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DobermanDan :
Your point would be valid for avoidants who are becoming self-aware. Avoidants who are unaware, are a terrible experience.
2023-09-23 16:40:57
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Joe :
Yeah it works for a time until you get burnt out with your avoidant partner pulling away. It’s hard to be strong for two people.
2023-09-23 15:56:52
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Old Town Illustrated :
Basically treat the avoidant needing space as a breakup. Grief it, work on yourself, detach.
2023-09-23 16:48:41
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Alicia(ToxicJello) :
I dont agree that the anxious should be the one to always put aside their feelings as sacrifice to pull out of a cycle.
2023-09-24 03:02:11
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that_BFE_dude :
I wish I could be the avoidaint person so I can just sit back and let everyone else do all the work while I do nothing and reject any accountability
2023-09-25 14:11:56
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Dawn Plott :
My partner is avoidant and I know he loves me but I need to feel loved and wanted too. Three years of the push and pull.
2023-09-23 15:48:44
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Noctis Mysterious :
So basically the anxious type has to do all the job 😫
2023-09-25 21:11:33
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Mindog :
Can’t there be a compromise? I always hear what an anxious person can do but I feel like avoidant is seen as healthy when in reality but aren’t.
2023-09-24 13:56:07
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Penny for your thoughts 🏍 :
I did exactly this and the more time passed the more he felt secure. Almost 8 months in and we've labelled the relationship 😅 worth the wait ❤️
2023-09-23 23:35:16
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ambernelson87 :
I agree to a point. but if the anxious steps off they will eventually realize they deserve healthy communication period. if the avoidant can't follow
2023-09-24 17:11:56
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adoroilte :
It’s insane how they love bomb you to the point you start thinking it’s your forever person then they disconnect like a light switch.
2023-09-26 10:53:45
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Ahmad Hijawi :
As long as the avoidant is feeling safe they are gonna become more expressive, just be patient, understand them, make them feel SAFE with you
2023-09-27 01:14:09
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solonesq :
So you just have to get used to being alone
2023-09-25 02:05:25
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breezy :
All you’re doing in this is fixing your anxious attachment. You will then still be not fulfilled by the avoidant bc they have done no work.
2023-10-12 20:00:05
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Jade Ellen :
I got off the rollercoaster 🤞🏼
2023-09-23 20:25:10
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Angie R. :
9 years of a push and pull. There is a time to call to quits. So I did. I found my attached person and I’m so happy.
2023-09-24 14:18:32
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Kaley Regner :
this video is amazing and it is honestly sad reading all the comments that missed the point. don't focus on the avoidant, focus on you.
2023-09-24 13:40:20
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9049467711mm :
Only if the avoidant is ready to face their demons and heal as well… I’m currently recovering from a breakup with one and while it launched my healing
2023-09-23 19:42:29
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timmuhz :
I think online culture does more harm than good when it comes to relationships.
2023-09-23 15:39:36
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Jeff :
Why do the anxious need to do more of the heavy work and internalization?
2023-09-28 21:43:23
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꧁☆Donna Juliussen☆꧂ :
It’s so hard cause I need consistency, I don’t care if they set boundaries but atleast communicate. 💔
2023-09-26 01:47:44
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Claire ☭ :
My avoidant was literally my biggest regret and my best love. It’s sooo complicated
2023-09-23 21:41:32
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Snow :
THIS WORKS! I just did this Friday after 5 days of conflict and crazy anxiety. Thank you for your content
2023-09-24 13:52:04
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mxzthecreaatorr :
This was the most constructive non-toxic emotionally mature advice I’ve seen on my fyp
2023-10-09 22:05:04
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