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Julie :
When my bf asks me opinion on decisions I say whatever you want because honestly I’m exhausted and don’t wanna make a decision anymore.
2023-11-01 17:35:50
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Shannon | Pediatric OT :
It also makes me feel like my partner is uninterested or not invested in whatever the plans or decision is!
2023-10-31 19:27:40
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B Hough :
The “idc whatever you want”’is the BANE OF MY EXISTENCE
2023-10-31 19:06:52
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samiyan :
the reason Dads GET to be " easy going " is because mom DOES ALL THE PLANNING FOR THEM !! I refuse to do that ever again . show up completely or
2023-12-04 16:57:21
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Meg :
Also applies to “what do you want for dinner?”
2023-10-31 19:45:38
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Moesmeeto :
He really doesn’t care either way is the problem, he just shows up.
2023-10-31 19:07:57
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Xochilt Alexis :
When I am fine with whatever I tell my husband “I don’t have a strong preference either way so if you do let’s go with that”
2023-12-14 20:08:13
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AlisonStark :
Then they weigh in, and we present some problem with what they suggested, and then they put it back on us like we set them up
2023-10-31 19:47:50
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Laurel Nova :
put him into his masculine by saying "I can't decide and I'm starting to overthink. will you help me?"
2023-11-01 16:31:04
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Amulet :
I explained I needed help with the mental load and decisions so now he asks more of me. For example…
2023-11-02 14:52:56
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Elizabeth Hewlett725 :
Agree, it feels bad cuz often you're trying to create a family experience & opting out feels like they're uninterested & uninvolved in the family.
2023-11-01 17:19:02
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BSugar74 :
If I want to make all of the decisions, then I may as well just *be* alone and make all of my decisions independently 🤷🏾♀️It’s exhausting 😏
2023-11-01 19:20:34
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🦻Zipzopflop🤟 :
My husband and I are both indecisive, so we’ve been using “I don’t have a preference but I’m happy to make a choice” and the occasional 1/2
2023-11-01 17:59:30
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Zibule Bifura :
I used to be this guy. But now I live alone and I have all kinds of opinions about how things should be. And if I got in a relationship again (1)
2023-11-01 13:43:01
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Brigitte 🌈💜💛🤍🖤💞 :
My partner adopted this during wedding planning and it’s glorious: I have no opinion on this, would you like me to decide? Then I can say yes—
2023-11-01 14:49:57
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Q💋 :
I jus decide not to do anything. Then he gets mad lol .. I am not in the relationship alone Sir.
2023-12-06 19:52:47
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Nathalie Blue :
Idk sometimes my husband ask me for an opinion on something I legit don’t care about so how do I conjure that care out of thin air😅
2023-11-01 13:35:23
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EvangelicalCynic :
because family was involved he didn't want to choose your sister or his or whatever... he wanted to know what you wanted. 1/
2023-12-04 15:56:53
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Nightshade :
Here here! Solo parent here of three children - two I birthed the other “easy going” I married. So frustrating and builds so much resentment
2023-11-01 08:21:46
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protoman21 :
I wish it was this simple. Sometimes people ask because they want you to say the thing they want to take the responsibility off their shoulders. (1)
2023-11-01 13:34:05
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Sam (She/They) :
My husband likes to dump all the decision-making on me and then get upset that his unshared opinion is never considered or he can't unilaterally
2023-12-04 16:27:20
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HKGGGT :
My husband has just as much mental load and decision responsibilities as I do. If either of us says “whatever you want to do”, we just roll with it.
2023-10-31 20:21:25
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