@theholisticpsychologist: When we go into fight mode, intense sympathetic energy takes over the body. We’re: hostile, aggressive, and unable to calm down. The body is trying to self protect by fighting the (perceived) threat #selfhealers #fightorflight #fightresponse #childhoodtrauma

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theholisticpsychologist
Dr. Nicole LePera :
Who has been here?
2023-08-14 21:04:32
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anothermotherlovesyou
Another Mother :
Nicole, your work is so important & helps me with my Anoyher Mother daughters. I love following you. Thank you. ❤️
2023-08-14 21:07:40
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azbirdgang
Az Bird Gang :
Making myself feel worse for sharing my feels… I apologize for how I said things before getting an apology for why I’m upset.
2023-08-14 21:08:52
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mjl828181711
mjl828181711 :
And then just EXHAUSTED when it’s “over”.
2023-08-14 21:37:30
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ayyabate
ALEXIS :
This is what they should be teaching in health classes starting in middle school.
2023-08-14 21:04:34
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garlandpresleyadhd
Angie - Garland Presley :
Yes and all things I have now worked on and am healing from. I still get a little annoyed at unanswered texts, it’s my abandonment wound showing up.🥰
2023-08-14 21:22:07
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chicquie5
chicquie :
how do you work around that anger without sending the angry text?
2023-08-14 21:41:34
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georgiasioura
georgia sioura :
I have a great issue with angry messages and I cannot stop when I start reacting. then I am full of shame. can you please help how we can regulate?🥰
2023-08-14 21:16:44
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sidewalkwhenshewalks
🦋🌻 :
I did this and he blocked my number and won’t talk to me. It’s been weeks. I ruined a good thing between us
2023-08-14 21:58:21
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aplus69420
Pluh :
I’ve had to learn that fighting over text will ALWAYS be more tiring than talking it out irl and I need to take a breather
2023-08-15 19:24:16
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healingwithhelene
helene :
I’ve actually been struggling with this recently - it’s so tiring :( Do you have recommendations for self-soothing in these moments?
2023-08-14 21:06:04
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pureblossome
pureblossome :
If someone put me in this situation that made me to have anger issues and send long messages i am out,I learned my lesson,respect myself first
2023-08-14 21:18:05
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sweeadww
Ronsal :
Mein armer Mann 🥺 Ich versuche an mir zu arbeiten
2023-08-15 07:20:37
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evaa__60
Evåå :
@Hassan This is not in my control even I tried many many times that I forget the count💔
2023-08-15 10:47:41
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hello_its_me110
Eletika Star :
I’m like a pressure cooker, I blow my top and then calm down. And I won’t calm down until I’ve expressed my anger.
2023-08-14 23:31:52
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insaineinthemembrain
InsainInTheBrain :
suggestions of what to do instead of those reactions
2023-08-14 21:26:32
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jonnyrotten79
Johnny racing :
childhood trauma no doubt
2023-08-14 21:19:34
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oneironautlove
Oneironautlove :
My childhood was traumatic.. physically and mentally abusive parents
2023-08-14 23:33:48
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clairethegoldenowner
Claire Elizabeth Per :
Do you have a podcast episode on this? I would like to know more!
2023-08-14 21:15:08
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kelseyerica
Kelsey Chabot :
How do you fix this?
2023-08-14 21:07:19
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shaunajeanne87
Shaunajeanne :
This is me with my ex husband. It’s so hard to not care that I’m being ignored. I’m trying so hard to just breathe and know it’s out of my hands
2023-08-14 23:45:01
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grow.thru.it
Janelle | Twin Mama 💫 :
your page helps me more than i could ever put into words. you truly make me feel human and more seen in the most difficult moments. thank you. 💗
2023-08-14 22:49:41
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zoeandtheclouds
Zoe And The Clouds :
Io, passo per passo 😔
2023-08-15 14:42:19
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ol_bull
Ol Bull :
Många av oss känner igen sig
2023-08-15 04:57:22
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morgannniicole
morgannnn :
Oh my god this is me
2023-08-14 21:45:01
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b.ando89
Bekka Anderson :
How do I stop this?
2023-08-14 21:24:54
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not_africanhippie
African Hippie 👑🦝 🛌🔧 :
It's why people need to learn to self-regulate. And think before speaking. Once you say something you can't take it back 😔
2023-08-15 10:57:00
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shellythepurple
Shelly🇵🇸🍉 :
but what if it's a boundary being pushed and you just can't take feeling disrespected anymore??
2023-08-15 00:41:17
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oneironautlove
Oneironautlove :
I go through this at least once every two weeks with my son’s father, it has been detrimental to our relationship.. honestly don’t know what to do 🥲
2023-08-14 23:33:20
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nrcldv
nrcldv :
been there too many times
2023-08-14 23:22:52
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jbnm13
Jenny :
I find myself doing this a lot. My husband doesn’t respond knowing I’ll calm down. This is a result of my childhood trauma. Always protecting myself❤️
2023-08-14 23:14:22
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aemeliabaan
Aemelia Baan :
And what can you do to calm down from this?
2023-08-14 22:51:50
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stephuqylam
stephuqylam :
I've lost many friendships through doing this. The rage takes over.
2023-08-14 22:22:25
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sofie_says
Sofia :
Wow me to a T right now
2023-08-14 22:04:00
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jmmommaa
Des🎀|Vlogs|Relatable|WFH mom| :
Damn 🫣
2023-08-14 21:34:59
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buenasnochestoyou
buenasnochestoyou :
this is my sister to a t. but she never apologizes or addresses it. how do we help?
2023-08-14 21:15:56
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stephane010896
Stephane :
I’ve been there till today. My relationship was extremely toxic and I decided to end it today. My whole body and mind are crashed now but I have hope
2023-08-15 07:47:34
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diana_shx
diana_shx :
And this is the point when they go away and leave you for good.
2023-08-15 01:34:40
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cogfirefly
cogfirefly :
This 💯 🎯 Thank you for the emotional regulation practice posts 💞
2023-08-15 01:07:00
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rnsteph_143
Stephanie :
Feeling this way is overwhelming!!!! Especially when you want to do it and force yourself not too-I feel like a pressure cooker!!!!
2023-08-15 00:29:54
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jennnnnifer12
Jenn :
This is me 😩 how do we stop
2023-08-14 23:19:05
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browneyedsoonergirl
Browneyedsoonergirl :
This is me!!! How do I fix that?
2023-08-14 23:13:26
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babajaga63010
Ɓaɓa Jaga :
how to help oneself when this happens?
2023-08-14 23:11:26
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kaitlinkallee
Kaitlin Kal Lee :
Gosh I definitely do this 🥲🥹
2023-08-14 22:55:56
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sky06150
L :
So what do we do? 🥺
2023-08-14 22:30:44
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littletroublemake1
Littletroublemaker :
Me but I don’t send them finally
2023-08-14 22:17:16
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lily06299
Sultry Maiden 🏹 :
I apologize to my coworkers. I hate I do this
2023-08-14 22:14:22
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leeleeeebird
LeeLee :
This was me until I changed my environment. I thought I would never be able to control my emotions
2023-08-14 21:57:37
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reni.love515
reni.love515 :
I literally was just going through this 🥴
2023-08-14 21:25:29
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