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tpi klau aku mah kebalikan nya...
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sama" saling menjaga insyallah akan.... 🙂
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tak ada manusia yang sempurna kecuali junjungan kita Rasulullah nabi Muhammad SAW. namun jika kita mampu ikhlas menerima insyaallah akan terasa sempur
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jd kangen kudus 🙃
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If you’re an anxiously attached woman, there’s a good chance you’ve found yourself in a relationship with someone who’s emotionally unavailable or love avoidant. You might even be stuck in a cycle with someone who keeps you at arm’s length, and yet you cling to the hope that if you just love them harder, they’ll eventually change. That hope, while powerful, can be your greatest trap. Here’s the harsh truth: people don’t change just because you want them to. The love avoidant thrives on creating distance. Every time you try to close the gap, they pull away even further, reinforcing the toxic dance between you. You’re left chasing, and they’re running—feeding off the imbalance that keeps you hooked. But what’s really driving this cycle? It’s the deep, unspoken fear of being alone. Loneliness is the core wound that anxious attachment clings to. It’s the feeling that if you don’t hold on, you’ll be left abandoned, unloved, and ultimately alone. This fear drives you to tolerate emotional unavailability, to wait for crumbs of affection, and to hope against all odds that they’ll change. You think that by “fixing” them, you’ll finally fill the void inside yourself. But that hope is an illusion. It’s rooted in a fantasy that if you just do more, be more, wait longer, they’ll come around. In reality, they won’t—because it’s not about them. It’s about the loneliness that you’re trying to outrun, the core wound that whispers you’ll never be enough on your own. Healing doesn’t come from changing them; it comes from releasing yourself from the cycle of chasing people who can’t meet your emotional needs. It requires confronting the uncomfortable truth that love can’t fix or heal someone who isn’t ready to change themselves. The real work is about addressing the wound of loneliness—because that’s what keeps you trapped in toxic relationships. It’s about recognizing that your worth doesn’t depend on someone else choosing you or staying. You’re not incomplete because you’re alone, and you’re not unlovable because someone pulls away.
If you’re an anxiously attached woman, there’s a good chance you’ve found yourself in a relationship with someone who’s emotionally unavailable or love avoidant. You might even be stuck in a cycle with someone who keeps you at arm’s length, and yet you cling to the hope that if you just love them harder, they’ll eventually change. That hope, while powerful, can be your greatest trap. Here’s the harsh truth: people don’t change just because you want them to. The love avoidant thrives on creating distance. Every time you try to close the gap, they pull away even further, reinforcing the toxic dance between you. You’re left chasing, and they’re running—feeding off the imbalance that keeps you hooked. But what’s really driving this cycle? It’s the deep, unspoken fear of being alone. Loneliness is the core wound that anxious attachment clings to. It’s the feeling that if you don’t hold on, you’ll be left abandoned, unloved, and ultimately alone. This fear drives you to tolerate emotional unavailability, to wait for crumbs of affection, and to hope against all odds that they’ll change. You think that by “fixing” them, you’ll finally fill the void inside yourself. But that hope is an illusion. It’s rooted in a fantasy that if you just do more, be more, wait longer, they’ll come around. In reality, they won’t—because it’s not about them. It’s about the loneliness that you’re trying to outrun, the core wound that whispers you’ll never be enough on your own. Healing doesn’t come from changing them; it comes from releasing yourself from the cycle of chasing people who can’t meet your emotional needs. It requires confronting the uncomfortable truth that love can’t fix or heal someone who isn’t ready to change themselves. The real work is about addressing the wound of loneliness—because that’s what keeps you trapped in toxic relationships. It’s about recognizing that your worth doesn’t depend on someone else choosing you or staying. You’re not incomplete because you’re alone, and you’re not unlovable because someone pulls away.

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