@illianaheadstonecare: If the family choses not to watch the sealing and lowering process, the funeral director and myself will lower the casket, remove the lowering device, raise the vault base into the lid where the seal is located, and lower the vault into the grave. No Funeral home that I work for will deny a families wishes to watch this process, a common comment that I receive is that families are told they are not allowed to witness, and I just find that very disrespectful to the families we service. #coppertriune #wilbertcoppertriune #foryou #burialvault #fypシ #wilbert #committalservice #casketlowering #vaultsealing #vaultmen #graveyard #cemeterytok #graveyardtok #preparation #kelleywilbert #FYP #wilbertway

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theoriginalbev
Zachary C :
I stayed to watch my grandma be lowered into her final resting place. It’s very hard to watch but she always watched me so in return I did the same
2023-09-22 13:19:20
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wishel_1
Wishel :
Watching the lowering used to be common. in the old days, friends and relatives would throw a shovel of dirt on the casket.
2023-09-21 16:38:25
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megz0926
Megz0926🌿 :
dnt the family stay and watch.. sorry for askin 💕
2023-09-27 07:24:11
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txrnchels
TXRNChels :
When my 2 year old son was buried, they let us lower him into the ground but then had the tractor cover him with the dirt right in front of us!
2023-09-24 15:44:09
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tonyfe7
Big Tone :
I always thought they were deeper!
2023-10-01 03:17:50
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mastiffmawma
Ima :
I've lost so much family & a lot of friends. I've never seen a decorative vault. they've always been cement & in the ground before we get there. &
2023-10-02 03:42:54
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c8d1e6f
GDDGGDGD :
how do you pull those wires out after the weight of it all is ontop of them?
2023-09-22 19:37:58
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officialnpoftiktok
Official NP of TikTok :
This is closure. Nobody should be denied this. Thanks for doing what you do.
2023-09-30 14:15:45
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bama_girl78
Lori :
Here in NC they make the family leave. I wanted to watch my mother lowered to her final resting place but they asked us to leave.
2023-09-30 16:24:39
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paulomoneybee241
Paulo Money bee :
😁
2025-02-08 13:29:15
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sheriff1203
sheriff :
I need lowering device
2024-08-18 15:50:33
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chiquis__520
Bethaliz :
I would wonder why I can't watch🤔 I would feel they were trying to hide something from me
2023-09-22 19:09:35
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jl.springer7997
JaMiE :
Thank you, for being so genuine and caring. I can only hope my mom was treated the same way. 💕🥺
2023-10-01 11:03:38
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thatitalianguy00
Vince :
You r such a caring man
2023-09-21 17:13:56
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cc_morantus
CC Morantus :
They wouldn’t let me watch my uncles at a cemetery for veterans
2023-10-02 07:53:39
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megwag22
Megan :
Our local funeral home never lets us watch or be present and I’ve been to several funerals. They wait until the last person has walked away.
2023-09-23 04:09:33
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from.afar
A.T.F. :
Requiem of eternal repose. So dignified. So respectful. Amen to life…. Peace🙏🏻
2023-09-22 12:20:50
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thomascooke02
Thomas Cooke :
Very respectful. Thank you.
2023-09-21 23:54:17
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rosaluvzya
❤️ RosaLuvzYa❤️ :
I wish they would allow us to watch this process where I am from. It's the last time we see our loved one. 🥺
2023-10-01 15:00:23
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brannilouwho
Brandi :
We buried my dad a week ago today. The gentlemen working only continued the process because we asked them to. Then they shoveled by hand until we left
2023-10-01 03:33:27
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zambam2003
ZannaStutzmanShirkey :
I watched everything with my son last year, hardest thing in my life by far.
2023-09-30 20:44:56
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captaincavegirrrl
Captaincavegirrrl :
I don’t know how I got on this page but I needed to be here. I lost my 4th patient of the month today. It’s nice to see how careful they’re treated
2023-09-30 05:57:23
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angiep8787
Angiep87 :
I live in southern Louisiana. Our loved ones are buried in mausoleums. What is your opinion on that process compared to lowering into a grave?
