@therealebjohnson: The crossover between narcissism and hoarding is 🤯… My mother’s narcissism manifested through hoarding. She didn’t care that it made me sick, that it prevented either one of us from having a normal life. It was more important to her to have her animals and her junk, to protect her ego, than to keep her daughter healthy. That’s how it is with many hoarding parents. They know they’re sick, they know they need help, but the junk ALWAYS comes first. Who pays the price? The children raised in the mess, who can’t have their friends over, who go to school smelling like the rotting garbage and sewage in their homes. The kids of narcissistic hoarders spend their lives trying to compensate for the mess and trying to figure out how to care for themselves and their families without slipping back into the pattern. Were you raised by a narcissist? What about a hoarder? What was the hardest challenge for you to overcome from that upbringing? #narctokforyoupage #practicalgrowth #narctokcoaches #hoarders #hoarding #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery
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Wednesday 02 August 2023 05:30:36 GMT
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elaine :
Felt this:”the junk always comes first.” People don’t understand what it’s like to have a parent who prioritizes inanimate GARBAGE over their child.
2023-08-07 18:30:34
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Ivan Tyler :
And then they’re like “I’m not the one who made this mess!!!!!” 😭
2024-02-06 16:43:54
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Valeria :
Fr I’m so tired of feeling like I don’t deserve a bedroom or living in a clean environment :( and worrying I’ll never live cleanly bc of the people around me
2024-11-02 16:07:22
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~J' :
i cant repost that. BUT REAL
2025-01-01 10:18:48
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Monica :
I hated when they yelled at us for “the mess” but yrs later, we’re all moved out and guess whose mess it is now👀
2023-08-13 19:39:04
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NyangoStar :
Pretty much. I remember mopping the kitchen floor and being punched in the face by my mom for cleaning the nasty floor.
2023-09-30 05:50:25
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Grz family :
The only time I was expected to clean (note expected, not taught how) was as a punishment- especially when I asked why I couldn’t have friends over.
2024-03-28 16:27:07
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Marie Stardust :
My narc dad hoarded animals and junk too, house was always full of dust and we had “goat paths” as my mom called them between rooms 🥺 1/2
2023-08-02 09:47:31
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Leslie Core 🌈 🇨🇦 :
I was raised by one...and all the child support went to acquiring junk and a gambling addiction. Ask for a pair of shoes once a year, WATCH OUT lol
2023-08-02 05:52:47
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🦇 count.smackyoula🌹 🍮✨ :
same here ; my mom always made it out to be as bad as it was bc i didn’t help motivate her or just do it for her as a gift 😔
2023-08-05 04:40:54
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Cindy Esp :
Our parents want the ADULT relationship, while simultaneously acting like two year olds..FOREVER
2023-08-13 12:16:18
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ceo of hawk tuah :
Fr but whenever I call out my mum on any of this and she responds it’s like a switch flips in me that makes me NEED to reassure her and take back what I said idc I think it’s cause we argued a lot in the past and it was me who had to apologise and de-escalate everything
2024-09-09 00:07:46
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lolitaari93 :
my NPD hoarder mother 😳
2023-08-12 22:53:32
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UKmrsgray | American in the UK :
My mind is blown that they’re connected but it totally makes sense 😅
2023-08-02 12:15:38
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𝖺𝗆𝖾𝗅𝗂𝖺 🫶🏼 :
raised by one but a "moderate" hoarder tbf but shes so bad it's beginning to affect me
2024-02-16 00:09:27
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kira85gelflin :
I had this and mine would make me believe at points I might have skin cancer at 11 just so people would worry about her! The truma is why I have FND
2023-08-05 20:20:59
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Abby :
REAL
2024-12-28 03:42:23
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🧛🏻♀️. :
Too real.
2024-12-06 20:53:07
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PetsPetsPets :
So triggering 😬😣😭
2024-05-23 16:48:12
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🌜antediluvian🌛 :
@Seniordollcollector
2023-12-30 21:55:55
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isobella 🪷 :
@Heisenburger
2023-08-15 14:26:43
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fffffff :
🥰🥰🥰
2024-11-14 18:01:04
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"You act like I didn't have a life before you!!"
OF WHAT? Living like the trash lady in the Labyrinth????
2024-09-11 22:05:24
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