@shawnathemom: Replying to @Jorge Aalcantara It should be you + me vs. the problem. Not you vs. me #momskits

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beth_rene
beths_baubles :
The “you look hot” is the most accurate 🤣
2023-10-09 16:16:59
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wendel_the_bengals
wendel_the_bengals🇨🇦 :
it’s us vs the problem, always.
2023-10-09 16:19:13
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paaigemeatsix
Paige Marie :
My partner had to sit me down and say “let me help you so we can be a team again” and since then we’ve been so much better coordinated and kind 🥺
2023-10-09 16:52:42
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begrudgingly_human
BegrudginglyHuman :
our first weekend home was a disaster. we fought. we cried. we didn't do good. but this second weekend we were a team and my soul was calm. it's hard
2023-10-09 20:05:19
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ashleynichole9759
Ashley Nichole :
I’ve found after a baby I’m in fight or flight for weeks and I have to remember my husband isn’t the enemy he’s on my team and even though he helps
2023-10-09 20:02:17
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texaslil23
TexasLil23 :
Thanks for showing the resolve to their problems.
2023-10-09 16:09:26
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daisyb213
Shayne Elizabeth :
Whoa he...talked.... about feelings and expectations... idk what that is.
2023-10-09 20:03:11
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bobbielynnb06
Bobbie :
2 years postpartum with my first baby and this made me cry 😂
2023-10-09 16:11:34
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lindseyhuesing
Lindsey Huesing :
Oh this hit deep. 3 mo old twins here. I’m crying lol
2023-10-09 16:10:51
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ericadeforest
Erica deForest :
This should be shown to every couple about to start their parenting journey. For real.
2023-10-09 16:32:00
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akakimberlyhart
AmyJo Johnson :
The water killed me 😭 Sobbing
2023-10-09 16:10:37
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nhinds805
Nicole Hinds :
Your posts always hit home for me, this reminds me of me and my husband even with teenagers 😁
2023-10-09 16:04:51
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kirstenjohnson661
Kirsten Johnson :
the way you looked at the baby and cried. I did that when my husband said he was proud of me for getting on meds for PPA.
2023-10-11 21:41:04
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jaybeee0612
Jaci :
flip side is moms shouldn't have to ask. everyone sees the house and what needs done. group effort
2023-10-10 16:19:31
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daliewhalie
Dale Steele :
The little cry at the end is what killed me. 😭 I know that feeling so much
2023-10-09 16:24:28
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chebambola
Chebambola :
No but why did this make me cry a little 🥹
2023-10-09 16:02:49
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thevondyfam
Emily Vondy :
This one got me 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
2023-10-12 21:31:21
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shepherd2186
John :
Communication is always key. I would say ignore the chores, give me the kid, and go relax/nap just trying to help. If you don’t want that just tell me
2023-10-09 16:56:04
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yuriokar
YuriO kar :
You are a cute couple. Also, it’s you twice. I dunno, I’m confused
2023-10-09 18:46:53
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gatheringco.boards
Jalen Elise Harris :
I gotta work on giving the benefit of the doubt
2023-10-09 20:23:51
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bumaweng1__1
Sarah Veng :
I would have given anything for this conversation…
2023-10-09 20:20:10
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toddler_girl_mum
Louise 🩷 Toddler Mum 🩷 :
This is me and my hubby at moment. He doesn’t really get how I feel and I snap at him alll the time. But he really does try and I always feel guilty
2023-10-09 18:39:35
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m_spice
Marquis North :
I'm getting induced today and I'm not even nervous about it I'm more nervous about me and my husband after and this made me feel a little bit better
2023-10-09 17:27:40
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saralewismorales
Sara Lewis Morales :
i would have killed for this sort of interaction.
2023-10-09 16:09:45
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newpeptobizz
Tinklefairy :
😅 This has been me and my husband adjusting to our second baby. You really nailed it
2023-10-09 16:05:19
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alishakecklerbrac
Alisha Keckler Brace :
I just cried watching this and it's been years since I had a baby. this is so accurate.
2023-10-11 01:27:57
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poppyanddaisybirbs
Poppy and Daisy birbs :
The instant crying hits hard, everything is so overwhelming 💕
2023-10-10 08:09:11
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giuliadal2000
giuliadal2000 :
thats when i actually realise he would have been my future at 100%♡
2023-10-09 21:19:30
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carmynlousteau
Carmyn Lousteau :
THIS IS SO HEALTHY!!! ❤️❤️
2023-10-09 20:10:44
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sagit_94
Adri :
I think it’s important to acknowledge our minds do work differently. We like a big checklist and they often get overwhelmed with that
2023-10-09 19:16:18
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twoboymamamess
Christina Alford :
Exact conversation our first week home 🥰 We were both so exhausted and stressed. 19 months later... still exhausted and stressed 😂
2023-10-09 16:44:03
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ginaricciardelli8
ginaricciardelli8 :
no but legit, my husband asked what he could do to make me happy (fam situation, rough time) and LISTENED! We're both so much happier 💖💖
2023-10-09 16:37:56
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aligracedouglass
ali grace :
Is this a universal experience or
2023-10-26 02:20:04
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ikarlyxo
Karly | SAHM :
This hit too close. I currently just called my husband sobbing and we had this exact conversation and I’m still crying
2023-10-12 14:21:00
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alainadavis17
AlainiLoo :
it's my due date and this made me cry!!!! Introducing a baby is freaking HARD!
2023-10-11 19:37:18
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justacanadiangirl40
Tanya :
I haven’t had a baby in 14 years and this MADE me cry……wtf !? 🥴
2023-10-11 18:57:36
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kangirlmama
user3540201040247 :
Ok but this is romance to me. Skrew the flowers and longing stares. Communicating during stressful times and silly comments to make you smile🤤
2023-10-11 17:56:21
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paisleepulley
paislee pulley :
It’s like you had a camera in my house for the first year of my baby’s life 😭
2023-10-11 03:14:10
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kyliedawsonscreek
KylieDawsonsCreek :
2nd trimester with our first and this will be exactly me and my husband 😭
2023-10-10 18:54:00
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sarahvs4
Sarah VS :
Oh man. This brought me to tears and my youngest is almost 10. Those early days are so tough in so many ways, not the least of which on relationships.
2023-10-10 14:07:10
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jdub091011
jdub091011 :
No because nothing is sexier than this but I can't do the sex because I hurt and I'm tired but I really just love you so much Thank you🥲
2023-10-10 05:02:56
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philod3ndron
Linds :
I was so unintentionally mean to my husband during newborn time. He was an amazing helpful angel man and I was so tired and stressed. But we talked 💛
2023-10-10 00:51:52
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archivistlady22
Archivistlady :
Such an accurate depiction of postpartum with a supportive partner. It’s just so hard
2023-10-10 00:30:22
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idkmybffamanda
idkmybffamanda :
Oh look. An actual conversation my husband and I had three days after bringing home our NICU baby lol
2023-10-09 19:53:25
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rhoops34
Rosann Russell :
but like... why did this make me cry? apparently hit home for me.
2023-10-09 19:13:44
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thelynneparry
Mytriumphovertragedy :
You are sooooo good at your content. I forget it’s not you on both ends ❤️
2023-10-09 19:01:22
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