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vanna_smiles42
Vanna 🌻 :
Unconditional love, conditional presence. ♥️
2023-09-29 23:54:09
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freckles1920
Freckles :
I told my ex when we broke up “my love for you is unconditional, my tolerance for your behavior is not”
2023-10-01 21:38:36
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deusmachina65
deusmachina :
every relationship is conditional. no such thing as unconditional.
2023-09-27 19:45:14
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lawrenceblawrence
Lawrence Blawrence :
😂😂😂
2025-01-12 22:29:16
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prisyphus
Sisyphister :
Ugh yes, talk healthy to me
2023-09-29 22:16:22
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alethaperry157
Aletha Perry157 :
yes, we have been conditioned for generations to stay in relationships for the wrong reasons.
2023-09-30 03:45:25
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lil_hettie
Heather R. :
Yes! AND UNconditional love is never something you ask for, it’s something you have.
2023-09-29 23:55:02
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tywest7029
jeopardyfan :
My ex used to demand my unconditional love. It was just her way of getting me to keep putting up with her terrible treatment of me and not leave her.
2023-09-29 23:35:02
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wto.private
Raising The Vibration :
💯 Rather be alone than with someone who can’t meet my needs in a relationship…that’s lonelier than being alone,
2023-09-30 20:34:15
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rinaking1122
sanibelsheller :
The only unconditional love I have is for my children.
2023-09-30 02:06:17
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emwesq
EMWEsq :
Sigh… better to learn this at 40 after 18 years of marriage than never… on the plus side, I therapied really hard and learned lots
2023-09-29 23:35:21
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girlnamedgreen
Green | creative + channel :
THIS IS WHY YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOURE READY FOR THE ONE
2023-10-01 03:37:43
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enchantthis
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 :
I'm starting to wonder if maybe I'm NOT the crazy one.
2023-09-30 00:35:31
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soultideayes
Juke Yogi HQ :
compromising with your partner is #1. don't ever sacrifice your truth or get lost in your partners shadow. reciprocity is the foundation. ❤️
2023-09-30 01:39:49
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i1245679
i1245679 :
Absolutely. Conditional doesn’t mean transactional either. Unconditional love in a conditional relationship is the ideal
2023-09-29 23:24:03
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eric_jm16
Eric Jm :
Every relationship, personal, professional, or otherwise, can only exist when all involved obtain a mutual benefit. I learned this as a young man.
2023-09-30 08:46:59
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rae_is_weird0
Rowan :
it took me so long to realize that giving unconditionally was killing me. I wasn’t getting anything in return and it was so so draining
2023-10-04 02:00:12
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inkyghxst
Naomi 𓃵 :
my first real relationship had a lot of "loyalty" and "unconditional" talks......but loyalty does not mean standing by while you are abused
2023-09-30 05:23:32
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juciejacie
juciejacie :
hardest thing to do walk away from someone that isn’t able to meet your conditions even when you have unconditional love for them
2023-09-30 14:25:51
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thestonepoet
TheStonePoet :
me at 42, why yes 20 year old, I do need a big sister. 😄 great advice.
2023-10-08 01:31:21
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jinxedwithjoy
jinxedwithjoy :
100%, wife and I had in our vows something like “for as long as it is good for both of us”. Why should people stay together otherwise?
2023-10-06 00:49:35
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3psillon
Valerija :
Friendships/relationships are the only people you voluntarily get to choose to be in your life, find people who make you happy and respected
2023-10-01 21:45:26
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biggesthaterukno
The Biggest Hater You Know :
I have limits. No cheating, no making more work for each other, willingness to grow, always communicating. Those are CONDITIONS.
2023-10-01 04:43:43
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greyspacehere
Grey :
YES. Yes yes yes. People seem to have this idea you can give someone NOTHING yet deserve everything from them. Ummm. No.
2023-09-30 01:17:03
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hereiswhatishappening
SHH :
It was me! I needed to hear that!
