@drbeckyatgoodinside: What is confidence? Is it feeling good about yourself? Feeling happy about who you are? Well, this is what we are often told, but I have a different spin. #confidence #parenting

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luckymilo3
Kris :
I just realized this like a week ago. 5 years too late 😩 Working on recovering his confidence now. Hard not beating myself up over this bc all I want
2023-09-26 19:53:21
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missbrittneyc
Brittney :
Those comments just taught me my parents opinions mean nothing because they’re not capable of seeing the truth everyone else sees
2023-09-27 18:00:57
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bagelschmeer
bagelshmeer :
So many people growing up told me my lack of confidence was making me bad at math when it was in fact a learning disability
2023-09-27 02:17:28
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clovejoyphoto
clovejoyphoto :
Legit my 5yr old gets SO mad when I empathize and tells me not to say it. Any tips?
2023-09-27 01:43:02
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taylorespinosa
taylorespinosa :
Love this! What do we say after they respond? When they tell you what happened at soccer? How do we proceed & end the conversation?
2023-09-26 03:25:21
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_honeyybugs
_honeyybugs :
I thought my parents were just not paying attention or just plain unintelligent for the majority of my childhood🫠
2023-09-28 17:20:44
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moberry8
Marissa :
Nah my mom would straight up agree with me that I’m bad at math
2023-09-27 12:59:06
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usuallyjstatshrt
Usuallyjstatshrt :
Does this work with body image stuff? Can you give some examples? My daughter struggles with her self-esteem.
2023-09-26 02:13:26
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bootsmacgregor
Boots MacGregor :
I also say "it's okay to be new at stuff" and "we don't have to be the best at everything" a lot.
2023-09-27 17:44:31
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emilymadeyoulaugh
Emily :
Validation vs invalidation
2023-09-28 02:34:27
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amyjade.82
AmyJade.82 :
Math was such a huge one for me and I don’t know why my parents never got me a tutor. I did for my daughter and improved her experience at school 100%
2023-10-16 16:37:04
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marleneinmanowski
Marlene Inman :
Very helpful!! Thank you!!
2023-09-26 15:00:48
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bensakxf4fp
Ben :
Oh my god that’s amazing piece of advice. Thank you so much.
2023-09-30 22:35:46
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mrmc12918
MRMC12918 :
Can you expand on the “I don’t want to go to school” during morning routine??
2023-09-26 04:27:07
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jhoneyg2
Jhoney :
I'de go with It's ok to feel that you're not good at a certain skill, but lucky for us - skills are aquired, so the more you practice you get better
2023-10-03 09:52:59
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jamilareddy
Jamila Reddy :
I love this reframe! Super helpful 🙌🏾 Thank you for this.
2023-09-26 02:35:15
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advntrs_with_mom
Herbs_Outdoors_Art :
This literally made a lightbulb go off in my brain on multiple levels.
2023-09-27 05:40:20
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thefairedit
Beatrice Turner ⚡️ :
Aaand there’s yet another proof of why Bluey is full on therapy… you need to watch the baby race ep 😅🥰
2023-09-26 22:18:02
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kerriboomboom
user9741288209270 :
My mom used to always ask “how did everyone else do on test?” When I said it was hard and didn’t do well. I fell like just makes me compare myself 😩
2023-10-01 07:37:08
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anthologiesbyapktts
Anthologiesbyapktts :
So helpful!!!
2023-09-28 13:52:30
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rattlehead16
Cynthia herrera :
my kiddo rebuttals with "no but you don't understand its like impossible and way harder for me"
2023-09-27 18:34:26
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bethartfriend
Beth :
My daughter has never been “the best,” but she works so damn hard at the things she tries and she has a tremendous capacity for growth.
2023-09-27 12:45:39
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mindfullytherapy
Mindfully :
This is AMAZING. Thank you!!
2023-10-21 13:58:53
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cee.elle.eph
KC :
What about when it’s looks/weight related 😕 When our kid comes to us saying they’re ugly/fat? Instinctually I want to dimiss it right away. Thoughts?
2023-09-29 21:40:50
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getpreppedmama
Get Prepped Mama ✨ Katy :
This is mind-blowing and yet makes so much sense!! Saving this to remind me how to handle this the right way as my toddler grows up ✨ thx for posting
2023-10-24 08:12:45
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