Zach Mental Load Guy
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Saturday 07 October 2023 13:10:27 GMT
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Tracy :
My wasbund just didn’t want to do his share so I left. I’m never going to be a project manager for another adult again.
2023-10-07 13:34:22
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🦕🦖JustSurvivingMomming🐬🐘 :
How do you even start the conversation when whatever I ask of him he rolls his eyes and complains. And says “i just wanna relax”
2023-10-07 13:31:10
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dirtyp0ts :
That last part, though. All I want. Our kids, our collective decision - not mine mine mine just bc I'm mom. Dad's matter, too.
2023-10-07 19:14:24
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ChockyKoala :
My husbands family none of the women work. How does he expect me to do all the housework when I work 10 hours a day and commute 90 min?
2023-10-09 00:46:56
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Ezza :
Important to note: women often have higher standards of cleanliness because the external judgement of the state of a home is on the women. 1/2
2023-10-08 04:08:52
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CurlyMamma333 :
Her opinion should matter more if she’s doing more. You earn that right by doing more and it’s the only consolation she gets against the resentment.
2023-10-07 17:52:03
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lyssa :
patriarchy... it's patriarchy and how girls and boys are raised differently.
2023-10-09 15:23:43
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P :
Whenever I wanted to talk my ex would get mad when it was in the evenings before bed, or in the mornings before our day, or on the weekends
2023-10-08 23:49:00
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Taz1023 :
I think some of it comes from childhood and how you were raised. My MIL did everything for my husband growing up so he never developed skills
2023-10-08 19:42:53
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Jessica Standen :
always coming in good faith zach. great response and appreciate your honest reflection
2023-10-08 14:40:42
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kathygehres :
Nope! Women have been raised to do everything and everyone’s comfort is more important then they are!
2023-10-08 04:16:14
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needmoreofthis :
Would love some examples of “meet in the middle?”
2023-10-07 13:32:17
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Corrina Ashley :
It comes from there mommy doing everything for them and never holding them accountable for their bullshit.
2023-10-13 17:45:01
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Roryboredyalice :
While the boys are being boys, the girls were fucking cleaning. We LEARNED it. LEARN.
2023-10-09 14:34:47
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thejoyofstayingin :
so did you think you couldn't have a say/opinion had less value before because you weren't equally contributing to managing that load?
2023-10-07 13:42:11
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Moonlight. And. Music🇨🇦 :
My spouses problem is his mother took care of everything cleaning due to her preference. I don’t know how to teach him habits without burning out
2023-10-16 12:46:12
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khrikette :
I'm curious about how mothers impacted the men growing up. is it a reflection of how they love/hate moms or agreed how dads treated moms?
2023-10-10 01:28:52
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Rhonda :
36 years of marriage- I feel like stepping up is a big step , the conversation is important
2023-10-09 12:22:21
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Lyn :
very introspective answer - much respect 🥰
2023-10-09 06:46:52
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Smash :
I think this is spot on. My wife fits all your videos. And her standard of care has always been much lower than mine, and here we are
2023-10-09 01:49:06
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Katie :
I love the positive outcome for yourself here too, not just shame in recognizing you weren’t doing enough. Your opinion matters too 😌💕
2023-10-07 13:22:15
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