@sheisapaigeturner: Replying to @user3594813470116 When women are the sole earners in a home, their male counter parts who stay at home do about 6 hours more work in the home. However, when the man is the sole earner his wife tends to do 13 hours more work in the home. This is why women typically do not want to be the sole provider or even the breadwinner. Because even when they are, they are expected to do a disproportionate amount of work to their male counter parts when it comes to domestic labor and caretaking #workingmom #millennialmom #sahd #thementalloadofmotherhood #thementalload #domesticlabor #sahmtok

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warriorchick8
MissChelle :
This. I make 4x more and carry 100x more domestic labor and mental load. I’m also the primary parent. I. Am. Exhausted.
2023-11-08 22:41:39
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.ashleysteer
Ashley :
YES. I was the main provider for 3 years until I told my husband he needed to either go back to work so I can stay home or we’re getting a divorce.
2023-11-08 19:29:38
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scarletxstarlet
scarletXstarlet :
My hubs lost his job and did SAHD for a bit, I was the sole provider AND the only one doing the cleaning/laundry. And he said it was "so easy" lol
2023-11-08 22:46:16
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user7056938839534
user7056938839534 :
Plus, women receive less pay for equal work in the workplace :(
2023-11-08 19:48:05
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access_code
username :
Men need to marry men at this point. Thats the only way the math will make sense. Women get screwed
2023-11-08 19:29:09
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dbreadbeard
breadbeard :
sole provider with husband who is sahd and can confirm 😭 he does more than when we both worked, but no where near where all I can do is work
2023-11-08 22:30:31
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theowlmom
The Owl Mom 🦉 :
I would be attracted to that kind of guy as long as he did all the work at home. Instead, a lot of them r playing video games/not cleaning/cooking
2023-11-08 19:52:02
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the_kimosabi3.0
Kimosabi :
So basically, women still get shit on no matter what.
2023-11-08 21:40:30
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dreadquisitor
o0Char0o :
I handled the purchase of our home from work. Then had to take a week off to unpack from the move. My husband was laid off for most of that time.
2023-11-08 19:41:07
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onetoughcookies
Tay :
I have women friends who are sole breadwinners in their marriages, and unsurprisingly, the husband always still expects help w/ the kids and chores 🤔
2023-11-09 23:34:16
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monkeysonmymind
monkeysonmind :
Ughh. A friend was the sole breadwinner b/c he couldn’t find a job. Kids in daycare 70% of the time. She was the one getting up early for Sat laundry
2023-11-09 01:30:09
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alxjac
Alex Jac :
I read that graph as “per day” 😂 and then heard 32 hours
2023-11-08 19:53:46
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adorman10
Adorman :
Generally , all else being equal, men would do less work then women. Men would choose to provide less service, regardless if a women was involved.
2023-11-08 19:56:04
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lolaf1642
lola527 :
Both my mom and dad worked but my dad was home with me during the day AND did night shift. Poor guy never got any sleep and never got enough credit
2023-11-08 21:31:03
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amandahmartin
AmandaHMartin :
I had a part time job and got more money/hours than my husband. I still had to do everything. He did hobbies.
2023-11-08 19:54:47
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thandomakhoomza
thandokhumalo :
my ex husband used to say just because he is not working it doesn't mean he has to clean and cook. I still needed to go to work for 10 hours
2023-11-08 19:28:54
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etph04
ETP 🇨🇦 📚 :
Also, ego wise men can’t usually handle it. 🥺
2023-11-09 14:53:41
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dinosaur_kisses
Dinosaur Kisses :
Yes! there's no way my hubby would be organizing playdates/meeting other parents, finding new parks/playgrounds. He'd basically act as babysitter
2023-11-09 01:51:23
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maya.regina_
mayathemusician :
the men are triggered !
2023-11-08 22:25:34
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speeders1015
Sheryl :
I tell everyone. This is how I know sexuality is not a choice. Sometimes even a straight woman needs a wife. Lol.
2023-11-08 21:46:49
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untztuntztunz
untztuntztunz :
I love being single lmfao.
2023-11-09 15:45:36
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mellyc627
MellyC :
Yes! Studies show high earning ladies are punished by having to do even more work at home to soothe the man's ego. No thanks!
2023-11-09 12:33:37
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jess1cah3r
Jess :
Women know that if we aren’t earning money, we do more at home. Most men don’t do that. They still want to be tended to
2023-11-09 03:30:51
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