@missclairebenjamin: The eye-roller….🙄🙄 As a manager it can feel very disrespectful if someone rolls their eyes during a conversation. Eye-rolling is a form of passive aggressive communication that people use when they are unable to communicate whatever the issue is directly (there can be many reasons for this). It’s generally viewed as an immature behaviour that we want to avoid at work, so as the manager you want to ensure you respond in a way that doesn’t perpetuate this dynamic. It can be very tempting to “tell them off” as I have shown in the first part of this video but this is likely to perpetuate the behaviour as you’re then playing a role similar to a critical parent. I would recommend trying to understand what is behind the behaviour (eye-rolling) and let them know you would really like to discuss whatever the issue is so that you can move forward. This is assertive adult to adult communication. In their next 1:1 I would have a discussion with them about the importance of honest and transparent communication. Let me know if you would like me to do a video on this. Please be mindful that the perspective offered in this video is generalised and won’t fit every situation so please follow your instincts about whether this applies to your situation. You’ve got this! #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #managingpeople #communicationskills #corporatelife #managertips #difficultpeople #managerproblems #assertivecommunication #passiveaggressive

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poiuytr9881
rain :
neurodivergent ppl look up briefly when recalling information, can look like eye rolling
2024-06-01 13:37:12
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oliviabham
oliviabham :
Also, some neurodivergent people might not REALIZE they are rolling their eyes. If you know your employee is neurodivergent, see if there’s a
2023-08-07 18:59:41
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veryverushka14
VeryVerushka :
It's me... I'm the eyeroller....
2023-08-07 18:59:50
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doyuknow8
duknow :
maybe she's used to the manager "always wanting some additional data" cos they haven't set expectations well
2023-08-07 21:57:08
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srakes123
srakes123 :
I don't know when I'm rolling my eyes.
2023-08-07 20:02:27
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victorias_crazy_life
Victoria Rees :
What advice would you give if they continue to
2023-09-02 05:37:40
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tazzytiktock
Simon Tasker :
My mate does that everytime i tell her a joke!😂
2023-10-08 18:05:43
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easypeasynot
nelli_sky :
Ahm… I look to the side quickly to literaly record important info in my brain I’m receiving.
2024-05-27 05:37:05
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sotschatline
sotschatline :
my tutor brought this up to me it's a facial tick
2023-08-08 11:29:49
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byebyemer
byebyemer :
Can you make a video how to confront a subordinate who undermines you?
2023-08-24 15:25:32
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jojojonesywonesy
Jonesy :
I “role my eyes” internallycause I know better.but it’s a result of no trust with my manager that I don’t think can be resolved with me communicating
2023-08-08 18:50:56
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cowboyhat____
cowboyhat 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 :
My manager once shouted at me for about five minutes of front of my colleague and told me everything I was doing was wrong 😂
2023-08-19 09:28:28
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rachelamy8819
Rachel Amy :
Just so you know, eyerolling can happen when someone is dissociating which may happen in these kind of situations. This would be involuntary.
2023-08-08 23:10:24
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joanne4695
Joanne4695 :
Look into space and smile when required
2023-08-07 21:22:04
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456789lsls
Lot1992 :
my manager rolls her eyes at me
2023-08-07 20:51:10
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soulgirl64
Soulgirl64 :
I was an eye roller I left and now eyeroll at myself when I irritate myself!
2023-08-29 15:22:50
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annnnngggggggggggg
user8433361712799 :
“unable to communicate directly” stood out for me.
2023-08-08 04:15:10
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llamalindsaymn
LLAMALindsayMN :
It’s a trap. My ex boss used any honest feedback I gave against me. If your employees are passive, you made them that way.
2023-08-31 22:43:08
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venom.3yes
venom.3yes :
I litterally have no idea when I’m making a face or rolling my eyes it’s frustrating for me too lol
2023-08-09 02:17:58
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missclairebenjamin
Claire | Work people tips :
Please read the caption for this one 🙂
2023-08-07 18:51:20
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magdalenakrj
Magdalenakrj :
Maybe get a hint😂
2023-08-10 13:56:03
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clumsywoman
Clumsywoman :
I did this once to a recruiter and im HR because they were rude for no reason
2023-08-11 19:12:43
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maiagh20
Maia :
What if it’s my boss rolling her eyes at me
2024-02-27 00:13:27
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sandwichhand
Boudica 🦂 :
what about when it's the manager doing the eye roll
2023-08-14 14:41:25
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