 04:23:53 GMT
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Shae🧪 :
This costed me my car and college degree I learned who they really were that day& it still hurts
2023-08-11 00:23:31
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Sarah :
begged my mother for help when I was on the edge of suicide. she rejected me. I attempted. almost died. then she told me I should have asked for help!
2023-07-18 00:24:11
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Caitlin :
my mom remembered every time she "helped me" and threw it in my face over and over
2023-07-16 13:25:13
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FabAutumn :
So much control around money, but no emotional. Exhausting.
2023-07-16 15:45:06
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clawmecrazynails&spa :
I would rather struggle than to ever ask for help because I know how that goes
2023-07-16 13:28:20
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Allie Roberson :
My mother insisted that I live with her because she was worried about me during my divorce and now has accused of using her...Never again..
2023-07-16 16:05:58
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StephylococcusAwesomeus :
Yessss my dad insisted we take some money for emergencies, then shamed us for not being ‘independent’ in his speech at my sister’s wedding 🙃
2023-07-16 08:35:04
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Amy❤️ :
My mother…. 9 years no contact the best thing she ever forced upon me.
2023-07-16 09:02:02
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Kate LoveIy :
Makes it so hard to expose them because it makes it seem like they’re very supportive
2023-07-17 12:28:34
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Shopgirl571 :
Oh god just realised how I was played
2023-07-16 07:20:10
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4_Deep_2019 :
The worst thing you can do to a narcissistic parent is to gain independence. To not need them. Because at that point they can’t control you.
2023-07-27 21:07:49
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tonz :
My mother insisted on watching my kids for the summer,so i didn't have to pay for daycare. when i picked my kids up she gave me a bill for her service
2023-07-17 18:33:02
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Yakoozies 👑 :
this is a little too accurate
2023-07-16 05:56:16
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whateverrrrrr323 :
My dad always got mad that all we wanted him for was his money. Like sirrr… that’s all you have to offer ? You made it that way
2023-07-20 17:36:38
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thatveganmomof2 :
This but husband
2023-07-17 13:54:43
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user4658341445930 :
the constant reminder that they "helped" you and "did everything for you"......
2023-08-29 17:17:18
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Nadia :
Jesus…. That is my mother. Still trying to force money on me to this day so she can gain control again (I am 37). I’ve learnt my lessons… never again.
2023-08-22 15:25:55
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charzy :
Annnd this is why I filed bankruptcy. I no longer had to depend on them and then went NC.
2023-07-16 14:48:31
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Christina Depenbu416 :
I'm excited to see the gorgeous hair that you mentioned in the podcast. It's stellar.
2023-07-17 18:44:34
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🏳️🌈🦊 Tempest Fox 🦊🏳️🌈 :
Yup. My mom sabotaged me getting my license and then would scream at and guilt me for needing a ride (rural areas - no public transpo)
2023-07-16 06:45:08
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briskito :
This is my mother- giving me a card "to use" - goes to relatives house and cries and victimises that all we do is use her money 😳
2023-08-23 20:07:04
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piper zy :
My parents told me my name was on a house, and that’s why I wasn’t allowed to work during school. The whole time it was not.
2023-07-16 05:38:09
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Ché :
And they go completely crazy the more independent you get
2023-07-27 23:47:19
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S <3 :
Yes, and it’s exhausting 😩
2023-07-16 04:46:26
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LeannaUnfiltered :
My mum only does it to look good then behind closed doors punishes me for it
2023-09-06 09:20:02
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lnel5 :
After I went NC, she kept saying, “After everything we have done for you.” Yes, she has done a lot, but she didn’t treat us kindly or respectfully.
2023-07-16 14:57:24
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wiley :
my mom uses the things she’s done for me against me later as leverage. I can’t confront her on anything b/c “you had a roof over your head!”
2023-08-15 16:33:44
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Cammy :
They need you on their terms. When you're no longer needed you are disposable
2023-08-02 06:25:53
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🦋ＭＯＴＨＭＡＮ(ＤＩ)🦋 :
my mom begged to pay my phone bill to help me since Im disabled and use it for work. I asked 4 space cuz she was hurting me n she took me off the plan
2023-08-27 23:05:12
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parkOT7 :
My mom did the same
2023-08-30 13:39:58
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Rui :
my exes mom wouldn't give him his ss card or birth cert so he couldn't get his own bank account to control him
2023-07-16 21:05:35
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caterinacatita444 :
Wowwww, this hits hard.
2023-07-16 08:02:44
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✨Darling🌱 :
Can this be emotionally as well?
2023-08-16 14:30:50
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Nicole :
My mom loves when people are beholden to her so she can have power and control over them
2023-07-16 18:08:51
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Yaya 💕 :
My mom after she literally begged me to come back to live with her, then punished me for it LMAO
2023-08-21 16:12:37
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Bird :
Infantilism is such a crippling and cruel tactic. It can last most of our lives and make us feel worthless.
2023-07-16 14:50:40
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✨Charli :
The way this hits deeper than anything for me
2023-09-09 14:26:59
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LA :
The worst kind of parent yet they expect help
2023-07-16 05:51:37
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sabinakylie :
bro,they remind me of how many things they've spent on me and even food,every minute of they day,haha
2023-08-20 00:23:56
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biglove773 :
Unfortunately this is EXACTLY my experience!
2023-07-16 05:33:07
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Rachel Rodriguez :
My mom promised to keep a secret for me. I trusted her 1 last time and she betrayed it. I never trusted her with anything important after that.
2023-08-20 06:19:46
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Sasha :
Yes. They know nothing besides control and domination.
2023-08-02 06:50:05
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End violence against women 🌍 :
Also, I recently told my mum I might have cancer, she burst into tears and told me off for making her depressed. Hmmm 🤔
2023-07-16 14:23:25
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arjuna ૮˶• ﻌ •˶ა :
it hurts hearing something i’m well aware of, said by somebody else… its so validating 🥹
2023-07-19 18:52:30
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Hannah Syler :
@tigerdreams “if you need something you gotta tell me!” *gets punished for telling in the wrong way or for having needs at all*
2023-07-16 15:21:40
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Sessy Fuchs :
had to explain to a friend that I can't ask to borrow my mother's car because she'll hold it over my head forever and insist to come with me to ikea
2023-07-16 15:24:13
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Suzanne Garrard655 :
yep yep yep
2023-07-16 04:43:56
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Riphest :
this is why I NEVERRR ask my mom to do anything for me. There are always conditions and I always owe her something after.
2023-08-18 19:31:44
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Ann :
My mom loves to say they’re always there for me until I actually need them. Then they’re “not made of money” & I’m never grateful enough. 😑🙄
2023-07-23 21:28:05
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aaundrea :
This hurts
2023-07-26 22:31:13
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