@lolaandnifemi: Replying to @Elle Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje did a movie about it, it was known as ‘farming’ #adoption #adoptionstory

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nasai111
nasai :
My mum has a similar story and is in a doc coming out on ITV called “white nanny black child” !!
2023-08-04 16:29:11
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bohnezz
🦴BoHnEzz🦴 :
wait is that what it's called?ove heard it happened in Nigeria but the child is a house girl or boy.everything is paid for sometimes including uni
2023-08-08 16:16:00
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teeloudru
teeloudru :
my nan did this in yorkshire with my mum, fostered lots of kids but ended up adopting my mum :)
2024-02-04 16:55:31
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99ottwil1
Will :
@Lola & Nifemi what would you say are some of the negative impacts concerning your experience?
2023-08-04 16:05:13
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violettepuff
VioletPuff :
Many of our parents struggled. Nigerian parents came here for studies £1 to N1 and the🇳🇬economy crashed. Many got stuck n some left hoping to return
2023-08-05 11:37:08
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wild.thing94
Wild Thing :
A lot of people told my mum to do this with me & my siblings. But my mum refused & raised us her but she struggled to get her education & work.
2024-01-06 13:36:56
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thealima2
Alimatu Dimonekene MBE :
We need to know more about this issue.
2023-08-05 07:37:26
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danielle_burbs4
Dan❤️ :
There’s a film called ‘Farming’ which is based on this, it’s really interesting film
2023-08-04 22:37:13
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thatsmebitch29
thatsmebitch29 :
wow you hear something new everyday. I honestly had no way of knowing this !
2024-09-07 17:58:15
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dionneoghene
Eguono Love :
I was ‘farmed’ on and off from birth but I went back permanently to my biological parents at 5 years old.
2023-08-04 16:09:58
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odetoslowreaders
Sarah :
Your mum sounds great!
2023-08-04 19:39:43
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simmaaaaay1
Simmayyyy :
My mum knows a few people that this happened to extremely so wild to me, especially watching a few films on it
2023-08-04 13:44:27
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_thecocoqueen
TheCocoQueen :
Even though you don’t have to; Thank you for sharing your story of self and Motherhood with us all
2023-08-04 13:29:48
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ellewilsx
Elle :
I cannot believe I’ve never heard about this before. Again, thank you for sharing!!
2023-08-04 13:49:44
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ny.k22
Ny :
Because I know you wouldn’t want your twinnie to go through what you did 🥹 proud of you 🫶🏾
2023-08-04 13:19:41
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misstaylordicks
MissTaylor :
The film is so sad 😞 . It does have a happy ending but this guys struggle is not nice to see.
2023-08-05 07:03:05
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asxfiaa
asafx :
This is so interesting! You should read Hope and Glory by Jendella Benson! She delves into this and it was the first time I’d ever heard of it.
2023-08-05 00:15:11
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atwimaamansawonoonii
atwimaamansawonoonii :
I see you as a strong and a happy soul you don’t look like what you’ve been through
2023-08-04 19:49:39
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adeola.naomi
Adeola.Naomi :
In the film and from the experience of some friends in the British countryside, the foster parents were paid which means more children more money
2023-08-05 11:56:46
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__jessyray__
Jessyray 🇬🇼 :
In portugal some families done the same , the colonised countries like Angola , Guinea-Bissau and cape-verde used to immigrate and do this 🥺💔
2023-08-04 14:57:40
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essencebelle
essencebelle :
My story too! I’ve spoken about it on IG and its so much more common than I thought. Theres movies about it too🤯 Farming starring Damson Idris,l
2023-08-04 21:39:52
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deeds203
deeds203 :
It might be me but it sounds like your biological mum was trying to protect you from her family
2023-08-04 17:36:21
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vkstallion
Dianè :
Your mum is amazing 🥰
2023-08-04 13:52:37
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.noheartbreakhere
Noheartbreakhere :
This was common practice in the 60's & 70's . I chose this topic for my University dissertation.
2023-08-08 05:26:43
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naturally_nica
Naturally_Nica :
Lola 😭 babe. Your mum is a wonderful woman 🌹 Your bio parents situation is a bit chaotic. you are exactly where you're meant to be.
2023-08-04 19:26:10
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