ok but did you know woodpeckers wrap their tongue around their brain when they peck so they don't damage their brain
2023-10-28 05:05:35
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user711062554562 :
It’s called a bid for connection. Talk about something random to see if they engage and reflect.
2023-10-31 03:20:16
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Tara :
I've always done this except with cows and horses on a road trip. if I say "look, cows!" and you don't look at the cows you're dead to me
2023-10-28 05:47:59
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Jaime Lyn :
My ex responded with “meh” when I asked him to come look at a giant, pinkish, fat, full moon one evening. One of many reasons he’s my ex.
2023-10-28 00:15:15
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Nataliya 𖣂︎ :
I saw a butterfly & I always scream “BUTTERFLY!” And then my bf gave me a very in detail story about he accidentally ate a butterfly & it tasted like apples
2024-05-24 06:23:32
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🍅 :
Gottman- bid for connection. Turn toward, turn turn away, turn against
2023-10-28 01:39:12
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Chorizo :
Not fair cause I love birds, but if he was like “look a sports” I would not look lol
2023-10-28 13:25:52
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Charlie 🗣️ :
my bf gave me a dead bird because he knows I collect animal bones does that count as a bird test
2023-11-02 11:38:46
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Tamag0g :
this needs to be applied in the aggregate though not just one singular situation, they don't have to respond to every single bid for connection
2023-10-28 03:02:27
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Crystal Louise :
These are referred to as “responses to bids for connection” rather than “the bird test”!
2023-10-31 02:25:33
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karenthorpegordon :
my hubby just passed. He was half asleep in the dark. He definitely checked for that bird... I feel so validated.😏😉
2023-10-28 06:40:56
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_b.ella_ :
I thought you were talking about Victorious at first 😭 the bird scene
2023-10-27 22:26:16
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Fall Girl™️ :
I think this is what Gottman says is the best way to tell if a relationship will last!
2023-10-27 22:22:52
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David Rocco808 :
Test has a flaw. If a complete stranger said look a red shouldered hawk. I’d be so engaged.
2023-10-29 12:45:40
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Chel ✨ :
Yeah my husband constantly fails it. But if I don’t give him immediate attention for whatever he wants to show me he throws a fit
2023-10-28 17:41:55
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𝔖𝔱𝔢𝔳𝔢 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔇𝔯𝔞𝔤𝔬𝔫 :
but what if they are afraid of birds?
2024-05-27 21:50:07
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user♾️ :
It's like my daughter's excitement about seeing school buses. I share it so much that I get excited when I see one even if it's after I drop her off.
2023-10-28 04:17:53
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Jaymie.x :
My dog passes the bird test. I say “BIRD.” And she bolts 😂
2023-10-31 01:10:26
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gillthe1 :
Ah this is my man, I mention anything & he becomes an investigator & it always amazes me how he finds interest in EVERYTHING I mention😭
2023-10-29 06:11:42
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Lauren :
I’m gonna try this on everyone ik now
2023-10-27 21:27:04
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Allie :
Bids
2023-10-27 22:53:21
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Evan :
There is nothing insignificant about woodpeckers. Top 10 bird
2023-10-29 06:11:08
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jinx 🍉 :
this is so me!!! if you brush off my random sayings then you don’t love me😭😭😭
2023-10-30 20:04:29
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