GenericArtDad
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Saturday 11 November 2023 02:00:15 GMT
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badwithmoney :
smh everyone is a victim literally everyone.
2023-11-15 22:11:07
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Nicole :
"Kids need parents not friends." Yeah and now I don't need a parent and I don't know how to be your friend so visiting is just awkward.
2023-11-11 05:59:39
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Tim Gavin :
deep down I think a lot of us want to say. "I love you, but I really really don't like you" to at least one of our parents.
2023-11-11 06:52:50
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Potato Muffin516 :
my dad used "physical disciplinary actions" and now seems confused as to why I'm always just a little bit nervous or scared around him.
2023-11-11 02:31:25
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foilto :
YES. my dad would get genuinely angry and then pretend his anger was a tool to teach us how tough the world is. never felt like they were on my team.
2023-11-11 02:14:31
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Marena :
Getting kids “ready for the real world” doesn’t mean become their first exposure to the harshness of the real world.
2023-11-11 14:56:38
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Bermulee :
the hyper independence kind of parentified us kids. Even at 41, It's easy to fall into the role of parenting my mom.
2023-11-11 23:21:15
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Herpes_Trismegistus :
"I have no capacity as a full grown adult to compromise, readjust, interpret nuance or change. And it's everyone's fault but mine."
2023-11-11 02:19:38
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aSHez :
Help from parents = owing them something later on; or at the very least having it held over our heads.
2023-11-11 17:59:41
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elizabethjeannel🏳️🌈 :
You made me so independent that I have no attachment to you at all.
2023-11-12 07:54:41
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HouseWifeFlexyy :
Why does deep conversations always feel safer and easier when you’re doing another task at the same time?
2023-11-11 12:48:41
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Dagoth Ur :
The only unrealistic part of this is that at the end she stops feeling sorry for herself and gets the point
2023-11-12 15:33:12
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221B Baker St :
I wasn't raised by my parents so much as I grew up in the house where they also lived. And I'm tired of hearing that they don't remember my childhood.
2023-11-11 02:21:08
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Doobie Blunt :
the whole "we're your parents not your friends" usually inhibits this idea of liking your parents company when grown as they're still not your friend
2023-11-11 15:12:23
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HurstyF :
you're the very people that taught me help means I'm failing. ooooooffff😬 yup
2023-11-11 02:35:46
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Carlita :
I’m convinced my parents didn’t really like us as kids, they just wanted the babies and not raising the humans part
2023-11-11 05:18:50
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Sir3 :
They’re so angry at their impact while refusing to address their impact
2023-11-11 18:24:11
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Colin :
I read that estranged parents can’t handle admitting they did anything wrong so they focus ONLY on how they feel, not any facts.
2023-11-11 07:53:28
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Emily McKusick :
“Help means I’m failing” hits hard
2023-11-11 16:38:21
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Mera :
add to that the fact that any help you accept gets held over your head at any moment they want to cross boundaries
2023-11-11 06:24:32
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Elderscrolls_Enjoyer :
They took the whole “kids need parents not friends” saying so far I don’t want to be friends with them as adults
2023-11-11 05:39:53
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𝚂𝚙𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚎𝚍𝚅𝙸 :
Hyper independence removed any chance of me being given away at my wedding. I raised myself, so I’m walking alone.
2023-11-13 17:37:15
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Gregadactyl :
they sure didn't seem to want me around as a kid, why is the script flipped now that I'm on my own?
2023-11-11 02:41:43
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Sean :
My parents would *never* admit I turned out how they raised me. Any fault I have is somehow entirely removed from their influence. Same result though!
2023-11-11 02:08:48
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LPPeace :
Raising hyper independent kids is not the point. Raising well rounded, emotionally intelligent kids that know they can go to you when things get bad
2023-11-14 12:57:41
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