I am trying to learn how to squeeze my glutes and Google says to lay on my back and bend my knee and lift my hips up in the air and put my hands on my but and I would feel the hardness but I am very cofndued by it because yes Google said when doing the exercises it automatically turns your muscles engage to engage your core but that not enough for the workout and I have to manually sequence my glutes aka but and when Google told me to do that exercise it would send a mental signal to my brain of how to squeeze my glutes for doing planks and wall push ups and a third exercise and I am trying to gain weight overall to grow fat to cover my visible veins and to grow fat in my chest and in my glutes any tips because I tried to Google and use tikok to learn how to squeeze my glutes but I just donโt understand I have adhd and I just donโt get how to engage my core and to squeeze my glutes I just donโt understand because I want to do this stuff at home and workout at home any tips