@professor.steph: There are so many red flags for an emotionally immature parent, and here’s the most common one I come across when assessing attachment styles. Note that emotionally immature parents can still contribute to childhood trauma even if there wasnt a “major incidence” that left you scarred. Its more 💀 by a thousand cuts. #childhood #childhoodmemories #childhoodtrauma #attachmentstyle #family #parenting #ptsd #emotionaldamage #toxicfamily #toxicparent #generationaltrauma #therapy #MentalHealth #depression #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #emotionallyimmatureparents

Steph the Attachment Professor
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asmrukidding
Cora Valentine :
the amount of time I've sat here trying to answer this 😭😭
2023-09-06 02:40:04
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novasweb23
Nova :
Not even when I was sick. I was a difficult burden then too.
2023-08-25 22:10:03
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offbrand_alexah
Offbrandamazonalexah :
What if I say “idk”? 😅
2023-08-25 18:39:07
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kelliefuller4
Kellie Fuller :
I reflected on the little gifts Mom would buy us. Not tons of attention when we were sick, she had to work.
2023-08-26 20:50:04
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camharless
Cam :
Oh shoot. Being sick didn't even enter my mind.
2023-08-25 20:06:50
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leeknowselk
leeknowselk :
My baby book only had health records and illnesses recorded in it. My little brother said as a child “I like to be sick so I will be loved”
2023-09-09 17:22:41
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ottermoonoracle
Otter Moon :
I answered in my mind "when I was sick" right before you went on to explain 💔
2023-08-25 19:02:05
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delbourquoi
Delphs :
😮 thank you 🙏 feeling validated rn
2023-08-27 14:40:31
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just_kathing
kathleen :
So some people can actually remember their childhoods?
2023-08-25 18:37:58
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iservepumpkinspitelattes
Χάρις/Charis 🎃😈☕️ :
What if they gave so much physical *and* emotional "care" that it felt invasive, overbearing, & confusing in contrast to their emotional volatility?
2023-08-28 03:04:32
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noah_cellophane
Noah (Maul's Version) :
well shiiit, I can't think of anything... but to be fair, I don't remember a good portion of my childhood
2023-08-25 19:43:20
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workrhymes
Work Rhymes :
i had a bad childhood. very bad.😬
2023-08-25 18:52:48
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lisabane86
Lisa B :
lol no, I'd throw up and all my dad had to say was "you better clean that up"
2023-09-01 13:07:23
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shara231911
Shara :
The bare minimum is not enough
2023-09-04 16:23:57
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kiss1kiwi
Cindil :
What if nothing comes to mind? Haha
2023-09-04 04:49:06
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b_anna_marion
AnnaMarion :
My mother laid in bed with me while I had a wicked ear infection that cost me 40% of my hearing. She couldn't be arsed to take me to the Dr. however🙄
2023-09-02 15:22:02
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madamemullins
MadameMullins :
I’m glad I discovered you. I’ve never heard all of my thoughts and experiences more perfectly put into words. Thank you for this validation.
2023-09-04 12:21:19
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bewareoflizard
Lizard :
So what if there is no memory
2023-09-05 10:33:52
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bdnoises
BD Noises :
What if it is being with my cat when I was about 3/4
2023-09-06 20:40:28
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ccryczek
Ccryczek :
Literally first memory was being sick 😱
2023-09-09 06:31:59
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smellranger
SmellRanger :
My mom is a PT, she couldn’t emotionally connect, but jumped in if we had a pain….. it was confusing, and I’m still healing from it
2023-09-06 02:10:28
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elauriec7
Laurie C, PMHNP :
That is such a good but hard question. How do you help clients walk away from that interview/intake when it's rough?
2023-09-02 22:16:31
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bubi11a
bubi11a :
Mine was when my mom asked if us kids were ok after we got in a car accident. I was surprised at her asking like i hadnt heard that kind of emotion b4
2023-08-25 18:55:15
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thegreenvilleesthetician
Amanda :
I was never sick… it got me no where. I remember being loved by my grandmother at 3.
2023-09-08 14:06:51
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