@chris_hatfield: Signs of an avoidant attachment after a breakup #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #avoidant #anxiousattachment #breakupadvice #breakups

Chris Hatfield - Attachment 🧠
Chris Hatfield - Attachment 🧠
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Wednesday 25 October 2023 05:00:17 GMT
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rayleen517
Ray :
I don’t want him to hurt but it feels so unfair that he is “okay” while I feel like I can’t even breathe.
2023-10-26 06:59:56
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metalhead66666666
metalhead666 :
it's not fair she gets to cheat her way out of being hurt 😞
2023-10-25 22:28:30
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coddan22
Cody :
As someone with anxious attachment style and possibly BPD, with an ex who’s avoidant, it now seems like a recipe for disaster looking back.
2023-10-25 22:07:13
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tokyoiris
c :
no wonder my ex is acting happy and like nothing happened after 2 months. We dated for 5 years and he treats me like a stranger.
2023-10-26 02:42:11
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bmoneycongo
Local lens girl :
As an avoidant trying to date an avoidant… it’s chaos.
2023-10-26 06:47:47
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ughyesdaddy2000
Luyuie :
this is so me, no wonder she looks miserable. I blocked her on evrything but we still see each other sometimes, I keep pretending I dont feel a thing+
2023-11-22 04:29:44
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user312938661
Macy S :
but what if they brainwashed themselves to believe the rltnshp was toxic & it'll never work out?can we convince them it wasnt toxic etc?
2023-10-26 18:31:45
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alan_berumen
Alan :
This gave me some closure that I was never able to get 🙏🏼
2023-10-26 20:50:19
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coraline_lulu_
Mari Cedillo :
Will they ever become emotional or care about the end of the relationship? Does it take time?
2023-10-25 18:25:38
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squishyhamter
squishyhamter :
Or you spent months asking for change and they never did and you emotionally checked out and were dealing with the breakup while in the relationship
2023-10-26 13:40:57
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noleven33
Nolwenn Even :
So how do you manage the situation to work things thru?
2023-10-25 10:57:59
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ajallbee14
Aj :
But it seems like she already likes somebody else
2023-10-25 18:19:11
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roryyl
ROZZA :
Are they ever able to feel their emotions and have regret about the breakup?
2023-10-25 10:40:27
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brucemcyam
brucemcyam :
i wish i would’ve known what this was before i got into a relationship with an avoidant.
2023-10-26 10:44:31
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neilpatel11
neilpatel11 :
But why though? Is there a way to help them? :(
2023-10-25 21:04:04
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nicospeaks
Nico :
This is perfectly timed, and wonderfully helpful. Is there an effective way to talk with them about these issues afterwards?
2023-10-25 13:17:09
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sorry2alo
alo :
I feel attacked
2023-10-26 12:50:40
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lacy_226
Lacy :
this is how he acts but he said he doesn’t think we’re compatible bc he just keeps feeling like it’s not right bc he feels pressure and stuck
2023-11-20 05:17:48
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justmikule
Justmikule :
I wish I was this way bc she was and it still hurts
2023-10-26 18:53:22
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bryce.davis2
bryce.davis :
Put this on my exs fyp not mine 💀😂
2023-10-27 09:50:06
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debbieomaliy
Debbie🪽 :
Thank you 🙏🏾 now I can move on…
2023-10-26 15:55:55
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loukah117
loukah117 :
It hurts so much being on the other side of this.
2023-10-26 13:11:52
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twizzymax
Max :
So will we ever talk again?
2023-10-26 12:51:23
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