@awakeningwithbrian: If you have relationship problems, you have an insecure attachment and childhood trauma problem. Anxious vs avoidant, narcissist vs codepedent, and so on #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachment #codependency
Watching your vid.. can the avoidant be a covert narcissist?
2023-09-20 11:55:33
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M Leigh :
Excellent contents, thanks you! Would appreciate it if the graphic part could stop moving around so much. Still, thanks a lot for the wise words.
2024-02-01 02:34:29
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Alicia :
why does this only happens when you're loving someone and in that relationship? it doesn't happen to a friend, or anything.
2023-09-24 03:11:18
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neekie111 :
Sooo how do we end it? Because therapy isn't helping
2023-07-29 05:06:35
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vnothrop :
Do you have a camera inside my house?!? I feel CALLED OUTTTTT! 😮
2023-09-02 11:40:34
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arnoldsantosart :
Me and my ex 🤦🏿♂️
2023-07-29 09:39:24
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꧁✧⋰Lana⋱✧꧂ :
Narcissist?? Wait what? Am I a narcissist because I’ have an anxious attachment ??
2023-08-26 15:21:16
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RyanA :
what we should do to avoid this to pass the problem to next generation?
2023-09-26 23:20:59
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Fox Rox Inc. :
but how do you get healing from neglect when the source doesn't exist?
2023-10-14 01:49:06
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ashleyklennon :
everything in here is us spot on (we recognize it and are working on it) - but the anxious attachment is codependent, the avoidance more narcissistic
2023-08-20 07:14:58
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starpearl :
we got out of that loop. after yrs instead of bein a loud child,i love myself more when i am triggered. then he startd to love me more. peaceful stage
2023-09-17 17:29:14
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Cindee Boo :
Word for word this was my previous relationship 😳
2023-08-26 10:08:34
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da.areas.Princess :
Great videos, but ur use of the 'he' and 'she' pronouns are quite jarring. Not everyone is in a hetero couple and not everyone is a 'he' or 'she'.
2023-11-17 21:00:27
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Cassandra 😐 :
Is it possible to be a little bit of both?
2023-08-15 20:27:50
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Miche :
Freaking TikTok. Such a direct call out, thanks :(
2023-08-23 13:16:33
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ashleyklennon :
anxious attachments are the codependent ones
2023-08-20 07:13:12
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Ahchoooo :
Damn that’s deep and really insightful. Thanks
2023-08-10 03:49:10
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Fatima :
Everyone needs to learn about this in other to understand each other better in relationships
2023-07-29 17:38:41
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Bee :
The coping behaviours aren’t gender specific either.
2023-07-29 08:20:44
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Lincoln Debayo :
Amazing presentation.
2023-07-29 04:02:31
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Aleyna Echemendia :
This is 100% me and my husband. We don’t fight a lot but if we fight this is how it’s start. Both start therapy so we can figure it out our problems and get better together.
2024-01-24 16:49:11
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MandyPo :
nothing changes if nothing changes
2023-11-10 19:55:15
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anyi-masmela :
Omg this couldn’t have been explained in a better way. Awesome!!
2023-09-29 16:47:23
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MJ-NEKKIDUNDERreCOVERy-AUTHOR :
Wow! Such truth!
2023-09-14 15:48:23
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TheOneAndOnly :
I wish I could explain and apologize to my kids who really suffer from a divorce 😕 😔
2023-08-04 16:50:23
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Martina Dimitrova :
might as well just stay alone for the rest of my life
2023-07-29 07:50:16
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Dawieee :
How to cope with
2023-10-22 14:08:10
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I'm Bored :
unreal wow
2023-10-10 09:19:13
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Aroha Lewis :
this is so informative, so how do u heal this?
2023-10-04 02:36:58
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Cindee Boo :
Childhood traumas being projected in various forms in the relationship..
2023-09-27 07:27:58
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TinaMarieJ444 :
I divorced & am now working on breaking the generational trauma with my kids
2023-09-23 07:10:46
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Jenn :
What if your partner doesn't even see any of it? 😳
2023-09-19 23:30:44
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Colorado Ched :
Can these insecurities and behaviors develop over a long-term, struggling relationship as well? I believe they can and do
2023-08-25 22:04:20
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Sonyvee :
This is really good. I want to put an end to my anxious attachment
2023-08-02 02:02:56
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Britt 🥰❤️ :
So how do you stop this cycle
2024-02-02 03:16:12
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Adrienne :
This is us, exactly! However, I have thought about this so much, and I had a wonderful, beautiful, emotionally supportive childhood.
2024-01-20 13:04:44
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dbald66 :
So true! My partner does not see how this works yet and its killing the relationship 🥺
2023-10-14 15:45:10
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jenna ˙ᵕ˙ :
Put this on his TL please lmaoooo
2023-10-11 01:12:17
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Melody :
my parents their parents , cousins etc 😨
2023-09-30 09:51:24
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Amanda Nichole :
Wow! Powerful stuff right here!
2023-09-23 19:13:04
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L.M_effin_o :
15 years! But we have been literally going through this since the beginning I want to learn to be different do you accept insurance js
2023-09-23 02:25:54
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Tis :
Bueno
2023-09-22 03:39:46
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Kiani Trenè :
Powerful and true
2023-09-19 20:36:15
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Bukky_Bugatti🕊️🕊️ :
you are such a wonderful therapist 🥰🥰🥰🥰
2023-08-20 08:07:40
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WeirdgamerWolf :
I honestly wanna heal but idk what kind of trauma I have. So can u make a vid quiz about which trauma we have? (I'm also 13)
2023-08-17 09:52:44
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Altony.M :
What about both insecure and avoidant
2023-08-08 20:59:19
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user1035127300849 :
avoidance people only get worse with age and can nit be healed. impossible
2023-08-07 04:17:12
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amysaint1 :
I think I have childhood trauma which I wasn’t aware of… I coping by distracting myself through going on fb, watch kdramas, etc.
2023-07-31 05:27:48
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Latoza48 :
DAMN !!! didn’t see it that way
2023-07-29 12:50:21
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