Kay Poyer
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Monday 02 October 2023 23:31:10 GMT
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rachlke :
yeah like some ppl are tourist and some of us are like locals who can’t leave
2023-10-02 23:43:50
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Hansel :
You’re right and I was diagnosed with clinical depression at 17 and i lost a lot of ppl cause they can’t understand why i can’t just feel/be better.
2023-10-03 19:08:39
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Why :
Like seeing people briefly experience something that’s everyday that even child me had to deal w 24/7 is frustrating beyond words.
2023-10-03 07:29:48
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🌽 :
Love you queen
2023-11-01 03:02:41
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Followboyadjacent :
As a 4 lifer I appreciate this, I find I experience a ton of stigmatization from non chronic people because they THINK they understand
2023-10-02 23:39:43
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x :
every time you speak i just sit down and listen and when you’re done i clap. brilliant beautiful wonderful
2023-10-02 23:49:05
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phatpoussay247 :
So well spoken and explained. I feel entirely the same. It isnt just w mental health, I also see it in the chronic vs acute pain space
2023-10-03 02:36:25
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Jessicaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa :
No but this is so true. One of the things depression robs me of is the freedom to focus on outside things that interest me but aren’t about me
2023-10-03 00:39:29
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🪩👁️🗨️emily🫧🔮 :
I don't know if I can ever forgive all the ppl living life in easy mode, telling me I just wasn't putting in enough effort.
2023-10-04 05:40:59
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Phoenix’s.mama :
Yessss, I have panic disorder which is not situational and is quite literally just chemicals. But my depression has always been situational
2023-10-03 00:15:05
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itseeairuh :
No you’re literally right. In nursing school we learned about the differences you talked about and why it’s important to know the difference
2023-10-03 12:36:06
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Ranchcups :
You just put this so beautifully. This is so relatable. Thank you for always being candid.
2023-10-02 23:54:27
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MIZPIG :
Thank you for this perspective 💐
2023-10-02 23:45:21
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Ari 💫 :
this! i have cptsd & bpd, and while my symptoms can lower in severity thanks to constant treatment and checking, it will always be present for me
2023-10-03 21:27:43
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wachagum :
hard to explain to ppl how poisoning it is, how cut short everything feels
2023-10-04 06:31:41
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carolyn 🍉 :
A little differently but maybe the same idea, like being a chronically ill/in pain person can’t just take an advil
2023-10-02 23:48:31
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blazphxm0us :
I totally get that. Depression and Anxiety are so hard to live with.
2023-10-02 23:37:33
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Alejandra Campillo :
Sooo true. I also think a lot of ppl in the neurodivergent community (specifically adhd for my case) don’t recognize this.
2023-10-03 21:44:55
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smooth brain girl :
I desperately wish you would start a podcast
2023-10-03 19:57:27
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kikiiii :
it’s true, i thought i was depressing, i was just self pitying and wallowing
2023-10-03 19:50:32
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Bean :
You explained it perfectly that was gorgeous and I could not agree more
2023-10-03 01:16:03
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Feral Rat Lady :
I’ve wanted to die since I was 12. The best advice I’ve ever taken was let yourself for sorry for yourself. I just spent 6 fucking months crying every
2023-10-03 00:09:05
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steph :
⭐️🏒 dallas stars shirt 🏒⭐️
2023-10-04 21:50:30
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🫀 :
Had the opposite experience of always thinking I had issues and not disorders and it took my therapist looking me in the face and telling me the-
2023-10-04 01:06:49
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Coffeecuppie :
I agree because I’ve had so many people recommend things to me, and it never works for this exact reason
2023-10-03 11:21:09
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✧ Shi ✧ :
Taking the words out of my mouth
2023-10-03 11:09:09
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auggie :
i love how you put this. honestly people who have been through temporary mental issues can be way more judgemental of ppl with chronic mental illness
2023-10-03 03:08:53
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piper :
trying the coffee enema next
2023-10-03 00:46:08
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jay :
once i stopped gaslighting myself that i just had bad depression i got diagnosed with asd and adhd lol
2023-10-03 00:41:28
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ᥴꫝꫀ᥅᥅ꪗ :
you're my favorite person on the internet
2023-10-03 00:24:40
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bex :
i spend every day monitoring & then buffering (using skills) to keep myself at an even keel. it’s an incredibly lonely form of labor
2023-10-08 09:02:56
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sarahcatscan :
this video was act rlly touching, its level of care+respect towards those of us/chronic MI+ like it gen was rlly validating lol ig i needed that rn😭
2023-10-05 23:22:00
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slip.out.quiet :
so true, like ppl say to change my perspective, but my perspective formed for a reason and i won’t just let it go, ya know? i need it
2023-10-04 21:32:54
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karah.darling :
Yes yes yes! It doesn’t invalidate either side, but it’s important to make the distinction!!
2023-10-03 05:53:29
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average neopet enthusiast :
i feel like a huge difference is the type of support you get too. if you go thru something traumatic and become depressed, people are more willing 1/2
2023-10-03 04:51:36
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Claudia :
This is why I like my therapist. He knows my depression is chronic, so “recovery” isn’t a possibility. Just symptom management
2023-10-03 04:12:59
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Evolving_me :
Empathy is truly everything
2023-10-03 02:47:44
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hoedeo.com :
you’re absolutely correct. & its so frustrating cuz then those w/ chronic mental illnesses are dubbed “lazy.” like it’s a whole different fight…
2023-10-03 01:39:40
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chrisjanae :
You are literally the most insightful person in the world
2023-10-03 01:05:20
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Pó :
THIS, ive been trying to find the words to talk precisely about this!!!
2023-10-03 01:00:15
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taylor :
love your perspectives on things always & this was no exception
2023-10-02 23:41:01
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manic pixie gut issues :
yup. i didn’t understand this concept when i was younger and had a friend who was chronically dealing with issues and i was giving very stupid advice
2023-10-02 23:40:08
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the ribster :
you put it into words thank you. It’s always been so frustrating receiving care and concern for a chemical imbalance in my noggin as an emotional
2023-10-07 01:25:39
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✨Lizeth ✨ :
god this video made me love you as a person even more
2023-10-05 19:47:38
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Nunya :
I feel this so hard. I lose it when people try to give me advice about my chronic problems with executive function
2023-10-05 16:41:15
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Michelle :
I’m at one the best places in my life emotionally but my ocd & anxiety is still something I manage. It’s very unlikely that it will never not be there
2023-10-05 12:36:31
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