Kc Davis
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Valasaurus Rex :
yes, this. I'm always surprised hearing about other straight couples and how their husbands always seem to be indifferent or distainful. (1)
2023-10-06 18:57:29
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Betty :
people stay in unfulfilling, empty, even toxic relationships bc we've been taught longevity of a relationship, not quality, is what matters. truly sad
2023-10-06 19:15:48
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Lee Davies :
the myth is "relationships are hard or take a lot of work " no, they shouldn't be hard or take huge amounts of effort/work
2023-10-06 22:04:55
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Michelle :
When people say relationships take work, what do they mean by work? I've always been perplexed by this. My partner is my best friend.
2023-10-10 05:35:59
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Jackie_jax :
What is casual? How is that different from indifferent?
2023-10-09 15:39:10
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Megan :
It’s shocking sometimes to witness the contempt that so many seem to have for their s/o’s.
2023-10-06 20:49:42
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Quinn :
I once saw a study where the greatest predictor of divorce wasn't how or how much a couple fought, but if one had distain for the other.
2023-10-06 20:57:41
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JAG :
ok but could doin the work and fixing the problems help the interactions?
2023-10-06 19:47:24
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Rachel Oberlin :
Tender and it didn’t come naturally. Jane was raised so soft and gently & likes that in her partner as well so it was a learning curve for me but-
2023-10-10 10:24:33
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Maria :
relationships can be hard and take work, but the decision of putting the work in should be easy
2023-10-07 05:37:02
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Jilean :
Would you consider logistical (house, kids, work etc.) as indifferent?
2023-10-06 19:30:06
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Nicole :
I have watched how my parents interact and saw it starting with me and my husband. We’ve consciously shifted how we interact and it’s mostly playful
2023-10-06 20:47:19
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MTWSnaps :
I feel like we live typically in tender/casual and there are occasional dips into indifferent when there's a rough patch. And I feel like that's an...
2023-10-08 06:31:01
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Send me the peets 🐾 :
We are definitely tender & casual depending on the circumstances. If I ever get to indifferent or disdainful, it’s time to go. I’ve logged out.
2023-10-06 18:52:36
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Abby + Dogs and Cats :
Okay but what if you genuinely care for your partner and yet a lot of what you say comes out disdainful or indifferent because of other life things
2023-10-08 06:14:57
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master_doom_and_gloom :
I am very credulous, so my ex’s weaponized incompetence led to disdain on my part because it’s hard for me to respect someone who can’t learn pt 1
2023-10-08 21:40:23
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lalalauruhhh :
“The opposite of love’s indifference” - The Lumineers
2023-10-06 19:51:15
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Jamie :
I think the Gottman institute does a decent job talking about this aspect of a general concensus.
2023-10-06 23:47:02
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robynjohnson958 :
This is so true.
2023-10-06 18:56:08
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MendedWings 🇵🇸 🇨🇩 🇸🇩 :
🥰 Tender and playful 10 years so far
2023-10-06 19:11:26
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KT Reed :
i.e do you like them? Do you treat them like someone you like?
2023-10-06 21:23:23
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House of Ravander :
I agree. Once it becomes indifferent or disdainful, it’s over. In my opinion.
2023-10-07 01:26:20
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papa jo :
can you talk more about how you regard each other changing based off of stress and events?
2023-10-07 01:24:24
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Norely LPC :
This concept applies for parenting as well for parents feeling “mom guilt” after they make a mistake.
2023-10-06 19:05:37
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cat :
This smacked me in the face when I used to do in home private dog training lessons. Some couples so sweet, others you could feel the bitter disdain
2023-10-06 22:25:42
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