thiiirdperson
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Tuesday 17 October 2023 14:22:35 GMT
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Beth :
I had to tell my dad that saying things like that just meant I couldn’t tell him when someone was out of line
2023-10-17 14:38:47
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Othello42 :
The gendered perspective of language reveals so much (dark) sociological undercurrents
2023-10-17 18:10:05
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Odessa :
The whole threatening the daughter’s prom date vibe already was weird to me.
2023-10-24 04:49:23
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E :
I saw that lil smirk when you said "Daughterland" you knew you were cooking with that one
2023-10-19 15:32:29
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Littledragonroar⌬🥼 :
I fully had those thoughts until I had a daughter, then I realized I would prefer nothing ever happened to her to even give me the need.
2023-10-17 14:42:45
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DameCarslyle :
Yep. My ex. He said all these things & then ended up being her abuser.
2023-10-17 16:52:50
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v :
bro this is so real and so right but unfortunately I dunno if they're ready to process this one
2023-10-17 14:29:27
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borin_lauren :
It’s about ownership
2023-10-22 19:38:41
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wildcritters :
righteous anger is the best drug
2023-10-22 19:48:05
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justin :
it's so often sold as, like, "dad humor" too. "my daughter has a new bf, but I have a shotgun"
2023-10-17 14:29:11
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Punkalo :
Oh. I haven't even thought about that.
2023-10-17 15:45:54
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Bloodanna :
... oh. This just reframed a whole bunch of things for me. Brilliantly explained.
2023-10-17 20:43:10
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likeincherry :
Had to watch this twice and take a breathing break both times. This really unearthed something in me, thank you.
2023-10-18 02:19:07
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Shy :
Bro you are real one, profound thoughts, poetic and ALWAYS 1000%on point
2023-10-18 03:27:38
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ShaySha :
There’s also an element of “she is female and I own her, therefore I must defend her against being ‘soiled’”
2023-10-17 16:27:32
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ash :
the points you connect really blow my mind sometimes. thank you for sharing your thoughts!
2023-10-17 15:06:17
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Hendrix :
I wish men knew that saying things like that about their daughter makes her less likely to tell them if she’s been hurt…
2023-10-17 16:20:33
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thiiirdperson :
“it would have been an atrocity if it was to avenge a Boy, but since it’s a Girl, it’s not”
2023-10-17 14:23:41
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Porter :
This is a great allusion!
2023-10-17 23:33:34
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Smeegul Crumbs is out on bail :
This fantasy always depends on the victim not having enough autonomy to protect themselves
2023-10-17 15:47:30
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Vapor2 :
You’re like peering through the veil of time and space with some of these takes
2023-10-17 18:19:41
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emma :
Wow this is incredible
2023-10-17 15:32:47
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𝕌𝕟𝕟𝕒𝕞𝕖𝕕𝕆𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣🦦📚 :
A lot of parents say these things, but statistically when something does happens they don't actually do anything. Often victim blaming their kid.
2023-10-17 14:51:28
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Puge henis :
Men do this with their girlfriends a lot too, fantasizing about violence under the guise of being “protective”
2023-10-17 17:45:22
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Adonus Kirby :
Mhmmmm hes cooking he’s cooking
2023-10-24 01:00:04
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eli 🍉🏳️⚧️ :
My dad. That’s why I don’t tell him anything that happens to me
2023-10-22 23:02:35
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Victoria is procrastinating :
my stepdad would always say he would go to prison if "anything ever happened to us", so we just didn't tell him anything
2023-10-17 15:09:53
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lay.c.lou :
Thank you for clarifying this. As women, we are conditioned to see that behavior as positive "protector" energy. But that never felt right.
2023-10-18 13:57:06
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Mayhaps :
Ironic that those dads are the most traumatizing and agressive to their own daughters, especially those who question them.
2023-10-17 15:28:27
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Good Cookin :
As a dad of many daughters I’ve never understood the violence jokes I’d always get until now.
2023-10-17 14:47:43
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jamray3rd :
Oooop
2023-10-17 14:49:55
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lydia :
So spot on. They dont talk like this about sons, fathers, their male friends etc. With their daughters, they get to simultaneously perpetuate the 1/2
2023-10-17 15:13:08
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saponote :
@gorlborl i have been thinking about this recently (with vehicles/feminized objects) anyways thought it was interesting
2023-10-22 17:44:51
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josh macmartin :
I think this line of thinking is easy for people to fall into because it plays off the instinct to want to protect your kids
2023-10-17 15:56:45
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TheUX 🦄 :
ohhhh this was painfully accurate
2023-10-17 15:19:01
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Orion Binder :
“On the level of individuals and civilizations, personality predates ideology.” You find a way to justify your actions
2023-10-17 14:39:22
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BestestAsbestos :
As a victim of CSA, the people who talk about want to 💀 pe dos scare me just as much as the pe dos.
2023-10-17 15:26:44
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Naoki Shimoyama :
Is that a reflection of the violence inherent to white supremacy? Americans learn to father based on white supremacist capitalism?
2023-10-17 14:57:14
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Stinky :
1st sentence had my jaw drop
2023-10-23 02:18:20
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lovinglylauren13 :
that’s why I don’t appreciate when men tell me “I would kill anyone who hurt you.” If I were the victim of violence, more violence is not comforting.
2023-10-17 20:03:15
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Mother…. :
Yooooo recommended readings PLEASEEE this is sooo so interesting
2023-10-23 22:59:28
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Anna-Marie Shuster :
My brain is exploding….Thank you for explaining.
2023-10-22 14:38:42
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Quil 💕 :
rhetoric is so fascinating
2023-10-22 13:41:59
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roxy.cakes :
Wow thank you so much for putting this into words, I’ve never had the language to describe why this made me so uncomfortable in the past.
2023-10-22 12:31:00
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Bee :
When I was SA’d, my ex-uncle was super supportive, and “offered” to retaliate for me multiple times. He’d been abusing his spouse for YEARS.
2023-10-17 17:07:04
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