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🫧 :
ok but the avoidant wouldnt wanna read that
2023-08-27 11:06:38
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твоя кохана :
a letter from avoidant to anxious: “ok”
2023-09-22 19:34:17
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ruhrow5 :
the difference in these comment sections is frustrating. i’m tired of avoidants getting demonized and anxious victimizing themselves
2023-08-26 09:41:20
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Marianna :
Glad I’m not the only one who cried
2023-08-23 17:41:37
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Aaron :
"or to sacrifice your needs to meet mine" but aren't you doing just that for them? that's the part I never get
2023-08-24 02:17:17
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Michelle 🏳️🌈 :
I struggled for years in this dynamic and realized being with someone should not be that hard. LET GO!
2023-08-23 20:36:32
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GoatLivesMatter :
This explains a lot. I’d send to her or tag but she asked for space and I’m trying to respect it. Everything I couldn’t find the words to say is here.
2023-08-24 03:33:04
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🌸𝙰𝚁𝙸𝙴𝚂🌸 :
yet the avoidant expects you to be okay with them and still present after abandoning you, over simply communicating a little in the first place
2023-09-04 08:21:14
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Lid :
This hurt to read. I was the avoidant. They finally chose to leave. I’m working on not being avoidant. I refuse to stay the same.
2023-09-04 06:46:25
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RQ Walker :
and they won't even respond... if they even read it in the first place. so don't bother smh
2023-09-08 08:16:16
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MannyJ :
Can you do disorganized attachment style next
2023-08-23 17:02:16
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Brandi with an I :
attachments are like dogs. avoid sees the dog wanting a rub, but will rub it out annoyance. anxi sees the dog snarling and will try to love it.
2023-08-25 03:37:43
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Beerus :
the avoidant always be there for the anxious but one time the avoidant just want little bit of "me time" now the avoidant is the bad guy :)
2023-08-26 07:55:23
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Ray :
I want to say all this to him but he won’t speak to me & im afraid I’ll lose him forever
2023-08-23 20:16:38
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Badass Cass :
Avoidants are the most red of flags. Sorry not sorry.
2023-09-06 23:20:39
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VaderOneT :
I was too much for her. I lost
2023-09-02 07:09:26
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Kennedy :
these tik toks have to chill rn. my heart cannot handle it yet💔
2023-10-29 20:28:22
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Jasmine Mazzetti :
A letter from secure to avoidant? 🙏🏻
2023-10-18 23:22:34
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Bradgamegym :
So I've been healing my anxious. The #1 thing helping is goals and a task app. And intentionally making my own space so I understand space's value.
2023-08-28 13:22:52
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Bobi Boba :
at the end .. Be anxious is unfair. We are full of love and you throw it miles from you. And we always get hurt only. I choose no more relationships.
2023-09-10 12:37:13
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woniminx💋 :
I have the exact same thoughts but for some reason I didn’t know how to say it out loud. And in the end, we broke up 😢
2023-08-24 10:20:33
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✩ knutbutter🚀✩ :
tired of people always demonising avoidants and pitying anxious attachments as if they’re not BOTH harmful and BOTH not born from trauma
2023-10-03 01:42:29
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Zquil :
been such an amazing journey figuring out that I'm an anxious
2023-08-23 23:07:04
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Alexa Horiuchi :
So everyone is going thru the same thing as me
2023-08-24 15:03:16
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