@stephanne221: Parenting psychology 101: what signals are you sending your children? Signals of attunement, or rejection? It’s natural to accidentally send signals of rejection, what’s critical is the ability to attune, validate, and repair. Also, this experiment was btwn a mom and a daughter so i focus on the mom-daughter caregiving bond, but this dynamic can be present for any caregiver-carereciever relationship. #mom #parentingtips #parenting #relationships #Relationship #family #millennial #millennialmom #childhood #childhoodtrauma #generationaltrauma #psychology #attachment #attachmentstyle #therapy #therapytiktok #therapytok #MentalHealth #fyp #foryou #foryoupage
My 2 yo will literally smack my 📱 out of my hand. I find he behaves better in general when I’m on it less. I’m working to be more conscious about it
2023-08-29 17:17:29
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Gabbie 🐭 :
This is fascinating but also feels like it explains issues from pre-phone generations too. A lot of us millennials were raised by really stoic
2023-08-30 14:51:52
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Cait 🦋 :
I grew up without cell phones and both parents did this anyways 🤣🤣😅
2023-08-28 03:39:24
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Laurelle :
This called me out, I need to be more conscious about my own screen time around my daughter
2023-09-06 19:39:34
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Cass Faith 🦋✨ :
Thank you for this. I really hope that bc millennials are so intent on breaking curses we are more open to recognizing or being told and changing.
2023-08-28 01:46:25
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Enchanted April :
I feel like it’s the gen z parents that are just slapping an iPad in their kid’s hand and ignoring them at all times.
2026-02-19 16:01:41
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Steph | Attachment Specialist :
If you’re thinking - what about the times I’m not attuned to my child? 😩 this one is for you!
2023-08-31 01:21:46
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SkincarewithGi :
This actually just helped me so much I think! I’m like dude I’m sitting right here but now I realize I’m actually not 🥺
2023-09-02 14:46:37
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Roastqueef :
And if you feel you’ve already made those mistakes and your kid is at the end of the toddler years, what can be done?
2023-08-28 00:26:09
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Cheeky :
Raising children is soooo much work 😭
2023-08-28 01:52:43
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MG :
I don’t know any millennials that ignore their baby while sitting on their phones. I’m elder one tho 40.
2023-08-28 01:33:21
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Crys pronounced Chris :
babe...i messed uo my kid because I had severe PPD and I swear my kid had delayed speech bc of that. 😩😭
2023-08-28 01:44:16
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danimoonlight :
I saw you mention this video on your boomers/vs/millennials video and didn’t even finish it because I had to see this
2023-09-04 03:41:05
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Ravyn :
Thank you for calling this out. I will keep this video in my mind when engaging with my son.
2023-08-27 23:48:32
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gourdy0 :
This crazy how fast it happens.
2023-08-31 22:37:50
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Synne :
I love my phone. But once around kids or even animals. It goes away. Be present. Be engaged.
2023-08-28 01:40:30
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Steph | Attachment Specialist :
Also to be clear, I don’t think this a “this is written in stone you will mess up your child!” Apologies if I give off that vibe 🤣
2023-08-27 22:31:46
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Kathia Serrano :
I remember watching this in class and was heartbroken
2023-08-28 01:40:01
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BrittBrat 🧸ྀིྀི :
I have a theory that everyone always messes up their kids bc everything is perspective.
2026-02-24 01:24:15
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Ohheyyjanae :
As if our parents weren’t staring at tvs and chatting on their phones when we were babies in the 80’s 90’s 😐
2023-12-14 13:41:37
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Darling 🥀 :
One time my kid told me you're not listening cuz you're just saying uh huh; I was on my phone. After that I never did it again. Called out! I heard!
2023-09-27 17:33:58
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🎶🦇 🌌🪷✨🖤🖤✨🪷🌌🦇 🎶 :
I have watched my child beg for attention from her dad whose glued to a screen, it breaks my heart, but I'm also burnt out with no breaks, so I watch too much TV at times myself etc. working on it for
2024-09-27 09:51:36
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Amanda 💕 :
This experiment was so necessary but it always makes me tear up!
2023-08-28 01:49:25
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alanna :
wow. I needed this slap in the face. i have severe adhd. Overstimulation is constant with my high energy toddler. I check out on my phone. any tips?
2023-09-12 15:34:28
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