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texmodoms
texmodoms :
The people in church weren’t the reason we left. I miss the people. Though, I realized the friendship was based on mutual belief in said church.
2023-09-21 00:12:20
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rhfactor.84
RHfactor.84 :
I've never been hurt by the church, but I still deconstructed. Actually reading the bible digging in is what did it for me. Asking questions, thinkin
2023-09-21 01:22:14
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svivianfae
svivianfae :
100% - I left because I realized the one hurting people was ME. I was the “good” Christian doing horrible “good” things
2023-09-21 01:25:39
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cottonkandymandy
Mandy 🍬 :
I actually grew up in a church that I have mostly fond memories of. The people in my church were not why I walked away.
2023-09-21 00:09:23
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kristin_ell
Kris :
This is fantastically said 👏🏼 and your hair looks amazinggggggg!
2023-09-21 00:13:30
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lanakelise
ℒ𝒶𝓃𝒶 ℰ𝓁𝒾𝓈ℯ 💙 :
The people of my childhood church were very nice, but the very ideology could not align with my sense of fairness and morality.
2023-09-21 01:52:19
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dodecahedron24
dodecahedron24 :
And the second you leave, that so called “love” disappears from ALL of them! Imagine that!
2023-09-21 00:59:59
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neverjely
Neverjelly :
Well said as usual. It's so frustrating watching them attempt to justify people leaving the church due to pain rather than knowledge. The road to
2023-09-21 01:02:44
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sarah.galliard.author
sarah.galliard :
Excellent points and I love the random appearances of the bear paw.🥰🥰😂
2023-09-21 00:08:08
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v3nus.asab0y
Queer☭ Commie🌈 :
All my christian friends instantly ask what happened or think im hurting and need saved. They cant understand it was thru research & I feel free
2023-09-21 00:47:10
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dontputmynamehere
Nonono! :
When I watched his video, I heard someone scared to leave. I hope hearing your compassionate response helps him
2023-09-21 01:41:12
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stacieb6318
stacieb6318 :
The system was made of knives that hurt people …. This is so helpful to me. Thank you.
2023-09-21 00:49:23
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magsc8111
MagsC8111 :
I absolutely ADORE your hair!
2023-09-21 00:05:29
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tiggerzbounce
tiggerzbounce :
I admire your kindness and empathy towards the other creator as well as your ability to articulate the nuances of this topic.
2023-09-21 00:21:01
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byenotdrew
byenotdrew :
hair is giving
2023-09-21 00:17:25
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mcl9900
🌙 Mona 🌙 :
This. Every single word. 🖤
2023-09-21 00:10:34
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kirkvalencia21
Kirk Valencia :
I have always felt a little bit guilty about leaving all of the genuinely nice people/friendships. But I couldn't exist in that system any longer.
2023-09-21 00:03:49
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montystewart2
montystewart2 :
I could listen to you for hours. You are so compelling.
2023-09-21 00:25:58
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hingebetweenheranchors
The Hinge Between her Anchors :
And not single one has checked on me since I left. I think about this all the time. The kindness doesn’t exist for those who leave.
2023-09-21 14:12:44
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cass_of_the_void
Cass Of The Void :
oh my God. so so good. 👏👏👏
2023-09-21 00:22:55
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virgleigh
virgleigh :
I think it’s more they don’t want to listen to how CONDITIONAL that love was.
2023-09-24 13:58:09
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jakewaitart
Jake :
I believe the hurt often “triggers” deconstruction, but only because that hurt makes you step back and finally think critically.
2023-10-02 04:55:35
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davidgermannmft
David Germann :
"I'm not criticizing the failure. I'm criticizing the success." yes. so well said. it's the entire ecological system.
2023-10-03 11:32:16
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northcentralpositronics1
Nixie Nox 🥓 🇺🇸 :
My church was good to me until I had a mental health crisis. Then I was worse than invisible. I was snubbed and rejected. 😳
2023-09-24 16:44:51
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