Steph | Attachment Specialist
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Saturday 02 September 2023 22:24:41 GMT
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ID he/him🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🇵🇸 :
Damn the the child would then feel lovable, important... I'm crying
2023-09-03 14:35:48
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Lauren ✌🏼 TX 🇺🇸🇮🇹 :
My mom finally went to therapy and then asked me to do the emotional labor of compiling a list of things for her to work on.
2023-09-03 03:15:28
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Aaaamen48 :
? my son has gone no contact. I know what I did wrong but I want to respect his request to not contact him suggestions on how to repair?
2023-09-05 15:37:50
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Dré (she/her) :
Looking at my wife going “I am so glad that our 16 yo knows they are loved because we see their self-esteem and self-worth being so high.” feels nice
2023-09-04 00:30:53
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moonistdoescosplay :
Can you talk about emotional parentification? Did I when I was like 15 have a responsibility to care about my parents emptions?
2023-09-03 05:01:53
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katiesmacks :
do you have recommendations for further reading on parentification / recovering after a childhood of being parentified?
2023-09-04 02:40:13
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Amy Tingskou :
as a woman who was the caregiver to her parents for her whole life, this hits deep. Dawnas kids probably feel the same way.
2023-09-02 22:42:14
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Leslie :
Do you have any advice for me, a child of a boomer who experienced a lot of paretntification? I’ve done a lot of therapy, but that damage sill hurts
2023-09-03 16:46:24
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Shellatron :
Thankyou! The way you explain this clarifies and connects alot of dots.
2023-09-03 02:24:10
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Amberley ✨️ :
Question. Is asking for help with menial tasks like with a preface of "Would you do me a favor, or help me" do the parentrification thing?
2023-09-12 14:42:49
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M.J.701 :
Eventually children become caregivers to their parents when in their old age (before death), and it's one of the hardest things to go through. 😔
2023-09-03 12:00:49
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zayneborg :
I'm a disabled single parent without support systems, my son is 6. he does sometimes need to help me with tasks, but overall he gets to be a kid, how
2023-09-03 20:35:20
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Kim :
My parentification was a huge source of my BPD. Through therapy, I’ve healed this issue (and no longer meet criteria).
2023-09-25 04:24:55
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Integrity matters :
Wow. I think this is the cycle I’m stuck in. I was SUPER parentified as a child and while I am aware to not repeat it, I am identifying lingering 1)
2023-09-12 17:53:35
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Alyssa A :
this makes me wonder if parents wanting perfection is masking an emotional need
2023-09-12 12:32:20
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Holly Dangerfield :
Understanding that my parents had parentified me throughout my childhood was a game-changer. It helped me see that I was never responsible.
2023-09-16 04:08:58
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Rachel E :
I have had more understanding being a parent than my actual parents... thank you
2023-09-03 15:18:43
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madisonvahle :
This video gets better and better…. Incredible content!
2023-09-03 18:38:59
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Mermaid :
Wow this hit hard.
2023-09-03 19:21:52
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vividsbyfiona :
this is the most impactful & validating video on TikTok. Thank you for clarifying the difference! this is helping immensely in my healing.
2023-09-03 19:53:22
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IlseKV :
Om curious how disability factors in. I'm Audhd an relient by circumstance on my mom as caregiver, yet she's been terribly abusive and neglectfull my
2023-09-03 12:59:15
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user4231759427066 :
How do I repair / heal the damage I cause a child by improperly parenting them?
2023-09-23 16:33:46
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Ang bananas :
really wish someone would send this to my mum 😭 she would probably just dismiss it though anyway because the problem is never her
2023-09-05 10:00:22
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Nicole Del Mar :
Started therapy. Your last statements made me burst into tears. I want to be better for my kid and be there for her emotionally, unlike my parents.
2023-09-08 15:14:03
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Alixandra :
Tysm for this! My mom said “At least I waited until you were grown to f you up!” I couldn’t figure out why I still feel 6 yrs old at 40.
2023-09-05 16:07:49
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