Steph | Attachment Specialist
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Cora Valentine :
the amount of time I've sat here trying to answer this 😭😭
2023-09-06 02:40:04
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Nova :
Not even when I was sick. I was a difficult burden then too.
2023-08-25 22:10:03
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Offbrandamazonalexah :
What if I say “idk”? 😅
2023-08-25 18:39:07
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kathleen :
So some people can actually remember their childhoods?
2023-08-25 18:37:58
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Kristen :
So how do I work on this? I’m a parent to little now and I continue and constantly tell them how much they are loved and appreciated but I’m still
2023-08-28 18:21:04
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pineappleslayer09 :
what does it mean when I can't remember a loved memory before like 10-12 years old... not all bad memories, some was just neutral... no physical abuse
2023-08-25 19:33:09
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Otter Moon :
I answered in my mind "when I was sick" right before you went on to explain 💔
2023-08-25 19:02:05
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Bear Fighter :
Wow that hits hard 😞
2024-01-09 15:41:07
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Beth Murphy :
When I was sick was THE ONLY time I ever felt love from my mom. And I was a healthy kid that rarely ever got sick, so do the math.
2023-08-30 01:45:50
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E.Laurie304 :
That is such a good but hard question. How do you help clients walk away from that interview/intake when it's rough?
2023-09-02 22:16:31
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annakpbkplq :
Yep 💯
2025-07-29 00:06:03
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Dianna :
I'm shocked anyone ever felt loved by a parent. I'm always surprised when parents love their children.
2023-08-25 18:08:37
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Cam :
Oh shoot. Being sick didn't even enter my mind.
2023-08-25 20:06:50
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leeknowselk :
My baby book only had health records and illnesses recorded in it. My little brother said as a child “I like to be sick so I will be loved”
2023-09-09 17:22:41
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Noah (Lute's Version) :
well shiiit, I can't think of anything... but to be fair, I don't remember a good portion of my childhood
2023-08-25 19:43:20
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Χάρις/Charis 🎃😈☕️ :
What if they gave so much physical *and* emotional "care" that it felt invasive, overbearing, & confusing in contrast to their emotional volatility?
2023-08-28 03:04:32
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Work Rhymes :
i had a bad childhood. very bad.😬
2023-08-25 18:52:48
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MadameMullins :
I’m glad I discovered you. I’ve never heard all of my thoughts and experiences more perfectly put into words. Thank you for this validation.
2023-09-04 12:21:19
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Taylor :
Whew, do you have any more info about the parents who provide physically but are absent emotionally? You NAILED that one. Sometimes I feel so guilty..
2023-09-16 18:23:58
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Lizard :
So what if there is no memory
2023-09-05 10:33:52
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TheDahliaGrey :
I paused, let out a big "HA", and my spouse said, "TT get you again?"
2023-09-02 22:40:02
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AnnaMarion :
My mother laid in bed with me while I had a wicked ear infection that cost me 40% of my hearing. She couldn't be arsed to take me to the Dr. however🙄
2023-09-02 15:22:02
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MsMsm :
I was always an annoyance to my mother. Finally cut contact and starting to heal. It was never me and always her issue.
2023-09-12 12:15:56
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Elle :
Um… mine didn’t care when I was sick. She got annoyed and gave me chores like organizing my socks bc I wasn’t just going to sit around. 😒
2023-10-11 01:53:17
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Cindil :
What if nothing comes to mind? Haha
2023-09-04 04:49:06
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MG :
I don’t have a specific memory I just always felt loved and cared about.
2023-09-20 13:06:19
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Shara :
The bare minimum is not enough
2023-09-04 16:23:57
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Ccryczek :
Literally first memory was being sick 😱
2023-09-09 06:31:59
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TheLastNusta :
I got in trouble if I got hurt or sick as a child. The first time I felt love was when I became a mother. Needless to say I am NC with my parent.
2023-09-15 16:56:10
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SaltyMezzoMama :
snuggling with my great grandma when she watched me was my 1st memory… don’t have many from my parents
2023-08-26 02:53:13
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Steph | Attachment Specialist :
Hiii! 👋🏼 just wanna say my name is Stephanie and I am an attachment based therapist! Lemme know if you have any questions ☕️
2023-08-25 21:03:05
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bubi11a :
Mine was when my mom asked if us kids were ok after we got in a car accident. I was surprised at her asking like i hadnt heard that kind of emotion b4
2023-08-25 18:55:15
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Lisa B :
lol no, I'd throw up and all my dad had to say was "you better clean that up"
2023-09-01 13:07:23
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holly :
This emotional disconnect is exactly what started and fueled my depression as a teenager and still fuels it today -
2023-08-25 23:36:35
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SmellRanger :
My mom is a PT, she couldn’t emotionally connect, but jumped in if we had a pain….. it was confusing, and I’m still healing from it
2023-09-06 02:10:28
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whyaretheyalltaken77 :
I remember being on the couch too sick to get up for water. Mom didn’t want to lose her perfect attendance at work. She was mad when she got home
2023-09-16 02:35:31
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Delphs :
😮 thank you 🙏 feeling validated rn
2023-08-27 14:40:31
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emily 💜 :
Yes!! I’d play up being sick to get my mom to pay attention to me 😞
2023-09-06 14:21:07
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BD Noises :
What if it is being with my cat when I was about 3/4
2023-09-06 20:40:28
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Kyles :
I am a millennial parent and I HATE it when my kids/husband are unwell. A genuine anger towards them 😔 could this be related?
2023-09-07 05:54:07
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DopamineRide🏍️🇨🇦 :
Not even as sick…. I was sent to my room to “rest” no books. No tv. Was allowed out for soup….
2023-09-14 14:25:58
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Amanda :
I was never sick… it got me no where. I remember being loved by my grandmother at 3.
2023-09-08 14:06:51
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Lost Girl :
hate to admit I find myself having extreme difficulty showing affection for others in any way other than meeting physical needs 😞
2023-09-01 17:04:16
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Teal :
Wow, sick? Mine was getting my hair washed and head massaged by my hairstylist mom 💛 she’s deeply emotionally immature, but that felt like love
2023-09-12 06:04:21
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SnapesAngel20 :
Wow, this is really hitting home. Can you help with resources? I have had a ton of therapy but feel like you have said WAY more insightful things!
2023-09-01 07:43:06
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⚡️ :
nah i got berated for being sick
2023-09-02 20:53:26
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Kxbvt :
Im one of 12 kids. I have almost no memories that involve my parents. I literally told my husband this week that what I needed as a kid was connection
2023-09-01 15:40:53
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Nurse Lezzie :
Sometimes I can't believe this app is free! My mom THRIVES when someone in the family is sick.
2023-09-02 02:36:58
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Ava 🧂 :
@mya this is real how i feel about my mom
2023-09-05 02:11:35
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remyxgordon :
My parents are weird about germs so I was never overly coddled when I was sick, quite the opposite. BUT my parents are VERY verbal about their love
2023-09-05 01:02:29
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ExperienceLoss :
this sounds very Garlic vs Onion
2023-08-26 02:57:02
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