Sanam Naran | Psychologist
Region: ZA
Monday 07 August 2023 15:43:14 GMT
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Michele :
Divorce after 16-yrs of abuse here, this totally resonates! Nobody knows what we put up with behind closed doors.
2023-08-07 20:28:44
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_lajuani :
When I asked my family for help to get out of DV my brother said, you rather starve. 🤷🏻♀️
2023-08-07 16:06:38
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Ashi Munir996 :
Agreed 100%. My parents should have divorced a long time ago. They would have been happier with other people ...
2023-08-08 03:54:42
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Sonia Dsouza :
suffered silently 12 years because of all these things you said but now I have stood up for my self respect
2023-08-08 10:29:23
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Rishu :
FINALLY someone said the truth‼️Thank you. 👌🏾
2023-08-08 03:44:59
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nin_singh73 :
we don't deal with issues ...just get told b strong 😏
2023-08-08 05:16:31
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GGWP :
Financial dependence and social stigma play a huge role. Also, parents of girls play a role in how they support their daughter.
2023-08-08 00:55:07
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Zana Hannasky :
I was told the same thing, it gets better and it never does, just have to get enough strength with no family support
2023-08-07 22:49:49
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Amina 🍉 :
I stayed longer than I should have in a very harmful and toxic marriage because I was afraid of the stigma
2023-08-08 21:27:28
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Sri :
very true!
2023-08-07 21:24:42
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pickles &cream :
Grew up watching many dysfunctional marriages. Very sad.
2024-10-10 03:25:06
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RenPetal :
All of THIS!💯 It definitely isn’t something our culture should be proud of- we were just taught that divorces are taboo- “Oh what would people say”
2023-08-07 16:08:51
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Medinipersaud6 :
Thank god people can get divorced so they can get out of bad marriages with bad people. I hate the old school mindset to not get divorced.
2023-08-07 21:52:49
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S.A :
unfortunately, people automatically assume the worst for a woman who just wants to heal.. failure in all her roles apparently
2023-08-07 15:59:24
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Dr Ali 🇦🇺 :
where honor killings remain a justification 🥺
2023-08-07 16:15:44
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dvalkCan :
True. From a child till a teen grew up witnessing parents fighting everyday.
2023-08-08 01:29:22
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Vivi7334 :
My husband was emotionally abusive and my mom said be grateful he's not an alcoholic......
2023-08-07 22:46:56
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ARUN :
Nobody tells the truth better than you. Thank you.
2023-08-07 22:58:37
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P. S. :
And then you have daughters murdered by husbands and all of a sudden it’s “why didn’t she say anything” 🙄. They spoke, their family said stay.
2023-08-07 19:18:59
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Eh... :
Ok, but what the rest of the world does is even crazier and lamer, how they completely devalued family&marriage
2023-08-07 15:56:22
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Ash.7987 :
Cause our society is unforgiving. Oh the hard times I see post divorce. Doesn’t end
2023-08-07 23:43:25
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user8684041656221 :
Don’t suffer if the relationship is not working the best decision is divorce
2023-08-07 23:35:59
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H-Man :
Found out my wife was cheating. Divorced her ASAP. Today, it is more socially acceptable. Yea there is stigma, but love life isn’t over.
2023-08-07 16:44:15
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sultanatintin :
It’s funny how m•les never initiate divorce bc they have a free slave 😂. Of course they say divorce is shameful. Only MALES benefit from marriage 😂
2023-08-07 21:43:21
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Sri :
whereas my mom disowned her own sister bcoz she divorced her abusive husband. Nvr been more ashamed
2023-08-07 21:30:01
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user3808141900693 :
Pretty much
2023-08-08 01:36:25
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Maddie 👸🏽 :
This needs to be loud and clear to every desi out there.
2023-08-07 22:07:03
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Neo :
Also the other side : no one’s perfect, jf both party make it work respectfully it. The culture also teaches that. ( same as marriage counseling).
2023-08-08 05:29:44
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Meerzia🥀 :
So True!! I am the true example 🤐
2023-08-07 22:58:00
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MrTK78🇨🇦 :
I'm in my mid 40s, divorced, watching many friends/relatives go through it as well. It's becoming more common as people focus on mental health
2023-08-08 03:31:26
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Dave_in_NC :
True. Life is never a honeymoon forever. But walking away from abuse (mental also) takes courage
2023-08-08 01:36:08
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Ashi Munir996 :
the saying 'stay for the kids' is utter bull. the kids have to grow up in a dysfunctional household one parent treats the other like a doormat
2023-08-08 03:57:17
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Radio Rebel :
Good I rate your culture, in the long run you work it out and don't quit when it's hard , abusive rekatships is something different
2023-08-28 18:16:50
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jazzyjeet :
I think that's a bit generalisation - the idea of marriage is also different compared to Abrahamic traditions
2023-08-08 01:31:32
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Z♡ :
sanam you are an absolute gem for our community ❤️
2023-08-08 21:00:03
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gobbzi :
such an honest words beta. God bless you
2023-08-08 04:34:09
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As you sow, so shall you reap. :
If he becomes rich he supports his family but if she is rich she thinks she doesn’t need anyone cuz she has everything what she needs.
2023-08-07 19:19:11
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Gurjeet :
Yes. 100% true
2023-08-07 23:59:21
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trollfornaama :
this is same all over South Asia
2023-08-08 11:26:12
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Gk :
you said low Divorce rate is something not to be proud of. So is high rate something to be proud of? Also doesn't high Divorce rate means lack of...
2023-08-07 23:27:41
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Nikki :
yep. taboo so the rule is suck it up and stay
2023-08-07 23:28:56
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🇵🇸 🇵🇰عبداللہ :
How about woman getting bored and seeking thrill and excitement? Divorce has become a crown they'd like to wear. If a woman say i am divorced......
2023-08-07 23:30:08
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user688054 :
So true
2023-08-07 23:37:10
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Happy go lucky :
I agree. we should educate and promote the idea that when things aren't working the best option is divorce
2023-08-07 23:38:08
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Rupali Gaikwad :
Yes so true…
2023-08-07 23:38:18
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Avinash Shah :
This is untrue. Stigma is not only for women, I feel, we married Indians want to make it work. No time for nonsense. Our love is different.
2023-08-07 23:39:23
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Avinash Shah :
Children of Indian parents think it's ok to have 10 partners and is OK to have 5 marriages. It's waste of life. Stick with one except they are abusive
2023-08-07 23:41:07
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