@withlovesabrinaflores: not to be dramatic but this might honestly be the best anxious - avoidant relationship survival guide that the internet has ever seen :-) i know its long but i wanted to go into as much details as possible!!!!!!

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jayyyyzus
Jay :
as someone with anxious attachment style, not knowing something is the worst part. I can give you the space you need no problem once I know u care
2023-11-08 08:46:07
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Frankie💜💕 :
the problem is lack of communication. I knew nothing of attachment styles until this last relationship and was blindsided at my avoidant. Too late now
2023-09-22 20:19:56
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ilidiamond
ilidiamond :
Love point 5. Checking the needs of each other
2023-10-10 14:31:27
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kyliestar594
Kylie_05 :
My ex and I both disorganized attachment, but my eyes completely opened when I was broken up with. I lean anxious and he leans avoidant. All the signs
2023-09-21 02:17:13
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cosmixvibesz
CosmicVibesz :
It’s so crazy how everyone always hatin on avoidant attachment styles. Y’all really need to understand the psychology behind it all!
2023-11-26 11:33:19
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estherthebester01
estherthebester01 :
pls remember the goal isn’t to remain in those kind of insecure attachment styles! The GOAL is for both of u to grow into secure attachment!!!
2023-10-29 12:58:03
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TikTok User :
I’m an avoidant woman and it’s nice to see another avoidant woman. Feels like there’s a stereotype of anxious woman, avoidant man
2023-10-03 22:56:14
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tristen_ann
tristen_ann :
I hate when people say these types of relationships can’t work. Willingness to grow and foster safety makes this possible! Love these tips. 🤍
2023-09-21 01:41:15
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pikuhhboo
PikuhhBoo :
This was validating and informative. As an anxious, I get terrified that I am asking too much when I'm not.
2023-09-21 19:39:42
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wikanowowiejska
Wiktoria Nowowiejska :
Why is it always that i as an anxious have to fit in with avoidant style to make him feel better lol what about my needs😳
2023-09-23 02:50:10
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trebone3
🥷🏿 :
Avoidants have the bad rep and are told we need to work on it, when the same goes for anxious. Just bc you worry isn’t an excuse to not see their side
2023-10-18 17:40:45
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johnkoogs
johnkoogs :
Avoidants unfortunately can never do this… they are too selfish whether they know it or not
2023-09-21 10:34:28
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melisa_jean
Melisa Jean :
What do you do when your partner has started to slow fade. He created distance between us. We went from spending every weekend together, to maybe seeing each other once a week.
2025-02-01 19:08:50
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hauxdiaries
hauxdiaries :
This is so legit. I’ve been with an avoidant for almost three years. And as long as I kinda give him his own space to do stuff there’s no real issues. I’m anxious but had to realize some people just
2025-02-04 23:34:56
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miindiamarie
MiIndia M :
Is it possible to have both? 😩
2023-09-20 21:24:25
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moonbeam327
Mitra Wesley :
Why is it that the avoidant doesnt have to work on being less avoidant but the anxious partner has to just get over it and regulate their emotions
2023-11-08 02:31:58
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mek.lit.wg
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RUN like your life depends on it!! The many silent treatment tactics, the constant blowing hot and cold, the Peter Pan flighty behavior, the mood swings and treating you like
2024-06-07 07:18:00
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_malarie_
_malarie_ :
As an anxious person who *had* a friend with avoidance, all I ever wanted was some clarity. Need the space? Just say so. Not a big deal. But say so.
2023-11-08 18:28:44
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camalexandra97
CamAlexandra97 :
What if your avoidant partner “takes space” but their idea of taking space is playing video games or being on their phone for the rest of the day?
2023-10-16 20:43:50
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notesfromalovecoach
Nat • Somatic Love Coach :
I LOVE that you’re helping avoidants take responsibility here 🤌🏼 typically it falls on the anxious partner and it takes 2!
2023-09-22 01:20:25
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bobbyortizjr
Bobby Ortiz Jr :
Idk about yall but me being an avoidant style, no matter what answer you give anxious style, it’s never enough for them…
2024-05-20 23:44:06
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blkmajick
Blkmajick :
This was very refreshing. I only hear how those with avoidant/anxious attachment styles need to “fix it” before being able to have a healthy
2023-11-03 20:55:43
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