@hayleyrawle: I can’t stop thinking about what an awful distortion of “love” to ultimately manipulate and control #8passengersruby #rubyfrankearrested #rubyfrankecult #postmormonmentalhealth #exmormoncommunity

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marlindley
Marlindley :
You spoke to this so well. Honestly so heartbreaking.
2023-09-13 03:13:53
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sarahdavis806
Sarah Davis :
I love this and love you! Thanks for always articulating things so perfectly! 👏🏻
2023-09-13 02:21:40
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nikki.nokia
Nikki Nokia :
yes also there's always the over explanations like the stories about oh someone got stabbed but lived bc they wore garments
2023-09-14 17:43:56
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thekylierussell
❤️‍🔥Kylie Russell❤️‍🔥 :
I swear there is a therapy to leaving the church pipeline because you learn how to actually love yourself and there’s a huge disconnect there 😂😩
2023-09-13 20:40:50
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kansasman1876
Kansas Man82 :
well done 👍
2023-09-13 12:52:07
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betsylikethecow
Betsy :
Right!!!
2023-09-13 19:27:41
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miabellabradley
miabella :
Yess yess this makes so much sense!
2023-09-14 01:03:46
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kristencarol
Kristen Carol :
👏👏👏
2023-09-13 17:39:19
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nattybond
Natalie B :
Ugh. Your verbalizing my thoughts so perfectly yet again!
2023-09-13 02:31:38
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hayleyrawle
Hayley Rawle :
I think we need to talk about the Mormon glorification of suffering next.
2023-09-13 02:25:35
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azbeckerfarm
azbeckerfarm :
This is spot on. I was taught “Heavenly Father” gives you hardships because he knows you can handle it. Gee thanks jerk!
2023-09-13 02:22:49
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beckyconnolly8
beckyconnolly8 :
Yes. For sure. Mormon God is authoritarian. And our way of showing love was compliance/ obedience, service & sacrifice.
2023-09-13 02:21:35
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hugsnpugs14
hugsnpugs :
God ignoring my free will and making me take a path a hated? that's supposed to be "love"? Hell no 😆
2023-09-13 02:20:22
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jessthehoneybadger
Jessie Roeker :
She is a narcissist who is unable to actually love anyone. The Mormon church functions the same way and uses this rhetoric to justify.
2023-09-13 02:25:52
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itsjamilah
jamilah :
Please tell me you have a book or a podcast. You are so articulate and well spoken
2023-09-13 21:46:56
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allentrumbo719
Allen Trumbo719 :
remember when we were being forged in fire 😂🔥
2023-09-13 02:33:32
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bryley.tay
bryley.tay :
Currently working through this exact thing. 💔
2023-09-17 21:35:52
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chelseadelgado_
Chelsea Delgado | Mom Life :
I’m so glad I’m not the only one who felt this way. So validating. 🫶🏼
2023-09-17 19:18:34
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lceleven
LauraC :
I think when women are taught to accept control and abuse from men as “love” it can easily transfer to the same treatment of children. Religion 🤬
2023-09-13 12:47:21
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thekylierussell
❤️‍🔥Kylie Russell❤️‍🔥 :
Yes, yes, yes and yes again.
2023-09-13 20:35:43
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kyliekatich
Kyliekatich :
👏👏👏
2023-09-13 03:37:23
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orangetableco
Julia | The Orange Table :
Would you ever consider learning who Jesus actually is? Mormonism seems so far from the beautiful Jesus I know. It’s all so cultish and wrong.
2023-09-29 04:01:48
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cassscroggins
Cassie Scroggins | Mom Life :
This
2023-09-19 07:21:23
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thewonderginger
Candace Frisbie :
Even though I'm at peace now, there's a part of me that feels like I shouldn't be
2023-09-16 21:25:15
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theqcrew
KatyQ :
Totally! Let’s stop teaching people that blind obedience is the highest form of respect!
2023-09-16 19:53:28
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jaymeshiffy
jaymeshiffy :
Oh my god. Exactly.
2023-09-15 06:32:12
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rachel_hughes
heyrachelhughes :
So well said. 🫶🏻 I couldn't agree more.
2023-09-14 03:55:33
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manysunlitdays
Mandy :
I relate so so so much as a deconstructing evangelical. There’s this weird martyrdom around “suffering” in the church and no wonder they’re all
2023-09-14 00:30:09
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chastidygillaspy
Chastidy 😍 :
Explained well……… like the concept of staying in an unhealthy and\or abusive relationship because that’s what God means for me to do
2023-09-13 18:42:33
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mnelizabethj
MNElizabethJ 🆘🇺🇸 :
I think you mean your perception not conception
2023-09-13 03:47:44
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carlyofficial
carly :
SHE WASNT MORMON ANYMORE
2023-10-31 03:53:02
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chacharoarikai_
♐️🐘Sharon🥷🔊 :
So sorry. 💝 So disheartening.
2023-10-29 02:23:29
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s3phian
s3phian :
Oh yeah, love as pain was a huge theme growing up Mormon! Excellent video!!!
2023-10-13 03:41:48
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orderagainstchaos
kat :
Forced protection is still oppressive
2023-09-28 17:40:54
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annahsargent
annah :
Ugh yes. My bishop set me up with a guy TEN years older than me and when he would hurt me emotionally he would say it was because he was “protecting”
2023-09-20 20:37:25
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alexty428
Alex Peterson :
my head is still spinning... recovering from the Mormon experience
2023-09-16 11:45:28
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daianysj
Daiany SJ :
THANK YOU THIS THIS THIS 🙏🏼
2023-09-14 21:52:31
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lilnuggie04
Sailor🌵 :
Didn’t she say that unconditional love is earned
2023-09-14 21:12:38
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gilderoflilies
Allie 🍓 :
“God loves you unconditionally!!! But only if you do xyz….perfectly….”
2023-09-14 20:33:30
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charlie887773
daisy9933 :
Mormons stories episode with her niece was mind blowing 🤯
2023-09-14 04:31:57
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creativebeyou
Shauna-creativebeyou :
If people could go deeper into the WHY … of how she behaved. LOOK into this religion PEOPLE!!! Strict Obedience.
2023-09-14 02:23:33
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unhealing_with_sandy
Unhealing With Sandy :
how did you reconcile this? Mormonism f'd up my relationship with God. Been godless since becoming exmo bcuz if felt like I had to for my mental healt
2023-09-13 23:11:18
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