Jimmy Knowles
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Tuesday 22 August 2023 12:26:59 GMT
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Tara :
or when you're crying explaining your pain and they're still on the defense or attack. feels so cruel.
2023-08-22 16:03:46
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Jennifer Cabral :
avoidant here. Nothing I can do at the moment not to shutdown. Pushing me to talk with only make it worse. I need space to process things.
2023-08-22 15:03:20
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Monkey.D.Lancer :
I shut down when sarcasm and insults get thrown the intent is to protect myself not them.
2024-08-25 16:41:17
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Bij :
“I don’t talk during our fights bc it makes things worse.it’s better to talk when we’re calm” … he NEVER comes back to talk when we are calm. 💔
2023-08-22 21:12:54
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._.lyka :
What if we are shutting down ‘cause we feel unheared, abandon and unloved even after trying to communicate?
2023-08-29 03:46:43
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mammallama_420 :
what am I supposed to do when it's not a choice to shutdown? I will lose my ability to talk or communicate in anyway from hours to days 😞
2023-08-22 16:32:03
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Sarah :
I think this is how I communicate with my husband, he shuts down and nothing I say will penetrate…and I don’t know how to fix it 🥺
2023-08-22 15:50:21
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Sasha :
Oh no.. that's definitely his intentions.. he doesn't wanna hear it anymore. He's done.
2023-08-22 14:18:20
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Trish & Scout :
Saying exactly how I am feeling and how I’ve been hurt in a calm way , giving time to process but never getting a response or resolution has made me
2023-08-27 16:10:56
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dawnfyre :
Since we figured out he was avoidant, it makes sense and we are working together again. These videos are so important!
2023-08-22 12:35:10
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Bayan :
I do this unintentionally 😅 I tell my partner I need time to process what you said in order for me to respond back. This could take minutes to hours
2023-08-22 20:49:15
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It's Zero :
Alot of ppl shut down because they aren't being heard or respected. So while expressing that is important not pushing your partner to shut down is -
2023-09-16 14:06:59
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🌻🌾MANON BOURGEOIS🌾🌻 :
I stayed single so I don't have to worry about any of this.🤣
2023-08-22 16:34:53
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Sophia :
shutting down also leaves my mind to "guess" what they are actually feeling and I usually choose the worst case scenario.
2023-09-18 05:44:12
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🌙Zyevari🦊 ✊️🍉 :
What happens when the anxious becomes the avoidant?[me] it's like my feelings have been switched off from dealing with avoidants...
2023-08-26 11:51:20
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starshine0505 :
I shut down cuz I don’t want to be yelled at
2023-08-22 12:50:01
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D-wanderer :
But what of my brain stops working during conflict? When we argue and he yells my brain stops functioning like it goes blank to the point where I can
2023-09-18 17:40:23
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Derek Jonathan :
I feel I’m quick to jump on the defensive or take it as an attack when my S/O voices an issue. How can I overcome this? I know it's a flaw…
2023-09-04 10:41:22
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devlina soul :
i have a question,whats a priority,what they struggle to tell us when we press them or what feelings are making them struggle to say it?...
2023-10-01 13:18:58
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