2023-09-30 00:38:19
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stephbrown1
Steph Brown :
Once more for the people in the back
2023-09-30 00:23:52
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cookiemonster.gojo
🧿🍪🧿 :
How do I send this info to myself a year ago
2023-09-29 23:57:30
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cadtrain
Cadhan :
guess ima be single for life. I can't even meet my own expectations of myself let alone match someone else's. 😭😅.
2023-09-29 21:26:49
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swimmerbr78
Bryan :
I kinda needed to hear this today 💙
2023-09-27 19:38:30
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barbbbbbbb
barbbbbbbb :
this unlocked something in my psyche @Olivia Briscoe @jo @me @outreachpeach @Rach 🌼
2023-10-14 03:07:47
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grapeso_duh
RJ :
only toxic ppl tell you to love them unconditionally because they know that's the only way you can love them at all.
2023-10-03 13:37:20
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deeinlaca
deeinlaca :
Unconditional for our children though
2023-10-01 04:53:01
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abbyjanezetta
Abbyjanezetta :
Of course- never love someone that all you do is compromise time after time and let yourself down
2023-09-30 22:37:13
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earthgirl13
EarthGirl13 :
my fiancée's family found out we had agreed in advance on these conditions and were horrified, acted like we already planned to divorce.
2023-09-30 16:56:16
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sadnessfactory
Sadnessfactory :
The only unconditional love is between a parent and their child
2023-09-30 02:00:54
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thehollyannemarie
Hollyanne Marie :
Standards. Period.
2023-09-30 00:44:39
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geoboss888
Geo Boss :
Gone are the days when women were supposed to just love getting stepped on “unconditionally” BYE
2023-09-29 23:29:05
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rkosheluk
Richard Kosheluk :
So wise for someone so young. Bravo.
2023-09-27 22:53:24
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chaser6430
Chase :
Love should be unconditional. Actual association with someone should be conditional.
2023-09-27 18:25:35
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digitaldisaster
k8 :
this !! except it doesn’t apply to men who leave their wives when they gain weight or get an illness
2023-10-13 19:00:50
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tex_mo_pdx
tex_mo_pdx :
learned this and worked through it over the last couple of years, and it has been one of the most impactful unlearning journeys I've ever had
2023-10-01 23:39:38
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realribaudo
Chris Ribaudo :
I think not. Consumer thinking applied to relationships, IMO. Conditions-based approach to relationships can be extremely damaging to both parties.
2023-10-01 11:49:01
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jason_jmoneymuller
J Money Muller :
Every relationship is conditional and transactional
2023-10-01 07:06:03
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firepoppi
makayla ✿ :
to me, unconditional love means i respect who i love no matter what. & i can unconditionally love someone from afar if my boundaries call for it.
2023-09-30 21:47:21
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dandilionkeeper
Dandelion Keeper :
The amount of debates I’ve gotten in with people about the fact that unconditional love doesn’t exist….
2023-09-30 21:22:22
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safiresoul
Safire Soul :
This doesn’t limit to partnerships either
2023-09-30 19:22:58
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mayjunejuly315
May 🍉🍉 :
People throw around the term “unconditional love” because it’s been romanticized without understanding the true meaning.
2023-09-30 15:33:25
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cheeky.cali
Shannon :
My love is unconditional but my presence and commitment to longevity ARE based on conditions and I believe that’s okay.
2023-09-30 15:16:10
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king.panda.rui
Rui :
I will always love my exes and my toxic family, but they don't get to act like that and be in my life
2023-09-30 14:21:35
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lrb_13
Blessing Robinson :
I think the proper word would be boundaries and not conditions. Boundaries limits for self vs conditions limits for others.
2023-09-30 13:37:26
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cussamerbev
Charity Ater-Melton :
Best advice I heard from a couple married for 75 years, “I take care of her needs, & she takes care of mine. We BOTH feel seen, heard & loved. 🥹🥰😍
2023-09-30 13:36:19
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