@annoying_ghostt: And I can’t even back out cuz they said they feel safe when they vent to me, they still venting to me to this day. How the table has turned 😭 . #ventaccount #vent #ventingpost #ventart #artaccount #doodle #therapistfriend? #help
The experience thing is only just to let people know they’re not alone. You interpreted it wrong.
2023-08-27 17:29:56
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🎶 :
people do that to make you feel like they can relate with you and that your aren’t alone.
2023-08-27 20:02:04
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⸸ chio ⸸ :
"they're just trying make you feel less alone"
**they constantly only talk about themselves and you have to end up comforting them**
2023-08-31 23:56:30
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Miranda Frisk142 :
same... I'm hej therapist friend and is mostly the quiet and sleepy cat of the group, but when I finally speak about my problems someone always makes it about themselves or dissmis it with "but I.."
2024-08-07 11:51:46
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KADELIKES2DRAW>:D :
aw man I do that now I feel bad 😭
2023-08-27 17:17:56
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went missing🇵🇸 :
i talk about my experience just to give them advices, i don't really vent because i know that it may be annoying for them if they were the one that's venting
2024-03-07 13:53:16
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Friendly_Ronin :
I’m the perfect therapist friend. I have the most mundane and uneventful life. Yes I have my own experiences as a person but they aren’t special.
2023-08-27 22:34:26
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Athena :
"same" *starts to say their experience* is so real that's why I don't like to open up
2024-06-06 23:52:49
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🦭Rainnisxoxo🎢🌀 :
-Hey smth happened
-Whatsupp?
-telling it and in the middle of it*
-Ohh yeah ı understand you that also happened to me*they tell their story instead*
2023-08-30 13:33:32
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CakesDespair☆ :
sometimes I try to relate with people (i'm autistic) to show them I understand, but I never over share about it and make sure im able to be there for-
2023-10-06 09:56:28
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SOAP<3🎢🐀 :
To the people commenting “they only do this to make u feel not alone” that can be true but if that’s the case then u have to not make it ALL about urself, soon the conversation back around-
2024-04-22 19:14:12
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k.k!🍉🇵🇸 :
i do this all the time to the point where i don’t vent to anyone or let anyone vent to me because i’m literally a self centered pos
2023-09-26 10:14:36
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Triangle :
Ngl I’ve done this but it’s more bc I’m actual trash at comforting people so I try to relate to what they are saying and I’m just trying to make them
2023-10-13 18:54:06
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ok :
This is whats so hard bc i have adhd and i cant comfort without bringing up my experiences thats why i cant vent and i tend to not be serious
2023-09-13 20:52:13
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Kendrick🔥 :
I usually say "I understand how you feel, I've been through the same thing, so you're not alone" is that ok
2023-08-29 19:41:17
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pancake :D :
see, when someone comes to me about something I'll let them know they're not alone and their feelings and experience won't go unheard rather ,,
2023-08-29 13:21:15
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nugget !! :
I usually bring my experiences up so they feel less alone but I never try and make it about me 😭
2023-09-06 15:19:00
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DTW Production :
this is a communication issue, many relate like this with ppl. buuuut it has a rather easy fix:
2023-11-18 04:56:37
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S0lidman :
Does anyone have advice for ways to respond? I will say "that sounds awful, i really hope you get better" but i come across disingenuous and awkward.
2023-09-14 21:36:21
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Amiandmochi :
It's a warm feeling to be able to be a safe space but it gets exhausting when they get used to sharing their experience and moving yours to the side
2023-08-27 23:00:51
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sami :
dude im the one who literally stuck the group together and this girl is just ALWAYS in a bad mood like and sometimes she doesn't even tell me the reas
2024-02-28 17:50:52
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enanan 🦑 🐇 :
tbh its never ok when they go "same" inhate it. but when they just say their experience to make a connection im okay w it
2023-08-27 22:43:28
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garlicky :
It’s frustrating when all you want is someone to listen to you 🙃
2023-08-29 07:43:41
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