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Charmi Patel Peña :
The misuse of therapy terms is going to be so dangerous. We see it already in the news recently with a celeb. And people will have a hard time seeing
2023-07-19 18:27:50
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Kimi🇺🇸💙🌎 :
YES! I said my ex emotionally catfished me cause he spoke so emotionally mature at the start and then didn’t show up emotionally in the relationship
2023-07-20 17:13:30
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newseasonloading :
So if I can understand emotion but not feel those things at the time of my understanding, I’m weaponizing emotion? Damn can’t win for trying I guess
2023-07-24 22:25:24
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Women in Film 💋 :
This! It’s scaring me that therapy is giving them more tools to manipulate instead of actually healing. 🥲
2023-07-19 18:37:28
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hannah :
Aka manipulate
2023-07-19 20:22:22
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💋 :
why did i think that was mr. president obama
2023-07-19 20:11:36
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sergioalonzob :
I think the backfire of therapy is not exclusive for men. Every human can use it no manipulate, having the language but not putting the action
2023-07-23 06:44:24
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thegirlwiththebluewall :
I feel the same way about antiracism… just because language becomes normalized doesn’t mean the concepts are understood or embodied.
2023-07-19 18:15:59
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maxpayne232 :
men just feel them differently. liz just doesn't understand men.
2024-12-21 03:38:30
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liz :
full essay on my substack!
2023-07-19 23:42:39
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alana :
100%. We need more of this conversation. It’s so sad, because they aren’t feeling even when they want to.
2023-07-19 20:05:48
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BenjaminUno :
This is when people start to misunderstand feeling/experiencing emotion with expressing emotion. I don’t have to express my emotions to feel them
2023-07-19 23:28:12
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bryce :
does anyone ever speak on how some men are barely given space in childhood to be emotional to be safe, how our emotions are weaponized against us 1/2
2023-07-25 12:08:52
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silencedogoodenough :
I’m hoping the men who do this are just the bridge to men who do feel their emotions.
2023-07-19 22:55:01
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wegrowguts :
i think this is frequently why mediation and couples therapy isn’t safe for so so so many women
2023-07-20 05:00:26
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Keysha :
I don't believe my man feels emotions. not the soft ones. He understands anger & disrespect but not empathy & caring. He just fakes it. 8yrs lost.
2023-07-20 06:25:19
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Alexis Kostad :
Yes! This is so powerful and such a necessary conversation. The weaponization of therapeutic therapies and terms can give the abuser the “upper hand”
2023-07-21 14:28:06
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Dean Gills :
And be considered weak for it, 😳 and have it held against us, please explain the benefits of opening up for us again 🤷♂️sadly a true story
2023-07-22 11:13:41
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Grecia :
Oh for sure!
2023-07-19 23:40:17
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Drew Daniels :
i would say i am here! you “know” the info before you “grow” into that person. And doing that growth has taken time - and created that shame of p1
2023-07-19 19:00:36
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m@ybeme :
Almost every romantic relationship I've ever had has shown me that my feelings are unwelcome guests in our conversation. Her feelings are center stage
2023-07-29 14:32:25
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Raquita Ur STL photog 📸🏳️🌈 :
It’s so so dangerous that men are unwilling to do the work - willing to learn the basics and lingo but unwilling to feel
2023-07-20 12:24:08
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Lizbassface :
So how do we as a society get them to feel?
2023-07-24 19:51:56
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Jason W :
Great conversation. Leading with self awareness, empathy, and grace for ourselves and others will help.
2023-07-20 15:06:17
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Thomas Williams :
As someone with a high level of EQ. But struggles to actually feel… why is it wrong/ or being termed weaponized? I don’t understand.
2023-07-29 18:14:02
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fingo_forever :
100%, my ex did this, it took so much individual therapy to realize couples therapy was just being used against me
2023-07-21 21:24:34
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winsreally :
goodness.. of course this was coming
2023-07-21 17:38:03
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king_cait :
We’re providing them another means to hurt and subjugate us. It’s more dangerous now because they understand it.
2023-07-19 19:37:41
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M :
Same with feminism. They can use the right language to create the impression of allyship but still haven’t analyzed themselves enough to prevent harm
2023-07-19 19:06:06
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Whit :
Yeeeeep
2023-07-20 22:18:58
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TherapyObserved23 :
Misuse of therapy terms is a real thing. But, we often forget that there is a emoting difference btw sexes. Learn your partners language and then it
2023-07-21 14:32:03
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Annie Louise Rud :
My theory is that many men are dissociating. I have CPTSD from beeing forced to be «strong» and not showing emotions as a child. Is that not what
2023-07-21 18:54:04
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Big Rico :
That is scary.
2023-07-21 04:04:17
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Aly Wallis :
This is why we need to emphasize humanistic approaches not structured approaches in therapy.
2023-08-01 22:33:00
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benk4021 :
I went to therapy at 16 because I stopped being able to feel any emotions and was numb. A lot of men exist in this state as their baseline
2023-08-01 22:05:33
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Rushed Virus :
it's because most of us are so numb and/or programed to feel and show nothing. we can understand emotions but the wall that's been built won't go down
2023-07-29 23:58:27
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Justin K8451 :
🤚 Me - I have a hard time even describing what I'm feeling when experiencing different emotions. Like colorblindness but for emotions...
2023-07-29 18:15:02
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Dontevenno :
Someone PLEASE send this to my ex holy 😳
2023-07-21 17:07:10
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Istaypuunui :
your lack of empathy about male conditions isn't surprising. Making men out to be well versed zombies is spot on from alot of women.
2023-07-20 07:44:18
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Curiouslyobserving :
Ohh so only men can weaponize these terms? We got educated. And now you’re intimidated.
2023-07-20 01:53:42
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Michael :
No the issue is women want men to respond to and process emotions how women do. Instead of doing it like men do.
2023-07-21 00:11:36
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Constantina Liebeskind :
that's how I feel with myself
2023-07-29 12:26:53
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dee. :
What episode is this??
2023-07-28 17:26:37
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jam :
I used to think intellectualizing and identifying my feelings about something was feeling them. Now I can do both, but understanding the diff is vital
2023-07-28 14:38:39
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m.novanta :
It's almost as if using therapy as a litmus test of a person's morality is a bad idea.
2023-07-23 23:28:48
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cloudysaxophonebeach :
People have to actually WANT to feel emotions and dismantle societal constructs (aka capitalism/imperialism) that reduce incentives to feel emotions
2023-07-20 02:27:25
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Caged Tiger :
Talk about…A generation of hyper promiscuous women and wear it as a badge.
2023-07-20 10:50:33
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user1920459275314 :
I also feel like everyone has begun to do this with labeling people as narcissists.
2023-07-20 16:34:47
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