@heydrjustine: What other songs would you like me to analyze? Signs of emotional unavailability: - evading questions - dodging vulnerability, feelings, or discussing emotions - avoiding taking accountability for normal human mistakes - projecting suppressed/repressed feelings onto you - avoiding asking for help or support in order to maintain control - discrepancy between words and actions Signs of emotional abuse: - Name-calling - Punching the wall, slamming doors, yelling, screaming with the intent to intimidate you - Humiliating you in front of others - Sarcasm or contemptuous statements in response to you sharing emotions or emotional needs - Shaming you - Degrading comments about your appearance, achievements, important things to you - Gaslighting (doing things to make you confused about reality) - Spying on you digitally - Controlling your activities and who you speak to - Controlling your financial accounts - Blaming you for their own problems ———— More resources: ⚖️ Look at the Power & Control wheel or check out the Duluth model of Power & Control for more examples. 📲Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at thehotline.org or 800-799-SAFE (7233) 🌻 This isn’t psychotherapy or medical evaluation. Music analysis is for learning purposes only. ———— #relationshipadvice #selflove #traumahealing #traumarecovery #earnedsecureattachment #selflove #nervoussystemregulation #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #relationshipgoals #attachmentwounds #datingadvice #relationshipprobs #anxietyhelp #couplegoals #abandonmentwound #rejectionsensitivity #anxiousavoidanttrap #relationshipanxiety #emotionalintelligence #emotionalabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecovery #musictherapy #psychologyinmusic
