this is just a list of things people do in response to a controlling partner
2026-09-25 11:15:48
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silentvoice :
Complaining isnt micro cheating.. venting abt your partner to ppl is letting out your emotions.
2025-03-14 13:29:45
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Beckett :
most of these meed specific context tho
2024-10-16 06:12:31
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DatScholaryB!tch2024 :
bruh deleting messages isn't cheating, like. flirty messages. yes. but other than that how is it cheating????
2024-11-20 08:41:47
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.abby.liz :
ah i donโt think the complaining part. everyone needs to vent. iโm happy for my bf to talk to his friends and fam if heโs mad at me as they calm him down and give him guidance and what not then heโs
2024-11-20 17:45:12
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Mal :
No. Absolutely not. This ideology of not "venting/complaining" about your relationship struggles to anyone is extremely isolating, and abusive.
Talking about your relationship struggles with OTHER people is how people realize they're being manipulated, in an ABUSIVE relationship. And can get the help they need to escape them.
It is EXTREMELY harmful to tell people they can't reach out when they're hurt, or feeling upset by their partner.
An outside perspective is absolutely CRUCIAL
2025-06-30 19:33:51
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jose :
these arenโt even micro cheating this is just cheating
2024-11-21 17:47:15
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Tiffany ๐ Longwhiskers ๐ :
A couple of these are really controlling and based on insecurityโฆ turning to someone else for needs sounds like community? Also, maintaining contact with exes can be very healthy and pretty common once youโre a little older. Just got to be transparent about it.
2025-07-01 04:20:18
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Minty :
...I like impressing my friends? obviously, she is on the top of the pyramid, but I still like the other people I spend my free time with being proud of/impressed with me
2025-01-09 07:54:26
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gaby :
i like everyone of my mutuals on tt/instas posts and stories because thats the whole reason we're mutuals ? i dont do it cuz i find them attractive i do it cuz theyre my friends
2024-10-16 02:43:05
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Gulesss๐๐ :
Some of these are not cheating im not throwing away my own life for this person
2024-12-12 21:30:33
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jevisa_bih :
fix 3 and 13. too vague
2024-11-20 07:12:29
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Addi Bat :
Micro cheating isn't a thing, cheating is cheating, call it what it is
2025-08-01 20:17:19
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HighClassHarlot :
lol I talk to my ex for well over 11 years, he became my friend and nothing more. Like you couldnโt pay me to date that man ever again. ๐๐
2024-11-20 13:53:59
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แแแ Anu แแแ :
I think some of these are controlling and root from insecurity, but I donโt do any of them because my partner would want it that way. Its as simple as that. All about respect.
2025-06-30 14:46:41
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๏ธ :
Everything but the complaining part. U should b able to talk to ur friends or the ppl u trust abt stuff if u need advice, etc.
2024-12-24 06:39:35
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user26962864367 :
my bbsf does this typa stuff to me and he has a gf.๐
2024-10-16 00:45:11
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โ ๐๐๐ค !! โ :
It makes me wonder if I'm good enough or not for him.
2024-11-21 07:07:27
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ako :
i hope she sses thus
2024-09-24 07:51:02
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Lulu Lindsey :^) :
I can admitโฆ but I want to be better
2024-11-21 02:25:19
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Cassandra :
When my ex did all of them ๐
2024-11-20 14:10:37
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surreal_bwrry :
I donโt go to my partner for my issues bc losing a partner hurts more than losing a friend
2024-11-20 23:49:12
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Jay :
some not all for me
2024-06-19 23:48:29
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โจ๐ น ๐ ๐โจ :
sad but true
2024-09-05 14:09:11
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ben๐ :
what if iโm trying to impress my dad that means iโm cheating?? also last viewer?
2026-07-22 00:08:24
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