2023-09-27 04:16:55
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tisan68
Sandro :
Quel professionnalisme bravo 👍 respect
2023-09-26 16:31:20
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jamesrainey286
jamesrainey286 :
I have helped lower and in some cases we shoveled the dirt in the grave.
2023-09-21 21:13:19
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user5945182858027
Badotom :
I would like to ask if any fault is actually 100% air and water tight?
2023-11-12 16:45:34
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nina_dawel
nina_dawel :
Ihr macht das sehr liebevoll
2023-10-30 05:49:37
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nina_dawel
nina_dawel :
In Deutschland gibt es leider solch einen Gewölbe nicht da wird nur der Sarg allein in das Grab herab gelassen und man steht dabei . 😏
2023-10-30 05:49:28
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sabrinahala
Sabrina Hala :
Respect
2023-10-20 10:03:38
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steviemay2020
StevieMay2020 :
So there is a coffin and another box that it is put inside of before being buried? In Australia the coffin goes directly into the ground
2023-10-04 12:39:39
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willowrocco
Dink :
I stay until the dirt has covered my love ones casket
2023-10-03 03:43:03
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md9trose
md9trose :
I don’t know who this is but I’m crying.
2023-10-03 00:57:00
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mystics4dow75
David Harris :
Im in California, if someone told me I could not be there to the end of it, they better call the cops because I’m not leaving!
2023-10-02 21:45:08
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kenkenny490
kenkenny490 :
Never seen a coffin in a coffin before. Definitely not practiced here. Wicker for me on my big day.
2023-10-02 08:25:07
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__aa13x
AshBash :
Do all Americans do it like this? We lower them in by hand. The family members do it
2023-10-02 08:05:45
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xjokerkiller96
Anthony Valderas :
I stayed to watch my friend get buried I stayed for the whole time till everybody left
2023-10-01 20:56:29
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alexlooneyy
Alex :
RIP x
2023-10-01 20:45:13
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__decomp__stain__
__DEcomp__STAIN__ :
They should stop this due to the possibility of the equipment failing which happened to me twice. Regardless of how it’s upkeep is done it’s still p
2023-10-01 19:12:37
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truenorthmuskoka
True North Muskoka🇨🇦 :
Its a shame you have to dump dirt on top now. A stone lid on top of the hole would seem so much nicer.
2023-10-01 18:14:27
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sinfulmagic13
💙Sinful Magic💙 :
We were allotted 10 minutes at the national cemetery for my daddy and weren't even allowed at his actual grave site. The VA is heartless.
2023-10-01 07:25:49
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shannonmac92
Shannon McFarland :
My army sister buried her son this year and we stayed until the last grain of dirt was patted down…
2023-10-01 04:44:33
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oroz.domin.ady
💕💕🫶🏻🫶🏻💕💕 :
I live in California and it’s not allowed 🥺
2023-10-01 03:38:50
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og_retail_queen
Amber :
My brother was buried at the Abraham Lincoln Cemetery last October and we were told that we can’t see the burial process. It was a bit disappointing.
2023-10-01 00:43:16
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bthebest13
Bri Bri :
I always wondered how this happened.
2023-09-30 23:20:13
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danyakatz
Danya Katz :
Just amazing.
2023-09-30 22:18:12
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andreabriscoe_
andrea briscoe :
I'm intrigued. I live in the UK and coffins are lowered directly into the grave-no vaults.
2023-09-30 21:40:07
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jacobstuntebeck2
jacobstuntebeck2 :
Watched my great aunt lowered, I didn’t leave until the grave was filled, powerful stuff man
2023-09-30 20:46:58
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shantellef6
Shantelle :
Wasnt allowed to watch my gramma be lowered. So i parked my car around the corner and they still made me leave. Ill never forget it
2023-09-30 19:15:12
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amariyahs_mom
Dawn :
I watch as they lowered my Grandma, she was my last Grandparent, it gave me such peace to witness ❤️
2023-09-30 16:41:12
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castroj68
CastroJ68 :
how do the Pallbearer's place the casket with no room on the left side?
2023-09-30 14:49:30
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