@hayleyrawle: Thoughts? Leaving a religion is one thing, but adjusting those deeply engrained thinking patterns is a whole different ballgame! #religiousdeconstruction #leavingmormonisn #exmormontiktok #proldstiktok #progmormon #exvangelicaltiktok

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pinsandperfumes
Tobie Madsen :
The pendulum can absolutely swing the other way if you don’t properly deconstruct.
2023-07-31 22:46:07
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life.deconstructed
life.deconstructed :
Can you give examples? Of what you call exmo "dogma" or black+white thinking?
2023-08-01 01:10:49
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magic__jess
✨Magic Jess✨ :
Breaking the black and white thinking is so hard! Life is so many beautiful shades of grey, and holding two conflicting truths takes so much practice
2023-07-31 22:44:06
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bellabeckstead
Bella Beckstead :
I think so black & white still! So hard to kick it
2023-07-31 21:37:17
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thekylierussell
❤️‍🔥Kylie Russell❤️‍🔥 :
Oof I’ve been struggling with this too. You worded this so well. Thank you.
2023-08-01 02:08:09
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massivetadpole
MassiveTadpole :
It’s annoying because it feels like there’s room for nuance for leaders & history, but when it comes to you it’s black and white 😡
2023-08-01 15:33:27
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thelifeofev
evelyn :
this is so good!!
2023-07-31 23:08:23
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cami.m.11
camimchan :
my mission pres wife consistently said "there's no gray area in the gospel, it's black or it's white" and I have a hard time with rewiring that now
2023-08-03 23:28:20
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kierra.irvine
Kierra Irvine :
My husband & I were LITERALLY just talking about this. I’m deconstructing (he converted for me, but never a TBM & is thrilled he doesn’t have to go to
2023-08-01 21:20:09
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ageneraldisappointment
✨Em is Unwell✨ :
This concept is one I needed to hear. It’s difficult bc my brain literally grew and was pruned IN Mormonism. I need the grace and space to relearn.
2023-08-01 19:17:04
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jana.lilya
janalyn :
okay wait but where is your romper from??! i need lol
2023-07-31 22:02:40
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daniellecalder_
Danielle Calder :
I love this sooooo much.
2023-08-01 21:38:23
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curfewsatmidnight
Lit :
@Who’s in ther @Rosie @Keilani
2023-08-01 21:18:18
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alyssawitbeck
Lys Likes Words 🩷 :
B&w thinking was a major factor in my eating disorder. It took years to deconstruct b&w thinking and the ED, and by then it was almost impossible 1)
2023-07-31 21:59:12
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thotblood
Ashlyn Hollyman :
I’m looking for a therapist or someone who really can help 1 on 1 deconstruct the Mormon religion with me. Do you have suggestions?
2023-08-01 05:12:31
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maryrose22802
Maryrose :
Curious ab why you say “post-Mormon” instead of “ex-Mormon”, would love to hear ab this!
2023-08-01 01:25:40
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misterowl243
misterowl243 :
Very well said. Thanks for this.
2023-08-01 00:59:18
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sarahdavis806
Sarah Davis :
👏👏👏👏
2023-08-01 00:17:45
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_lincolnhess
Linc :
Deconstructing from Mormonism was the best thing I’ve ever done
2023-08-02 17:49:50
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retselwm
Michael :
100%. The deconstruction has been key - and really tough at times.
2023-07-31 22:42:35
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rosemarysbabyirl
Rosemary’s Baby :
I’ve noticed that critical thinking is very discouraged in a lot of religions which is so damaging
2023-08-05 02:30:52
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user3916006914832
Onandagus :
This is so profound. It’s definitely true. I have to check myself sometimes in terms of judging the church
2023-08-20 20:35:19
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alyssadgrenfell
Alyssa Grenfell :
I find even if I become more nuanced on one topic, like “revealing clothing,” there’s always some new struggle waiting around the corner!
2023-10-07 02:43:54
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cassiemgrace
Cassie Grace :
I’m deconstructing right now and it’s sooo hard 😅
2023-11-13 03:02:20
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