@illianaheadstonecare: If the family choses not to watch the sealing and lowering process, the funeral director and myself will lower the casket, remove the lowering device, raise the vault base into the lid where the seal is located, and lower the vault into the grave. No Funeral home that I work for will deny a families wishes to watch this process, a common comment that I receive is that families are told they are not allowed to witness, and I just find that very disrespectful to the families we service. #coppertriune #wilbertcoppertriune #foryou #burialvault #fypシ #wilbert #committalservice #casketlowering #vaultsealing #vaultmen #graveyard #cemeterytok #graveyardtok #preparation #kelleywilbert #FYP #wilbertway
IllianaHeadstoneCare
Region: US
Thursday 21 September 2023 15:06:36 GMT
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Zachary C :
I stayed to watch my grandma be lowered into her final resting place. It’s very hard to watch but she always watched me so in return I did the same
2023-09-22 13:19:20
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Wishel :
Watching the lowering used to be common. in the old days, friends and relatives would throw a shovel of dirt on the casket.
2023-09-21 16:38:25
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Megz0926🌿 :
dnt the family stay and watch.. sorry for askin 💕
2023-09-27 07:24:11
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TXRNChels :
When my 2 year old son was buried, they let us lower him into the ground but then had the tractor cover him with the dirt right in front of us!
2023-09-24 15:44:09
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Big Tone :
I always thought they were deeper!
2023-10-01 03:17:50
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Ima :
I've lost so much family & a lot of friends. I've never seen a decorative vault. they've always been cement & in the ground before we get there. &
2023-10-02 03:42:54
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GDDGGDGD :
how do you pull those wires out after the weight of it all is ontop of them?
2023-09-22 19:37:58
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Official NP of TikTok :
This is closure. Nobody should be denied this. Thanks for doing what you do.
2023-09-30 14:15:45
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Lori :
Here in NC they make the family leave. I wanted to watch my mother lowered to her final resting place but they asked us to leave.
2023-09-30 16:24:39
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Paulo Money bee :
😁
2025-02-08 13:29:15
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sheriff :
I need lowering device
2024-08-18 15:50:33
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Bethaliz :
I would wonder why I can't watch🤔 I would feel they were trying to hide something from me
2023-09-22 19:09:35
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JaMiE :
Thank you, for being so genuine and caring. I can only hope my mom was treated the same way. 💕🥺
2023-10-01 11:03:38
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Vince :
You r such a caring man
2023-09-21 17:13:56
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CC Morantus :
They wouldn’t let me watch my uncles at a cemetery for veterans
2023-10-02 07:53:39
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Megan :
Our local funeral home never lets us watch or be present and I’ve been to several funerals. They wait until the last person has walked away.
2023-09-23 04:09:33
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A.T.F. :
Requiem of eternal repose. So dignified. So respectful. Amen to life…. Peace🙏🏻
2023-09-22 12:20:50
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Thomas Cooke :
Very respectful. Thank you.
2023-09-21 23:54:17
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❤️ RosaLuvzYa❤️ :
I wish they would allow us to watch this process where I am from. It's the last time we see our loved one. 🥺
2023-10-01 15:00:23
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Brandi :
We buried my dad a week ago today. The gentlemen working only continued the process because we asked them to. Then they shoveled by hand until we left
2023-10-01 03:33:27
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ZannaStutzmanShirkey :
I watched everything with my son last year, hardest thing in my life by far.
2023-09-30 20:44:56
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Captaincavegirrrl :
I don’t know how I got on this page but I needed to be here. I lost my 4th patient of the month today. It’s nice to see how careful they’re treated
2023-09-30 05:57:23
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Angiep87 :
I live in southern Louisiana. Our loved ones are buried in mausoleums. What is your opinion on that process compared to lowering into a grave?
2023-09-27 04:16:55
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Sandro :
Quel professionnalisme bravo 👍 respect
2023-09-26 16:31:20
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jamesrainey286 :
I have helped lower and in some cases we shoveled the dirt in the grave.
2023-09-21 21:13:19
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Badotom :
I would like to ask if any fault is actually 100% air and water tight?
2023-11-12 16:45:34
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nina_dawel :
Ihr macht das sehr liebevoll
2023-10-30 05:49:37
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nina_dawel :
In Deutschland gibt es leider solch einen Gewölbe nicht da wird nur der Sarg allein in das Grab herab gelassen und man steht dabei . 😏
2023-10-30 05:49:28
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Sabrina Hala :
Respect
2023-10-20 10:03:38
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StevieMay2020 :
So there is a coffin and another box that it is put inside of before being buried? In Australia the coffin goes directly into the ground
2023-10-04 12:39:39
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Dink :
I stay until the dirt has covered my love ones casket
2023-10-03 03:43:03
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md9trose :
I don’t know who this is but I’m crying.
2023-10-03 00:57:00
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David Harris :
Im in California, if someone told me I could not be there to the end of it, they better call the cops because I’m not leaving!
2023-10-02 21:45:08
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kenkenny490 :
Never seen a coffin in a coffin before. Definitely not practiced here. Wicker for me on my big day.
2023-10-02 08:25:07
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AshBash :
Do all Americans do it like this? We lower them in by hand. The family members do it
2023-10-02 08:05:45
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Anthony Valderas :
I stayed to watch my friend get buried I stayed for the whole time till everybody left
2023-10-01 20:56:29
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Alex :
RIP x
2023-10-01 20:45:13
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__DEcomp__STAIN__ :
They should stop this due to the possibility of the equipment failing which happened to me twice. Regardless of how it’s upkeep is done it’s still p
2023-10-01 19:12:37
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True North Muskoka🇨🇦 :
Its a shame you have to dump dirt on top now. A stone lid on top of the hole would seem so much nicer.
2023-10-01 18:14:27
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💙Sinful Magic💙 :
We were allotted 10 minutes at the national cemetery for my daddy and weren't even allowed at his actual grave site. The VA is heartless.
2023-10-01 07:25:49
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Shannon McFarland :
My army sister buried her son this year and we stayed until the last grain of dirt was patted down…
2023-10-01 04:44:33
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💕💕🫶🏻🫶🏻💕💕 :
I live in California and it’s not allowed 🥺
2023-10-01 03:38:50
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Amber :
My brother was buried at the Abraham Lincoln Cemetery last October and we were told that we can’t see the burial process. It was a bit disappointing.
2023-10-01 00:43:16
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Bri Bri :
I always wondered how this happened.
2023-09-30 23:20:13
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Danya Katz :
Just amazing.
2023-09-30 22:18:12
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andrea briscoe :
I'm intrigued. I live in the UK and coffins are lowered directly into the grave-no vaults.
2023-09-30 21:40:07
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jacobstuntebeck2 :
Watched my great aunt lowered, I didn’t leave until the grave was filled, powerful stuff man
2023-09-30 20:46:58
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Shantelle :
Wasnt allowed to watch my gramma be lowered. So i parked my car around the corner and they still made me leave. Ill never forget it
2023-09-30 19:15:12
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Dawn :
I watch as they lowered my Grandma, she was my last Grandparent, it gave me such peace to witness ❤️
2023-09-30 16:41:12
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CastroJ68 :
how do the Pallbearer's place the casket with no room on the left side?
2023-09-30 14:49:30
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