@borderlinedbabe: PDA and object / emotional / people permenance !!! WOW i could make an entire series talking about this. its a very interesting topic to discuss but very often is not perceived well by the neurotypicals - but for us neurospicy's it doesnt mean much, its just the way we are hardwired to think and feel! i never understood why i behaved and felt the way that i did until i understoood truly what these two things are and that its not me being "selfish" or "stubborn" or "unempathetic" its the way my brain funcions and its not a "bad"thing. #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #bpdtiktok #bpd #bpdawareness #borderlinepersonality #bpdsymptoms #bpdsymptom #autism #asd #autismsymptoms #autismspectrumdisorder #asdsymptomcheck #adhd #adhdtiktok #adhdcheck #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurospicy #neurodivergenttiktok #bpdtiktoker #bpdtiktok✨ #asdtiktok

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nikkibunny93
Nikki Jackson :
it's so crazy that I literally felt guilty for saying I love you when I'm away from my partner bc I don't really feel anything 😬
2023-08-01 22:59:31
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opalskycanvas
opalskycanvas :
I sort of have this, but not for everyone. For some people it’s like I’m frozen in time replaying the past over and over in my head.
2024-11-26 05:12:12
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rochele_8488
ROCHELE_8488 :
@Tamra Judge this
2024-10-21 17:29:12
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brookelind_z
b :
It’s so hard especially with family, I’ll go months without speaking to anybody and not even notice. I love my family, but I just don’t think about it
2023-07-25 07:49:08
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kayleefox4200
Unavailable :
I have ADHD and BPD and ohhh man is it hard to live with
2023-07-27 04:05:00
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2d_lee
2D :
This is interesting cause it’s relatable, except I miss my fp
2023-07-25 06:51:21
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hellbourne.harlie
Hellbourne.Harlie :
I don’t understand having bpd AND asd, because then aren’t the things they’re calling you bpd for just … your autism?🤨
2023-08-01 23:05:55
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metam.rph.sis
madi :
this one video has connected more dots for me than my last four sessions
2023-08-01 22:28:40
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001mkc
Melanie :
for me, it's like I'll have a great time hanging out with my friend and then i leave and immediately feel like a stranger to them
2023-08-25 01:24:13
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nunbutslime
a wit da . :
I def don’t live in the present moment 100 percent but it’s where I’m at more then my pst due to anxiety for rn and later
2023-07-25 12:51:26
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jaydnich
jayde official :
WAIT i have really good object permanence that i developed at a younger age than "normal" so i was always confused as to why i didnt have constancy
2023-08-23 16:54:08
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jaylynnmariex
jaylynnmariex :
Make a podcast!! I could just listen to resting to this all day
2023-07-26 03:01:50
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laur_atypique
Laur’atypique🌻 :
Moi il existe un décalage 🤔 genre j’ai mis 4 ans à ressentir ma rupture 😂
2023-07-28 06:06:31
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rjsartemis
RJSArtemis :
This was a hard watch as an ND new to the topic, crying half the way through, up til now just thought I was a horrible person and hated myself for it.
2023-09-10 02:51:22
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waifuwutori
waifuwutori :
me with my family. I'm trying to get it across to them that I don't hate you I'm just so busy living my day to day that I just forget 😭
2023-08-23 17:21:56
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v2n2m2th
motte 🌶️ :
my biggest wish is being able to explain this to people without it sounding like I simply don't give a fvck about them
2023-08-03 19:55:43
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thebreadonline
user8128314006010 :
Ok def relate to object constancy. But have felt like going thru withdrawal w some breakups. Often bc my brain can’t drop it if I don’t understand why
2023-08-03 04:07:03
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bjorkswh0re
Mo❁ :
YEA THIS IS ME I THOUGHT I WAS A BAD PERSON
2023-07-30 04:13:34
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the_german_chick
Connie :
object constancy is the ability to keep the bond with s/o even if you find yourself upset, angry, or disappointed by their actions.
