@domesticblisters: Replying to @mariev314 homemaking doesn’t make you boring. Unequal labor does #strugglecare #MentalHealth #divisionoflabor #ADHD #caretasks

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theburnedoutassistant
theburnedoutassistant :
it's hard to have interests when you are drowning. it happened to me for sure.
2023-08-04 17:03:12
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9badwolf
Anna :
Honestly it really is a 24 hour job and I have seen it in my mother and my friend's mothers. It's exhausting and when the kids are older you have to *
2023-08-04 17:04:09
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leave.brittany.alone
Leave.brittany.alone :
I’m struggling to see how the commenter even GOT there from what you originally said but I agreeeb3000% w you.
2023-08-04 17:55:09
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shells64
Shells64 :
I was a sahm and this is so true and I definitely lost my identity and had to fight to get it back.
2023-08-04 18:20:13
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ninatehkar
ninatehkar :
Just adding that this is true of any relationship where one party isolates and dumps responsibilities on the other, I have no kids but this is me.
2023-08-04 17:08:37
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bethhanson532
bethhanson532 :
for the last 20 years I have worked 40 hrs. cooked, cleaned, yard work, turned my hobby into a business, did the kid's stuff and taken 1/2
2023-08-04 17:03:22
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bearkat00
bearkat 🇵🇸 :
My mom has always kept a very neat home. Both of my sisters do. I was apologizing to her for the mess when she came to stay, she was like, "sweetie...
2023-08-04 19:51:02
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thattwinmomkim
ThatTwinMom :
This is absolute facts. The house should work for us.
2023-08-04 17:05:05
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heather4017
heather4017 :
I’m a homemaker and I feel sssoooo boring now lol. What do I even like anymore?! Did I ever like anything?! I can’t even remember 🤷🏼‍♀️
2023-08-04 18:52:03
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jisaleannot
Lisa Marie :
I lost myself but getting her back.
2023-08-05 01:32:52
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elsavalhalla
ElSaHix :
It’s really simple, how do people not get it
2023-08-06 03:20:13
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miz3m
Miz :
I'm trying to find that balance between having a functional clean home and not getting suffocated...the struggle is real for me right now.
2023-08-04 21:33:53
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vickilynns
Vicki Lynn Stover :
It’s not that you become boring when you’re doing everything. It’s that they perceive you as boring. These are also the men that wonder why their ex
2023-08-04 18:48:01
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sarrediscovered
Sar🆘🇺🇸🇺🇦🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 :
My husband always said,"just because you sah, that doesn't mean you aren't working as hard as I am. Why wouldn't we both help on the off hours?"
2023-08-04 20:26:09
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calyps09
Calypso :
It’s the head space. Managing all of those tasks takes up all the mental space so there’s no room for enrichment
2023-08-06 21:14:51
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britbriemcg
Brit :
exactly. I dislike homemaking. the kids and husband help. I love homeschooling. my husband encourages me to make time for hobbies and community💚
2023-08-04 17:39:34
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darkstar_ashes
darkstar 🇨🇦 :
This is one of those ideas that is both revolutionary and so obvious that how did this never occur to all of us before? ty
2023-08-05 19:46:40
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immstra
immstra :
EXACTLY, I would shout this from the rooftop if I didn't want to wake everybody up...and also wasn't scared of getting on the roof.
2023-08-04 20:27:34
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kimberpoi
Kim 💙 :
My grandpa said when he retired my gma retired as well and everything had to be split in 2. Always admired his respect for her.
2023-08-04 22:43:39
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nat.dee.75
Nat.Dee.75 🇦🇺 :
and how many of us when we have kids feel like we lose our identity. I work in the corporate world and still feel this!!
2023-08-04 17:40:36
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therealpoppinmolly
Molly Poppins :
“I’m not very good at it” is so relatable 😂🥰
2023-08-06 03:47:42
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jeshouk
Jes Houk :
When I left my teaching job to stay home we had LOTS of discussions about roles/expectations/time/personal life.
2023-08-04 18:16:11
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rsilvie
why ry? :
My mental health was the worst when I was a SAHM. I felt like I totally lost all sense of self. Now I’m back to work and loving it.
2023-08-04 20:59:13
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