wearemanenough
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Carrie :
Because we have been with men who turn on their emotions to gaslight and manipulate.
2023-08-22 18:39:13
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Kailey :
I truly do not understand this narrative. My heart has exploded every time my partner has been vulnerable enough to cry with me. Male friends as well
2023-08-22 19:11:17
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itsDrewK :
This is why I don't talk to anyone. I'll pay a therapist bc it's the only person who won't judge me or think less of me. I'm yet to be proven wrong.
2023-08-22 21:09:18
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Amadi Adams :
It’s not because I don’t feel safe. It’s because I’m unsure how another person wants to be comforted.
2023-08-23 05:07:52
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David Joseph Sowers :
can we narrate this in a way where I don’t feel responsible for making her feel unsafe? I want her to feel safe.
2023-08-25 02:57:56
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Liv :
I don’t understand this. For a man to open up and let me into his head and heart is something that would make me feel so safe.
2023-08-22 22:35:50
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Daytona :
It’s also the shock of someone who is normally not vulnerable being vulnerable.
2023-08-22 19:03:28
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sojourner_76 :
My ex wife expected me to handle all her moods and trauma. But once I started to open up, all of a sudden she wanted a trail separation.
2023-08-23 09:43:20
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Long live Pluto :
We are all afraid of things we see or experience for the first time. We often don't know what to do.
2023-08-23 00:31:49
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Dschamsisi😳💅 :
I never feel fearful or disconnected from my bfs vulnerability but I can see how some women do given that some men use their partners empathy to
2023-08-22 18:42:09
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AuthorYLZamora🐦⬛🦊🏳️🌈🇨🇺 :
You’re not supposed to do anything when someone cries. Just let them and say “it’s alright. Let it all out” wth
2023-08-22 19:41:05
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Jessica Renae :
I love when my partner is vulnerable with me. I also feel tired at times to feel like I am the primary/sole person he’s sharing basic feelings with.
2023-09-06 07:38:01
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Erik :
see brene brown's talk on shame. we are thought as less manly when we're vulnerable.
2023-08-22 19:39:23
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Robert K. :
100% my experience
2023-08-22 19:01:38
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culturecrush :
I love men who open up and are vulnerable. It's beautiful and I hope more men feel safe enough to do so
2023-08-26 08:26:31
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Elle C 🇵🇸 :
Can part of it be that we’ve only experienced/been told that men are behaving this way when something is incredibly disastrous? Ofc small part
2023-08-22 19:57:48
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Sah :
pfffttt bull
2023-08-22 23:58:11
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Fiamma :
It literally makes me more attracted to my partner when he’s vulnerable with me. What a gift! No way it would make me feel unsafe.
2023-08-25 13:44:52
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Kelly Strode :
I work in vet med, I can be professional in all euthanasias but if I see a man cry, I’m crying too. We are all crying now.
2023-08-22 19:18:48
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boss_lady_sabine :
I call BS 😂 I’ve never felt more safe then with my husband being vulnerable with me
2023-08-23 08:23:39
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Acepar134 :
I'm sure the unusual display is surprising and unexpected to her 🥺
2023-08-28 21:28:48
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user6551706198148 :
it actually feels so attractive and I definitely feel closer and special. These moments will somehow make you more supportive and understanding.
2023-08-27 21:36:12
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Tiffany :
I love when any human opens up to me because I know then it’s super raw and real. I Can usually trust them in those moments and we can context.
2023-08-23 22:13:06
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HB :
Which episode is this?
2023-08-22 18:37:13
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Aye_93 :
Many men have had their relationships end bc of their vulnerability, so it checks out for sure.
2023-08-24 17:33:13
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Susana Ferreira :
… cont …The feelings, I learned to really be there for him
2023-08-24 16:09:13
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Kyle Martin :
It's challenging to be vulnerable and say how we feel then it's weaponized against us. so it's better to clam up.
2023-08-24 16:49:15
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Susana Ferreira :
In all honesty I sometimes felt anxious in those situations with my husband. Once I started controlling my own anxiety and give him room to feel all
2023-08-24 16:08:31
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Frankee :
I was wondering when this podcast would finally bring this up
2023-08-24 21:34:05
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Silas :
I wonder how this dynamic shifts in gay couples (since she specifically mentions this in heterosexual couples)
2023-08-24 13:02:43
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Normie :
Never cry infront of a women. Kills attraction. Never ever do it. It’s a trap.
2023-08-25 04:15:34
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Tiffany :
That’s because we don’t see it often. The more they are I think the more we’ll be better handling it.
2023-08-24 00:12:53
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Matt :
She gets upset because when he does feel safe…it’s not alone with her a mediator is needed because she doesn’t make him feel safe.
2023-08-25 23:01:44
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BIGxKT :
A man could be suicidal. But many a times, he still has to be the one to hold space for someone else.
2023-08-22 22:12:06
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Mac :
We’re supposed to vulnerable and strong at the same time. It’s NEVER benefited me to be vulnerable. It’s weaponized.
2023-08-26 22:52:38
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flightless_sparrow :
First time I opened up about getting molested as a child, a woman in my life told me to man up and get over it.
2023-08-23 20:18:54
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mixym :
Then they must not feel safe enough with themselves. Too codependent. You should be able to hold that space for your partner.
2023-08-28 14:30:15
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Kay MngomeZulu :
Powerful!!!
2023-08-28 17:47:41
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Blue Method :
Okay so what now??
2023-08-23 14:48:50
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perfumedbaker :
Can't say I relate
2023-08-30 13:30:02
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OSP 🌶️ :
inevitably?
2023-08-22 23:48:22
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healingwchristinar :
💯💯💯
2023-09-11 03:30:37
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