2023-07-25 19:56:21
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sheartsy
aubs :
GAHH I HAVE BOTH TOO AND IVE BEEN WAITING FOR SOMEONE ON HERE TO TALK ABOUT IT
2023-07-25 13:10:27
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hippie_mama7
hippie_mama7 :
you described what I've been calling emotional permanence in a way. not that i forget about them but i only feel as connected to someone as our 1/2
2023-07-25 10:51:48
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rae.666
Jinxy :
Are we matching our Squishmallows and mascara tears on them? 🙈
2023-07-25 07:59:53
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borderlinebhaddie
jinx :
im like pretty sure i have autism as well as bpd but my therapist gets mad when i bring up the possibility 🤩
2023-09-17 19:06:04
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denizzarra
zara 🐆 :
i’ve tried to explain this so much but people just think i’m being selfish
2023-09-13 20:43:21
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minavont
minavont :
Object Constancy is the term I've been looking for my whole life THANK YOU!
2023-09-13 12:00:01
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laneaesthetic
Neace🍉🍉 :
I always feel so bad when my bsf asks why we haven’t hung out in a while and it’s honestly because I just never think to. I’m always down to hang out
2023-08-25 00:34:12
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chrundletehgreat
Meme Farmer :
I always thought I was such a horrible person for forcing myself to tell ppl I miss them. Like deep down I do know I’ll realize I miss them when I see
2023-08-24 21:22:04
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spankydinky
nikki :
my family overseas won’t hear from me unless they reach out to me. i genuinely forget about them.
2023-08-22 06:35:24
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emilym8993
Emily :
I tell people all the time “you are just not in my brain unless you’re around, I’m sorry”
2023-08-03 07:37:49
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mizviaaa
Viaa :
For YOU page is for youing
2023-08-01 21:27:56
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uokytezviomy2
😊 :
I HAVE SAME SQUISHMALLOW!!! (And I was just diagnosed with autism too!)
2023-07-25 12:06:22
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daemonbradley
MIZPIG :
Out of sight literally out of mind
2023-07-25 10:54:38
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pattiisbaked
patrixia :
Ma’am why you always on my algorithm pls leave me alone thank you
2023-07-25 08:39:43
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talithaaxoxo
Talitha :
never related to something so much
2023-07-25 07:54:16
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jayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy19
jessica-wuxian :
its different w my fp
2023-09-25 07:22:24
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heckboyjohnson
HeckBoyJohnson :
DUDE OMG I’VE NEVER HEARD SOMEONE EXPLAIN THIS BEFORE, THANK YOU!!!
2023-09-08 01:09:15
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marieeee0022
Marie :
My bf is only diagnosed with ADHD, but he also is similar to this. He loves his family and he knows he does…
2023-08-25 14:39:06
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anisun01
bananas01 :
See like I love my friends and family and I always think there’s something wrong with me because I just think “yeah I’d be happy being alone forever”1
2023-08-23 20:27:15
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internet.trash.panda
K Dani :
With me and feelings, it's like I'm Tinkerbell. The feelings are so big and I'm so small/stressed that I can only feel one at a time!!
2023-08-23 12:38:48
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awadeuwu9627
awadeuwu :
I don't miss people, I miss the feelings and stimuli I had from them when they where around. Can be deceiving, so I don't separate one from the other.
2023-08-23 10:27:37
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poortoni
toni :
i keep trying to imagine my brother who passed but now that he’s gone i literally can’t think about him :/
2023-08-23 07:06:58
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shellyyprivv
SP :
The only person I think about is my favourite person 😕
2023-08-17 05:22:32
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_taytay69_420
Taz :
This mental health stuff is so confusing at this point like I cba but I do very much relate to this
2023-08-15 05:31:05
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truerock
True Rock :
I often wondered how people keep their childhood friends … I haven’t got one. Once you gone .., you gone .
2023-08-12 21:12:21
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uncanny_2.0
🦕 🦖 ☄️ Lumi 🛸 :
Something just clicked with myself... Ugh
2023-08-10 06:55:13
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iluvtraderjoe
₊˚‧✩ leilani ✩‧₊˚ :
this is so relatable
2023-08-09 13:23:32
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narkizu
Narkis :
YES, maybe thats why non of my friendships lasted more than 3 months bc they basically got bored in me & ghosted me bc i wasnt reaching out, when (1)
2023-08-08 20:02:44
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addycop
addycop :
This was so validating. Its like u described my life experience
2023-08-03 05:58:59
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